Psych Sexuality Exam #3 Flashcards
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the tendency to like a person more if we have been exposed to them repeatedly; why we tend to be more attracted to people with whom we have had contact several times than we are to people with whom we have had little contact
the mere exposure effect
we tend to choose romantic partners who are similar to us in areas such as attitudes, intelligence, social worth, and attractiveness
the matching phenomenon
the tendency to have contact with people who are equal in social status. Explains why we are also likely to be in relationships and get married to people who are similar in social status (ex: race, education, and religion)
homophily
we like people who give us lots of reinforcements and few punishments
Byrne’s Law of Attraction
commitment, feelings of closeness (emotional and cognitive), trust, self-disclosure
intimacy
3 components to love that determine satisfaction in relationship:
- Intimacy: emotional component
- Passion: motivation or drive component
Physical attraction, drive for sexual expression
- Decision/commitment: cognitive component
Short-term—realizing that I love you
Long-term—moving in together, marrying
Sternberg’s theory; Triangular Theory of Love
Lovers:
- Secure— closeness is easy, natural for them (53% of adults)
- Avoidant—closeness is difficult for them (26%)
- Anxious-ambivalent—insecure, desperately want closeness, but then partner pulls away (anx-amb may scare away partners) (20%)
*a result of childhood experiences of attachment
Attachment Theory of Love
- Eros—love based on powerful physical attraction
- Ludus—love is play, not serious commitment
- Storge—love that builds slowly and is very stable
John Alan Lee’s 3 basic types of love
- Berscheid and Walster
passionate love occurs from… - Physical arousal
- ## Cognitive label (love)
Two-Component Theory
- Experimental evidence—the scary bridge study
Misattribution of arousal
- Passionate: Intense, all-consuming, lasts 6-30 months
- Companionate: deep attachment and commitment following the passionate phase
Passionate vs Companionate Love
- Passionate love: Dopamine euphoria
- Companionate love: Oxytocin calm pleasure
biochemicals
priority is on the individual’s goals, over groups goals or societal goals (the US)
individualistic cultures
priority is on group and collective goals over personal ones (Japan)
- The self is defined by group membership, not individual identity
Collectivistic cultures
- Passionate love
- Decision made by individuals
Individualistic cultures
- Arranged marriages for the good of the families, wisdom of parents
Collectivistic cultures
- Australia: 5% yes
- US: 4% yes
- India: 49% yes
Would you marry someone you didn’t love?
conceptualizing gender as having only 2 categories: female/women and male/men
Gender Binary
a set of norms or culturally defined expectations that define how people of one gender ought to behave
- Men are expected to be ambitious, competitive, non-emotional, interested in cars and math, assertive, physically strong, interested in technology, etc
- Women are expected to be feminine, passive, emotional, focused on how they look, kind and compassionate, take care of people, not competitive, interested in cooking and childcare, etc
Gender role
In the more individualistic American culture where we value independence, men are rated as _____ collectivistic than women.
less
- In more collectivist cultures such as Korea, men are rated as _____ collectivistic than women
more
thought of as poor white women who are promiscuous, always pregnant, teenage and young pregnancy, unhealthy and disheveled
“Trailer trash” women
fat or heavyset, asexual caretaker or maid of the family (black)
the mammy
rude, stubborn, sharp tongue and emasculating (black)
the sapphire