Relationship Flashcards
(109 cards)
Physical attractiveness: The halo effect (Dion et al 1972)
According to the attractiveness stereotype, we perceive attractive people as also having more attractive personalities.
Attraction & proximity
-Where we live & work influences the friends we make.
-Bossard (1932) ‘more than half of 5000 couples who applied to get married in Philly lived within a few mins walk.
-More availability - more likely to meet people who live closer.
-Mere exposure - the more you’re exposed to an object, the more positively you evaluate it.
-> humans like familiar things, as they make them feel safe & happy.
Evolutionary explanations: Sexual selection (Darwin 1871)
-Attributes or behaviours that increase reproductive success are passed on & may be exaggerated over time.
-Probability of passing on our genes depends on changes of survival & ability to attract a male.
-Darwin says if a male characteristic enhances reproductive success, it’s established as a preference among females so males improve on that trait.
-Goal for males is to outcompete their rivals, mate to ensure child is conceived & ensure child survives long enough to reproduce their genes.
Human reproductive behaviour
-Any behaviours that give opportunity to reproduce & increase survival chances of our genes.
-Basis of evolutionary explanation of reproductive behaviour is that every species goal is to reproduce & pass on their genes.
Sexual selection: Anisogamy
Refers to the differences between male gametes (sperm) & female gametes (egg).
Female gametes:
- Large
- Static
- Limited years of fertility
- Huge investment in time/energy
Male gametes:
- Small
- Extremely mobile
- Infinite supply
- Little expenditure of time/energy
Means there’s no shortage of male mates but fertile females are much rarer, leading to 2 types of sexual selection.
Sexual selection: Inter-sexual selection
-Between the sexes, focusing on the strategies used by males to select females and vice versa.
-Female preferred strategy: Quality over quantity due to higher investment in offspring (ova are rarer than sperm).
Inter-sexual selection: Parental Investment theory (Trivers)
-Females invest more time, commitment, and resources before, during, and after birth.
-Both sexes are choosy, but females face greater consequences of making a poor partner choice, leading to higher selectivity.
-Females seek genetically fit partners who can provide resources.
-If a trait (e.g., height) is considered attractive by females, it increases in the male population over generations, becoming exaggerated through a runaway process.
Inter-sexual selection: Fisher’s sexy sons hypothesis
-Genes enhancing reproductive success are passed down.
-Females selecting males with attractive traits produce sons who inherit these traits.
-These sons are more likely to be selected by future generations, perpetuating the preference for the ‘sexy’ trait.
Sexual selection: Intra-sexual selection
-Within each sex, focusing on competition between males to be selected by females.
-Male preferred strategy: Quantity over quality due to abundant sperm supply.
-Males compete for access to females.
-Winners pass on traits that contributed to their success, while losers do not reproduce, preventing the transmission of ‘losing’ characteristics.
Intra-sexual selection: Dimorphism
-Intra-sexual selection leads to physical differences between sexes (dimorphism).
-Males: Larger size provides an advantage in physical competition, increasing reproductive success.
-Females: No competition for reproductive rights, so no evolutionary drive for larger size. Instead, males prefer younger, more fertile women, leading to selection for youthful traits (e.g., low waist-to-hip ratio).
Intra-sexual selection: Behavioural consequences
-Favours traits that help males outcompete rivals.
-Traits such as deceitfulness, intelligence, and aggression may be passed on.
-Males may behave aggressively to acquire and protect fertile females from other males, promoting the selection of aggressive traits in males.
Strength of Evolutionary explanations: Research support for inter-sexual selection
-There’s evidence for role of female choosiness in partner preference.
-Clark & Hatfield sent male & female psych students across Uni campus and had them approach students asking “would you go to bed with me tonight?”
-75% of men said yes & no females agree.
-> Supports idea that females are choosier & males evolve a diff strategy to ensure reproduction.
Counter: too simplistic of an idea that one strategy is adaptive for males & another for females. Seems strats differ based on length of relationship. Males & females are choosier when seeking long term relationships & adopt similar strategies (ie. look for loyal,kind).
-> More complex & nuanced view oh how evolutionary pressures influence partner preferences.
Limitation of Evolutionary explanations: Social & cultural influences underestimated
-Partner preferences have been influenced by changing norms, which develop faster than evolutionary explanation implies due to cultural factors (ie. availability of contraception).
-Women working mean they’re less dependent on men to provide so their mating preferences may no longer be as resource-oriented.
Therefore, partner preferences are influenced by cultural changes.
Strength of Evolutionary explanations: Research support for intra-sexual selection
-Buss carried out a survey of over 10,000 adults in 33 countries.
