relationships Flashcards

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sperm cell characteristics

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energetically cheap
extremely small
highly mobile

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sexual selection

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-explains why certain seemingly disadvantageous characteristics from an evolutionary point of view are still passed on

because these characteristics may be advantageous for sexual selection
e.g. males behave more aggressively have greater chance of protecting their female from competing males

females with characteristics of fertility e.g. narrow waist large hips

determine which genes passed on to offspring through process of heredity

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egg cell characteristics

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energetically expensive
relatively large
static

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inter sexual selection

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preferred female strategy

quality over quantity

favoured by females as they place greater investment into time, raising a child in comparison to males

need to make sure partner is right genetic fit by being willing to provide resources to support her and child

female more selective as produce limited numbers of egg cells

limited reproductive resources

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example of inter sexual selection

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fishers sexy son hypothesis

suggest females who mate with males who have certain characteristics e.g height
their son will then inherit this sexy trait

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intra sexual selection

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preferred male strategy
quantity over quality approach
favoured by males as their male strategy is to mate with as many fertile females as possible
winner of competition reproduces and passes on the genes to his offspring that contributed to his success

e.g. larger male will fight off his competitors and have stronger sons

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A03 for evolutionery explanations

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research support for inter sexual selection-Clark and Hatfield

research support for partner preferences to anigisonomy-Buss

weakness-partner preferences ignore cultural and social influences

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research support on inter sexual selection (Clark and Hatfield)

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showed females are more selective
used both male and female psychology students
sent out across uni campus
approached other students and asked them 1 of 3 questions

Would you go on a date with me

would you go back to my apartment

would you have sex with me

results Q1 50% 50%
Q2 69% 6%
Q3 75% 0%

shows support for idea that men want to impregnate as many women as possible due to high sperm rate production with little energy required

shows females more selective

CP-criticised for having narrow sample (undergraduate studies)
does not use all types of people

hard to conclude where older, non student sample would be as selective

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strength-research support for partner preferences for anisogamy

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Buss
conducted survey of over 10,000 adults in 33 countries
asked questions relating to age and variety of attibutes that evolutionery theory predicts is important in partner preference

found females place greater value on resource related characteristics e.g. good financial prospects

found males put more importance on good looks an chastity and prefer younger mates more then females do

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what is anisogamy

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differences between male and female sex cells

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what is chasitity

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vrigin

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weakness-partner preferences ignore social and cultural influences

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partner preferences have been influenced by change in social norms
develop much quicker then evolutionary timescales imply and came about due to cultural factors e.g availability of contraception

women’s greater role in workforce means not as dependent on men to provide for them

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self disclosure definition

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revealing personal info about yourself
romantic partners reveal more about true selves as relationship develops
self disclosures can strengthen romantic bond

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social penetration theory

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gradual process of revealing personal info, of giving away deepest thoughts and feelings

in romantic relationships, involves reciprocal exchange of info between intimate partners

one partner reveals personal info, signalling ‘i trust you’

go further, other partner must reveal sensitive info

increasingly disclose more and more, penetrate more into each other lives, gain greater understanding of each other

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onion analogy

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relationship progresses, more layers of onion are removed
representing deeper and more meaningful info being disclosed

only likely to occur if exchange of info is reciprocal

exchanges represents a stage in relationship which is serious and characterised by trust

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breadth and depth of self disclosure

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both increase, partners become more committed to eachother

start of relationship what we reveal is described as superficial meaning at low risk and would tell anyone

breadth of disclosure is narrow as most topics are off limit

if reveal too much too soon, can be seen as TMI and can threaten relationship before it’s really got going

relationship progresses, reveal more about true selves

eventually, able to reveal high risk info e.g past experiences

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strange of self disclosure

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support from research studies

laurenceau used method involved writing daily diary enteries
found self disclosure and perception of self disclosure in a partner were linked to higher levels of intimacy in long term married couples

reverse was also true

strength as suggests that the depth and breadth of self disclosure is strongly predictable of the intimacy and quality of romantic relationships
supports validity of social penetration theory as indicator of relationship quality

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weakness of self disclosure

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Tan get al
social penetration theory is not applicable to all cultures

prediction that increasing depth and breadth of self disclosure will lead to more satisfying and intimate relationship is not true for all cutlrures

tang concluded that men and women is us (individualist) self disclose significantly more sexual thought and feeling than men and women in china (collectivist)

weakness as it suggests that self disclosure theory is therefore a limited explanation of romantic relationships
not generalisable to other cultures

