relationships Flashcards
(158 cards)
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what is sexual selection
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characteristics that are deemed attractive to potential mates
‘selection of the sexiest’
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what is anisogamy
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differences between males and female sex cells
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what are the two types of sexual selections
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intra sexual and inter sexual
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what is the name of the male gamete
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sperm
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what is the movement of the male gamete
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highly mobile
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what is the production of the male gamete
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it is unlimited
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is the male gamete rare
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no
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what is the name of the female gamete
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ovum
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what is the movement of the female gamete
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static
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what is the production of the female gamete
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limited
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is the female gamete rare
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yes
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who prefers inter sexual selection
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females
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is quality or quantity the focus of the strategy of the female
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quality over quantity
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who is the consequence more serious for when choosing the wrong choice of partner
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the female
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what is the female’s optimum mating strategy
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selecting a genetically fit partner who is able to and willing to provide resources
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what hypothesis did ronald fisher form
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the sexy sons hypothesis
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what is included in the sexy sons hypothesis
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females that find males with desirable characteristics had an increased likelihood in offspring and preference for trait
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who prefers intrasexual variation
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males
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is quality or quantity the focus of the strategy for the male
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quantity
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what does intrasexual selection refer to
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competition between males to be able to mate with a female
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what is the male’s optimum reproductive strategy in terms of anisogamy
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mating with as many fertile females as possible
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why is the male optimum reproductive strategy mating with fertile females
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minimal energy is required to produce enough sperm
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what is the process of self disclosure
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gradual process of revealing inner self to someone else
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who conducts the social penetration theory
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altman and taylor
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what does reciprocal exchange mean
when personal and sensitive information is also revealed by the other partner
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what takes place as disclosure increases
romantic partners penetrate more deeply into each other's lives and gains greater understanding of each other
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what are the two elements of self disclosure
breadth and depth
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what occurs as breadth and depth increases
romantic partners become more attached to eachother
- increased committment
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what are known as the 'superficial, outer layers of an onion'
low risk information revealed to anyone
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what response may be given if too much information is revealed
TMI!
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what is breadth
various topics that are discovered
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what is depth
intimacy of information that is disclosed
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what takes place as a relationship develops
self disclosure becomes deeper and high risk, intimate information is revealed
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what does depenetration mean
when dissatisfied partners self disclose less as they gradually disengage from the relationship
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what does reis and shaver measure in self disclosure
for relationships to develop, needs to be a reciprocal element to disclose
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what is physical attractiveness
how appealing you find a person's face
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what did shackelford and larsen find
they found that people with symmetrical faces are seen as more attractive
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why are symmetrical faces viewed as more attractive
a sign of being genetically fit
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what are neotenous faces and why are they viewed as more attractive
baby face features like a small nose, large separated eyes and a delicate chin
triggers a protective instinct
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what is a phrase that is coined by karen dion
'what is beautiful is good'
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what is the halo effect
the preconceived idea about personality traits that attractive people have is usually positive
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what did dion et al find about how attractive people are rated as
they are consistently rated as kind, strong, sociable and successful
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what is an example of a self fulfilling prophecy in terms of attractiveness
belief that good looking people have positive characteristics, making them more attractive.
results in us behaving more positively towards them
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what is a negative result of the halo effect
causes individuals to have a disproportionate influence on judgement of a person's attributes
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who discovered the matching hypothesis
walster and walster
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what does the matching hypothesis suggest
we look for partners similar to our attractiveness levels
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what study did elaine walster use to test the matching hypothesis
the computer dance
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how were the students rated for physical attractiveness in the matching hypothesis
rated 1-10 by objective observers and also completed questionnaires about themselves
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what were the findings of the matching hypothesis
most liked partners were most physically attractive, did not support the hypothesis
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what happened in the replicated study by berscheid (1971)
participants able to select their partner from varying degrees of attractiveness
- chose partners who matched them
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what is the conclusion of the matching hypothesis
tend to seek and choose partners who match our attractiveness levels
- choice of partner is a compromise as we fear the risk of rejection
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what did kerckhoff and davis discover