-Asked questions relating to attributes of evolutionary theory.
-Found females place greater value on resource characteristics (ie. good financial prospects/ambition).
-Males valued physical attractiveness & youth (signs of good reproductive capacity).
Reflects consistent sex differences in partner preferences & supports predictions from sexual selection theory.
Limitation of Evolutionary theory: Homosexuality
Cannot explain partner preferences of gay & lesbian people.
-Homosexual relationships do not assess genetic fitness tho they may other qualities (ie. caring for offspring).
-Lawson looked at personal ads by homosexuals and found their preferences differ, just as they do in heterosexual men & women (men prioritise physical attraction & women, resources).
Limitation of Evolutionary theory: Non-survival genes can be passed on
Some human traits passed on through sexual selection, despite them serving no survival purpose.
-Nettle & Clegg compared a sample of artists & poets to a control group of non-creative men.
-Creative men had more sexual partners than non-creative men.
-Women attracted to creativity.
Weakness explanation as contradictory research for women’s preference of strong masculine traits.
Factors affecting attraction: Self-disclosure (Jourard 1971)
-Self-disclosure involved revealing personal info about yourself.
-Romantic partners reveal more about their true selves as the relationship develops.
-These revelations strengthen the relationship & builds trust if used appropriately.
-People reveal more intimate info to those they like & tend to like those who they tell intimate things to.
Self disclosure: Social penetration theory (Altman & Taylor)
-Involves gradual process of revealing your inner-self to someone.
-Involves reciprocal exchange of into between partners.
-Trust builds and partners build trust and penetrate more deeply into each others lives & understand each other.
Self disclosure: Breadth & depth (Altman & Taylor)
-Important factors in SD - as breadth & depth increases, so does committment.
-Metaphor of onion - reveal superficial info first & move into intimate details later.
-Restricted breadth at first (some topics are off limits) & as depth increases, so can breadth.
-Initial breadth is narrow to prevent TMI, which may threaten the relationships chance to keep going.
-Eventually, we peel back layers and reveal intimate, high-risk info (painful/sensitive).
-Depenetration is how dissatisfied partners self-disclose less as they gradually disengage from the relationship.
Self-disclosure: Reciprocity (Reis & Shaver)
-To increase breadth & depth, there needs to be a reciprocal element where a partner disclosed something and the other responds in a rewarding way, empathetically & with own thoughts.
-Revelations display trust, to help develop relationship.
-Only works if both of the pair share. If only one does, & other doesn’t, it shows a lack of willing intimacy.
-Gradual process of revealing inner self which requires the other to do the same.
Self-disclosure: Norms of self-disclosure
-Norms for how and when self-disclosure should occur.
-Grzelak suggests that neither so personal that the disclosed appears indiscriminate for disclosing to a stranger but also not so impersonal that the listener is unable to know the discloser better as a result.
-The more someone discloses, the more they expect in return.
Strength of Self-disclosure: Research support (Collins & Miller)
-Meta-analysis found that people who engage in intimate disclosures tend to be liked more than people who disclose at lower levels, & people like others as a result of having disclosed to them.
-Relationship between disclosure & liking was stronger if the recipient believed the disclosure was shared only with them rather than shared indiscriminately with others.
-Sprecher & Hendricks found strong correlation between satisfaction & self-disclosure in heterosexual dating couples.
-> Strengthens validity of the explanation & strong links.
Counter: Most self-disclosure research is correctional. Another explanation could be that, the more satisfied a partner is, the kroe they self-disclose. Or, they could both be independant and caused by another variable (ie. how much time they spend together).
-> Reduces validity.
Strength of Self-disclosure: Real-world application
Research has helped people who want to improve communication in their relationships.
-People use self-disclosure to increase intimacy & strengthen their bond.
-Haas & Stafford found 57% of homosexuals found open & honest self-disclosure was how they deepened their relationships.
-If less skilled partners (small-talkers) use this, it can bring several benefits to their relationships in deepening commitment & satisfaction.
Shows how research can be valuable in helping people who are having problems in their relationships.
Evaluation of Self-disclosure: Boom & bust phenomenon (Cooper & Sportolari)
-Researchers suggested internet realtoonships involve higher levels of self-disclosure.
-Potentially since it’s easier to disclose to someone you’re not close to, as there’s less risk and fear of being judged.
-People reveal more sensitive info than they would in face-to-face interactions and things get intense quick (boom).
-However, the underlying trust isn’t there so the relationship is difficult to sustain (bust).
This may explain why many individuals who are sure they found their soulmates, leave an established relationship.