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strength of self disclosure

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real life applications

has and stattford have shown that an increased understanding of the importance of self disclosure in building and maintaining intimacy within relationships can have real life advantage

researchers found that for couples with high level of intimacy and commitment, 57% reported use of self disclosure as a way to maintain it and deepen their committed relationships

therefore, supports use of therapies which focus on increasing the depth and breadth of self disclosure for couples who struggle with intimacy as well as trust within relationship
also increases validity if social penetration theory

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physical attractiveness

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shackelford and larson found that people were classed as more attractive if they had

symmetrical faces because may be honest signal of genetic fitness(harder to fake)

baby face features e.g smooth chin, small nose. widely separated large eyes, trigger a protective and caring instinct, valuable for resource for females wanting to reproduce

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halo effect

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suggests that we have a tendency to associate attractive people with preconceived disproportionately positive characteristics e.g wealth even though these factors may not be linked

therefore, more likely to view them as kind, social, more successful compared to unattractive people

therefore, makes us even more attracted to them so we believe positively towards them-self fulfilling prospheracy

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matching hypothesis

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states that people choose romantic partners who are roughly a similar attractiveness to each other

we desire most physically attractive partner for evolutionary, social and cultural psychological reasons

however, balance this against wish to avoid being rejected by someone out of our league, someone who is unlikely to consider us physically attractive

there is a difference between what we would like in an ideal partner and what we are prepared to settle for

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filter theory definition

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an explanation of relationship formation

suggest that there are several important filters

help people to sift through potential partners to chose the right one
social demography, similarity in attitudes, complementarity

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social demography

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refers to wide range of factors all which influence chances of potential partners meeting in first place e.g geographical location(proximity)
social class
religion