the filter theory to explain formation and developing of romantic relationships
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what does the term 'field of availables' mean
entire set of potential romantic partners who we can realistically form a relationship with
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what does the term 'field of desirables' mean
the three main factors that act as filters to narrow down our partner choice
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what are the three factors of 'field of desirables'
-social demography
-similarity in attitudes
-complementarity
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what does social demography refer to
the influence of potential partners meeting each other in the first place
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where are individuals more likely to meet their potential partners
people physically close to you and sharing several demographic characteristics
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what is the key benefit of proximity
accessibility
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why is the realistic field more narrower
choices are constrained by social circumstances
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what is the outcome of filtering in terms of social demography
homogamy
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what does homogamy mean
being more likely to form a relationship with someone socially and culturally similar
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what does similarity of attitudes focus on
partners commonly share important beliefs and values e.g. religions, political views
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what did kerckhoff and davis state about similarity of attitudes
similarity of attitudes are important to developing romantic relationships
- only for couples together less than 18 months
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why is it important for partners to agree over basic values
encourages deeper communication and promotes self disclosure
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what did donn bryne find
similarity causes attraction (law of attraction)
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what occurs if the partners have little in common
relationship is likely to fizzle out
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what does complementarity focus on
the ability of romantic partners to meet each other's needs
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what is an example of a complementary couple
one partner talks a lot while the other partner listens a lot
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what did kerckhoff and davis find in terms of complementarity
complementarity is more important in long term couples
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why is complementarity deemed as attractive
gives the partners a feeling that together, they form as a whole, adding depth and flourishing the relationship
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who proposed the social exchange theory
thibault and kelley
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what is the minimax principle
minimises losses and maximising gains in a relationship
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what is the main objective of a relationship in the SET
gaining profit from relationship
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what does peter blau suggest in terms of relationships
relationships can be expensive so costs include time, stress and energy
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what is the comparison level
the amount of rewards that you believe you deserve
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when is the comparison level developed
out of our experiences with previous relationships
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how does social norms determine what is a reward
books, films, TV programmes
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what is known as the comparison level for alternatives
believing what is the best option for greater rewards and fewer costs
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what are the 4 stages of relationship development
- sampling stage
- bargaining stage
- commitment stage
- institutionalisation stage
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what is the meaning of equity
perceived fairness
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what did elaine walster claim about equity theory
both partners' level of profit is roughly the same
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what are the two partners in terms of equity
one partner over benefits and one partner under benefits
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how will the over benefitted partner feel
guilty, discomfort
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how will the under benefitted partner feel
resentment, humiliation
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what are satisfying relationships marked by
negotiations by making trade offs
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how will problems arise in terms of equity theory
one partner puts a great deal in the relationship and one gets a little out of it
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the greater the perceived inequity....
the greater dissatisfaction
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which partner is likely to feel the most dissatisfaction
the under benefitted partner
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which partner is likely to make the first move for being equitable
the under benefitted partner
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when can partners only make their relationship become more equitable
when it is salvageable
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what is the equity theory in terms of cognitive outcomes
what is once seen as a definite cost e.g. abuse is now accepted as the norm
the behaviour does not change
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what did resbult develop
the investment model
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what three factors does commitment depend on
satisfaction, comparison with alternatives, investment
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what are the two types of investment
intrinsic and extrinsic investments
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what are intrinsic investments
resources we directly put into the relationship
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what are tangible examples of intrinsic investments
money and possessions
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what are intangible examples of intrinsic investments
energy, emotions and self disclosure
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what are extrinsic investments
resources that previously do not feature in the relationship but are closely associated with
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what are tangible examples of extrinsic investments
mutual friends, car, house
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what are intangible examples of extrinsic investments
shared memories
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what did rusbult suggest about dissatisfied partners staying in a relationship
they are committed to their partner
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why are the dissatisfied partners committed to their partner
they made an investment they do not want to waste and therefore, work hard to maintain and repair a damaged relationship
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how is commitment expressed in relationships
everyday maintenance behaviours
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what are the characteristics of enduring partners
- no engaging in tit rat retaliation
- promote the relationship
- put partner's interests first
- forgiving them for serious transgressions
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what is the cognitive element to relationship maintenance and repair
committed partners think about each other in specific ways
- unrealistically positive about partner
- negative about other people's relationships
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what are the 5 relationship maintenance mechanisms
accommodation
willingness to sacrifice
forgiveness
positive illusions
ridiculing alternatives
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what did steve duck propose the idea of
model of relationship breakdowns
- believed that it is a time consuming process and goes through 4 phases
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what is a threshold
a point at when the perception of the relationship changes
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when does the road to breaking up initially begin