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similarity in attitudes
in early stages, we find partners who share same values attractive therefore, we tend to discount those who significantly differ from us in their attitudes need for partners in early stages to agree with basic values. encourages deeper communication and promotes self disclosure
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complementarity
concerns ability for romantic partners to meet each others needs similarity becomes less important at later stages and is replaced by need for partner to balance out your traits with opposite ones of their own e.g one partner enjoying being made to laugh, another partner enjoying making them laugh
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a03-strength of filter theory
supporting research evidence to support that filter theory is an important predictor of progression and initial development of a relationship as suggested by Winch he found initial similarities in beliefs and attitudes were citied as one of most attractive features in the partners of respondents strength as shows even in modern age filter theory and matching hypothesis are still valid explanations for relationship formation
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strength of filter theory
supporting research Festinger observed friendships that formed in block of apartments for married students who lived across 17 buildings results showed most popular people lived closest to staircases and post-boxes these students were more likely to be bumped into and had most contact and formed friendships with other residents in the block strength as supports social demography as a factor affecting attraction also supports idea that most meaningful interactions are with people nearby
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social exchange theory
economic theory of how relationships form and develop claims partners in relationships strive to maximise rewards e.g. support, companionship and minimise costs e.g. commitments
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rewards costs and profits
ideas of rewards and costs are subjective what is considered costly by one person can be seen as low cost or even reward for another also value of rewards and costs may change throughout course of relationship what is seen as costly or rewarding in early stages, may becomes less as time goes on
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comparison level
based on persons idea pf how much reward they deserve to receive in a relationship perception becomes more sophisticated and accurate with experience as can base our CL off a larger number of experiences and relationships also influenced by social and cultural factors e.g books, tv programmes closely linked to self esteem person with high self esteem likely to have higher expectations of rewards within relationship person with low self esteem will have lower expectations person will feel the relationship should be pursued if its equal to or above what they experienced in previous relationships
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comparison level for alternatives
concerns a persons perception as to whether other relationships or staying on their own would be more rewarding then current relationship will stay in current relationship only if we believe its more rewarding then alternatives if costs outweigh rewards, then alternatives become more attractive duck says if people consider themselves to be content in their current relationship, they may not even notice that there are available alternatives
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stages of relationship development
Sampling stage-people explore potential rewards and costs of relationship not just romantic ones by observing others Bargaining stage-beginning of relationship when romantic partners exchange rewards and costs and discuss what's most profitable Commitment stage-as relationship becomes more stable, partners become more familiar with rewards and costs and expectations so rewards increase and costs lessen Institutionalisation stage-partners now settle down because norms of the relationship rewards and costs are firmly established
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a03-weakness (2) of the social exchange theory
SET is reductionist- basing explanation of complex phenomena or romantic relationships purely on costs and rewards makes it reductionist limits range of real life romantic experiences it can explain e.g. does not explain why some people stay in abusive relationships despite lack of rewards and overwhelming costs weakness as shows a holistic approach may be better in studying romantic relationships lacks mundane realism- emerson and cook designed lab study where each of 112 participants were bargaining with a partner to maximise personal score on computer game. Relationships between these partners are nothing like real life romantic relationships which are based on getting to know each other and establishing trust weakness as these studies lack validity making SET less applicable to real life romantic relationships study tip:MR maddie rose
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strength of SET
supporting research Sprecher found that comparison levels for alternatives were a strong predictor of commitment within a relationships rewards were important as a predictor of satisfaction especially for women strength as supports the idea that some people choose to stay in their current relationships while it remains more profitable then alternatives
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equity theory
economic theory which suggests that partners are concerned about fairness in relationships fairness is achieved when people feel they get what they deserve from relationship not the size of the rewards and costs that matter: its the ratio of the two to each other
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role of equity
equity means fairness what matters is both partners level of profit (rewards-costs) are roughly the same when there is lack of equity, one partner over benefits and one under benefits- recipe for dissatisfaction and unhappiness under benefit feels dissatisfaction e.g. resentment over benefit feels guilt and shame
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equity and equality
according to equity theory, not size of ornament of rewards and costs but the ratio of the two to each other if one partner puts lot into relationship and gets a lot out this will be fair enough ensures rewards are distributed fairly not necceasrily equal between the partners
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ducks model of relationship definition
explanation of the stages people go through when their relationship is not working when one partner is dissatisfied, there are four phases in the process
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what are the 4 phases of ducks model
intra psychic phase dyadic phase social phase grave dressing phase
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intra psychic phase
partner weighs up the pros and cons of the relationship and evaluate these against the alternatives including being alone e.g i cant stand this anymore
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dyadic phase
individuals confront their partner and discuss their feelings and future of the relationship couples become aware of the forces that bind them together e,g children that would be incurred if they broke up two possible outcomes-determination to continue breaking up or a desire to repair it
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social phase
break up is made public-partners will seek support mutual friends are expected to choose a side gossip is encouraged some friends provide reassurance and place the blame on one partner or the other
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grave dressing phase
once relationship is dead, its time to bury it each partner must present themselves to others as being trust worthy and loyal to attract a new partner individuals create a favourable story about the breakup which presents them in a positive light and the other partner in bad light gossip plays important role