when one of the partners realises that they are dissatisfied in the relationship
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what is the first theory in duck’s phase model
intra-psychic phase
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what is the threshold that occurs in the intra psychic stage
not wanting to stand this anymore as a reason to change
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what is the intra psychic stage focused on
cognitive processes
- their thoughts about the relationship is private
- weigh up the pro and cons and evaluating the relationship for after
- start to make plans for the future
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what is the second stage in duck’s phase model
the dyadic phase
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what is the focus on the dyadic phase
interpersonal processes between the two partners
- series of confrontations characterised by anxiety and hostility, resentment over imbalanced roles
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what are the two possible outcomes in the relationship from the dyadic phase
- continuing to break up the relationship
- desire to repair it
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why does self disclosure become deeper in the dyadic phase
becomes more frequent as thoughts and feelings are withheld in the phase
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what is the third phase in duck’s phase model
the social phase
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wha is the focus of the social stage
wider processes
- partner seek support in mutual friends and family
- gossip traded and encouraged
- expected to choose a side
- some individuals try to help repair relationship if in small groups
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what is the fourth phase in duck’s phase model
grave dressing stage
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what is the focus of the grave dressing stage
the aftermath of the relationship
- making up two stories: one for the public and one for themselves
- public story: partner maintains a positive reputation in story to maintain social credit
- personal story: tidying up memories of the relationship and reinterpretation of start of relationship in negative aspect
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what type of story is made for the relationship breakdown in public consumption
spinning a favourable story to maintain positive reputation and retain social credit
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why does gossip play an important role in the grave dressing phase
to retain social credit
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what does the personal story involve in grave dressing
tidying up memories of the relationship to reach the threshold of the relationship
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what is the idea of virtual relationships
people are present but communicate only using online methods like emails, social media and texting
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what can the online methods also be known as
CMC: computer mediated communication
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what is a crucial feature of face to face relationships in the offline world
self disclosure
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what are the two major theories that operate in virtual relationships
reduced cues theory and the hyper personal model
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who formed the reduced cues theory
lee sproull and sara kiesler
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what does the reduced cues theory state
virtual relationships are less effective than face to face ones as we lack many cues dependent in face to face interactions
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what are examples of nonverbal cues for the reduced cues theory
facial expressions and tone of voice
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what is de-individuation in terms of virtual relationships
reducing a person’s sense of individual identity
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what does de-individuation lead to in virtual relationships
disinhibition
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why does disinhibition occur
people are unlikely to express their real thoughts to someone impersonal
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who developed the hyperpersonal model
joseph walther
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what does the hyper personal model state
virtual relationships can be more personal and involves greater self disclosure in face to face ones
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why did joseph walther state that virtual relationships can be more personal
virtual relationships can develop quickly as self disclosure happens earlier and becomes more intimate
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what are the two features of hyperpersonal self disclosure
1. selective self presentation as the sender of the message has greater control to disclose and cues sent . presented in ideal ways
2. receiver gaining a positive impression of a reader-giving feedbacks reinforcing selective self presentation
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how can the idealised ways of selective self presentation be achieved
by being intensely truthful (hyper honesty) or being intensely false (hyper dishonest)
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what is the effect of anonymity
a factor that promotes online self disclosure and makes virtual relationships hyperpersonal
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what did john bargh find in terms of anonymity
outcome is the strangers on a train effect. feeling less accountable for behaviour and likely to disclose to a stranger more than an intimate partner
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what is a gate
an obstacle to forming a relationship
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what are examples of gates
stutters, social anxiety, physical unattractiveness
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what are the benefits of gating in virtual relationships
is absent as self disclosure can become easily more frequent and deeper- less likely in face to face
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what are the benefits of the gates being absent
individual is freed to be like their true selves
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what are the drawbacks of the gates being absent
people can form untrue identities and deceive others e.g. any kind of avatar to represent themselves in virtual reality
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who developed the celebrity attitude scale
mclutheon
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what are the three levels of parasocial relationships
entertainment-social
intense-personal
borderline-pathological
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what is the outline of entertainment social relationships
celebrities viewed as sources of entertainment e.g. actors on eastenders
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what did david giles state about entertainment social relationships
is a fruitful force of gossip
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what is the outline of intense personal relationships
intermediate level where greater personal involvement with celebrity e.g. intense feelings for zendaya
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what is the outline of borderline pathological relationships
strongest level of worship involving uncontrollable fantasies e.g. willing to perform an illegal act for the celebrity
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what model did mccutcheon develop
the absorption addiction model
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what is the outline of absorption in the absorption addiction model
seeking fulfilment in celebrity worship to focus attention and identify with the celebrity
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what is the outline of addiction in the absorption addiction model
individual needs to increase dose to gain satisfaction and leads to delusional thinking
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what concept is absorption in the model
cognitive
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what concept is addiction in the model
behavioural
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what type of attachment is likely to form in parasocial relationships
insecure resistant as they seek to meet unfulfilled needs
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what are the impact of insecure avoidant attachment in parasocial relationships
avoids pain and rejection of relationships whether social or parasocial