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weakness-there are methodological issues within Ducks phase model or relationship breakdown
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definition of Rusbults investment model of relationships
theory which explains why some people may remain in a relationship while others may not
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what 5 things need to be mentioned in A01 of Rusbult
Satisfaction Investment size Comparison with alternatives Commitment level Relationship maintenance mechanisms study tip : SICC R
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satisfaction
based on concept of comparison level satisfying relationship judged by comparing rewards and costs seen as profitable if many rewards e.g sex and few costs e.g arguments each partner is staisfied if they get more out of relationship then previous experiences
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investment size
measure of all the resources that are attached to the relationship, and which would reduce in value or be lost completely if relationship ended two major types intrinsic-any resources that we put directly into relationship e.g tangible things such as cash extrinsic investment-resources that previously did not feature in relationship but now closely associated with it e.g house
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comparison with alternatives
leads to partner asking themselves would my needs be met otuside of my current relationship either with someone else or by myself
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commitement level
likelhood that an involvement will persist high when satisfaction is high low when satisfaction is low
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relationship maintenace mechnsims
put their partners interst firsr and forgive them for both minor and serious mistakes
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virtual relationships definition
relationships where people are not physically present but communicate exclusively using online methods such as emails
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adv of virtual relationships
don’t have to meet up don’t require much time and effort less arguments
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dis of virtual relationships
may not be who they think they are fake what they look like (catfish) ghost you
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face to face vs online relationships
idea that self disclosure tends to occur much faster in virtual relationship reason for this is animosity, people tend to hold off disclosing personal info in real life for fear of rejection , unless confident enough that personal experiences they share to that person wont then leak it to mutual friends
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hyperpersonal model
Walther argues that online relationships can be more personal and involve greater self disclosure then FtF ones due to idea that online relationships can develop much quicker as self disclosure happens earlier once established, more intense and intimate according to hyperpersonal model, feature of self disclosure in virtual relationships is that sender has more time to manipulate their own image than they would in FtF situation
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stranger on the train effect
Rubin explained that we are more likely to disclose personal info to people we dont know and wont see again
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reduced cues theory
Keisler and Sproull through their Reduced cues theory, suggests CMC relationships may have poorer levels of intimacy and delayed self disclosure because some of the vital cues present in FtF relationships such as facial expressions and voice intonation are not present in CMC relationships leader to the de-individualisation of each partner
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absence of gating in virtual relationships
a gate is any obstacle to the formation of a relationship FtF interaction is gated in that it involves many features that interfere with the early development of a relationship examples of gates include physical unattractivess, a stammer, social anxiety (shyness, blushing etc)
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weakness-lack of research support for the reduced cues theory
theory is wrong to suggest that non-verbal cues are entirely missing from CMC. They are different rather than absent. Walther and Tidwell suggest that people in online interactions use cues which are different from those in face to face ones. Such cues include the style and timing of messages
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strength-research support for the hyperpersonal model
predicts that people arer motivated to self-disclose in CMC in ways which are sometimes 'hyperhonest' and 'hyperdishonest' online disclosures
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strength-social media has helped form friendships for shy people
social media sites such as Facebook have social benefits by helping shy people have better quality friendships. foe example, Baker and Oswald tested whether shy people really do benefit from internet use
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weakness-virtual relationships in social media doo not distingush tupes of CMC
level of self disclosure varies considerably and its extent and depth depend very much on the type of CMC being used
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equity theory
economic theory that suggesys partners are concerned with fariness in a relationship fairness achieved if people feel they get what they deserve in realtionship not the size of the rewards and costs that matter,it is the ratio of the two to eachotherr
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role of equity
term means fairness what matters most with equity is that both partners level of profit (reward minus costs) roughly the same when there is a lack of equity meaning one partner over benefits or one partner underbenefits then this causes recipe for dissatisfction and unhappiness one who over benfitis may feel gulit and shame one who underbenfits feel greatest disatifaction e.g resentment
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equity and equality
not the size of rewards and cost whihc matter, ratio between the two to each other if one person puts a lot into realitosnhip, but gets a lot out of it then thats fair enough
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rusbults investment model of relationships
definition-theory which explains why osme people may remain in a relationship while others may not s i c c
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consequences of inequality
problems arise when one partner puts a great deal into the relaitonship but gets little from it what makes us most disattisfied is a change in the level of perceived equity as time goes on
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investment size
measure of all resoyrces that are attached to the relationship intrinisc investment-any resoruecs whcih we put directly into relationship tangible things e.g money extrinisc invesmtnet-resourecs whhich did not previously feature in relaitonship but now closley associtedd with it e.g house car
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satifaction
based on concept of comparison level satisyfing relaitonship is judged by comparing rewards and costs seen as profitbale if it has many rewards e.g sex, companisonship and little costs e.g stress arguments
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sompariosn with alternatives
leads to partners asking themselves could my needs be better met outside of my current relationship are the alternatives more rewarding and less costly
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ducks model
explanation of stages people go through when therir relaitonship is not working once partner is dissatified, the process each with a different focus
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intra psychic phase
partmer weighs up pors and cins of the relaitonship and evalutts these against the alternatives i cant stand this anymore
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social phase
break up is made public-partners will seek support mutual freinds aer expected to choose a side gossip is traded and encouraged some freinds provide reassurance whilst others will be judgmental and place the balme on one partner ot antoher
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dyadic phase
individuals confront t their partner and sicus their feeling sand future couples become aware of forces that bind them together e.g children and costs that would be incurred if they broke up two possible outcoes-determnation to continue breaking up or a desire to repair it
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grave dressing phase
once relaitonship is dead, time to bury it stratigeiclaly reinterrpreat the view of the partner create a favourable syory about the breakup which presnts them in a postive light and other in a bad light gossip plays an important role
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virtual relationships
relationships where people are not phsycially present but communicate exculsivle using online methods sucg as emails, soical media, texting face to face v online relaitonships
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hyperpersonal model
online realitosnhops can be more personal ad involve greater self dicolosure than f to face ones
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sexual selction
explains why certainly disadvantgeus charctiertsidstics from an evolutionery point of view are still passed on this is because it may be advnatgeous for seuxal selection e.g male who behaves agressively, more chance of protecting female from comepting male anigosmy-differences in male and female sex cells sperm cell energetically cheap extremely small high;y mobile egg cell energetically expensive rlaitovely large static inter secual selction female preffered stratgey qulaity over quanity approach favoured by females as place greater investment in time, reosurecs for rasing hild compared ot males they want o assure the male is the right genetic fit, willing to and can provide for her and child egg cells are produced in limited numbers of intervals meansing females tedn to eb more selctive as to whp they choose to mate with fishesrs sexy son hypothsis intra sexual selcetion male pr3ffeeed strategy quanity over qulity approach favoured by males as have optimal mating stretgy to Mate with as many fertaile females as possible if in comp, reproduces and passes on gene to offspring which contributed to their sucess support for partner prefernces of anigmosy buss conducted surevy of 10,000 aduats in 33 counteries asked questions on age and varitey of attiubutes which evolutionery thery predict is important for partner preference female-placed greater value on resource related charctietis e.g finaical prospects male-placed greater impotance on good looks and charisity and preffered younger mates to females support for inter sexual selction clark and hatfield showed that females are more selctive asked female and male psychology students togo around uni campus asking 1 of 3 questions would you go on date with me 50 50 woudl you go back to my apratment 69 6v would you have sex with me 75 0 shows that males have a pre-dispostiion to want to mate with as many fertile females as psosible due to high sperm porducion and little enrgy required also shows females are more slctive howeevr, criticed for using narrow sample of undergraduates dont know if non-student older smaple would be more selctive not gernlisbale to ALL females ignores social and cultural differences partner prefernces have chnaged rapidly due to changes in social norms cultural factors may include the use of contraception increase in amount of women in workforce means they dont rely on men to provide resices may show chnage in partner prefernec, being no longer reouce orientated
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face to face v online realtionships
one prominent difference is that self disclosure tends to occur much faster one reason is th anlaymity, people tend to hold off disclosing personal info in real life for fear of being ridiculed or rejectio unelss confident enough that they can trust that person musch less risk in virtual relaitonships so people can shareexperinces and throught without risk of getting to people they know
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self disclosure
revelaing ersonal info. in romanctic relaitonships, as relaitonship develops, reveal more, strengthening romantic bond social penetration theory-gradual process of revealing personal info in romancit relaitonships, recipriocal exchange of info e.g one partner reveals personal info signalling 'i trust you' other partner must then to go further reveal sentive info more they disclose, more they penrate into eachother lives, greater understanding of eachother onion analogy-as relaionship progresses, more layers are removed represnting deeper adn more meaningful info being reveale. has to be repirocal, e.e the other person showing empahty and revealing perosnal info about themselves such exchange represnets a stage in relationship which is serious and characteristeed by trust bread and depth of self disclsoure-as both increase, become more commited to eachoerh early stages of relationship, what we reveal is superficial meaning on the surface and low risk, would tell anyone e.g freinds and fiaimly bradth f self discosure is narrow meaning most topics are off limit if reveal too much too sonn, may get reposne tmi, threatning realtionship before really stated as relationship porgresses, reveal more high risk info e.gp ast expeirnecs sacred support from resaerch studies laurenceau used method involving writing daily diary enteires found that self disclosure and perception of self disclosure in partner were linked to higher levels of intimacy in long term married couples strength as suggest that depth and breadth of self disclosure make it strongly predictbale of the intimacy and quality of romantic relationships cultural differences social penetraiton theory is not applicable to all cultures tang concludes that individualst cultures e.g us self disclosure significantly more sexual throuhts and feelings then men and women in china (collectivist) wekaness as shows limited explanation of romantic relationships real world applications research into self disclosure can help people who want to communicate in theirr relationships use self disclosure delibertaly nad skillfully from time to time to increase intimacy and strengthen their bond foudn that couples with high level so fintinacy, 57% reprted the use of self disclsoure as a way to maintin and deepen commitedd relaitonships
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physcial attractivness
shackelforx and larson foun that people with symatircal faces seen as more attracive, honest singal of genetic fitness also those with babdy face feautues e.g delicate chin, small nose and wide alreg eyes as tirgger protive instrinct-impiratnt for femaleas wanting to repordicue halo effect-tenacy to associate highly attracive peiple with pre-concived dieporstily postive charactietids e.g wealth even tho may not be linked find attractive poeple kind, social in comparion to unattraive poeple makes us even more attraced to us-self fulfilling prosperachy matching hypothsis-states we choose romantic partner who are sourghly same attractivness as us desire highly atrtaive poeple due to evoultionery factrs balance tjis aganst wthe wish to not be rejected from someone out of our leage differene in what we see in ideal partneradn what were prepeared to settle for RICH reseach support for halo effect peterson and plamer found that physically attracive people were rated as more politically knowledge then unattatcive popel. halo effect was that powerrful that it persisted even when participantss knew that these knowledge peoplle had no particualr expertise individual difefrences shown that halo effect and phsycial attractivenss may vary in its importance as predictor of quanlty of early relaitonships