Relationships Flashcards
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What is anisogamy?
The difference between male and female sex cells
What are the differences between male and female sex cells?
Male = small, cheap, many
Female = large, expensive, few
What is intrasexual selection?
Mate competition. Endearing traits e.g. stronger, aggressive, large antlers passed on
What characteristics are males attracted to in females?
Fertility
Young
Healthy
What is intersexual selection?
Mate choice. Certain traits are shown off. A demonstration of good genes
What characteristics are females attracted to in males?
Signs of fertility
Ability to protect and support offspring
Explain Buss’ study including sample, findings and limitations:
10,000+ adults in 37 cultures. Asked to rate traits of perfect partners
Found that in 36 cultures women more than men value earning potential
Found that in 34 cultures men more than women value physical attributes and in 37 cultures men prefer women younger than themselves
Both men and women value intelligence, kindness and dependability
However it is a preference rather than a choice
What does Buss’ study support?
Intersexual selection
Explain Clark and Hatfield’s study including sample, findings and limitations:
Went around uni campus and asked men and women series of questions:
50% of both genders agreed to a first date.
75% men said yes to sex
0% of women said yes to sex
Found men value quantity over quality whereas women are the opposite
However small sample (90ppl)
Not generalisable as on a uni campus
Not actual behaviour
What does Clark and Hatfield’s study support?
Anisogamy
What is the issue and debate for evolutionary explanations for partner preferences?
Biological reductionism - Not all biological as individual differences play a huge part in mate selection e.g. homosexual relationships where there is no reproductive success and no evolutionary advantage
What is self disclosure?
The process of DELIBERATELY revealing SIGNIFICANT information about oneself that would NOT NORMALLY BE KNOWN by others.
What are the risks of self disclosure?
Can be shared onwards
Others gain power
Others can reject/disapprove
What are the stages of social penetration theory?
Suggests layers need to be peeled back
1. Orientation - small talk
2. Exploratory affective exchange - increased breadth and depth of topics
3. Affective exchange - more personal, conflicts may begin
4. Stable exchange - deepest thoughts and feelings - romantic partner, family, close friends
What is breadth in relation to self disclosure?
Number of topics a person feels comfortable discussing in a relationship. Wide range = likely common ground = meet more people
What is depth in relation to self disclosure?
How personal or deep our communication with others is
What is reciprocity in relation to self disclosure?
Turn taking, one person discloses then the other person discloses
What is the evaluation of self disclosure?
Research support - pps wrote diary entries about relationships. More self disclosure = more intimacy
Nomothetic and reductionist - too simplified and could benefit from ideographic approach
Cultural differences - Individualist Western culture may not apply to collectivist - more intimacy in US than China but satisfaction high in both
What is the Halo Effect?
Physically attractive people are consistently rated kind, strong, sociable and successful. Preconceived ideas about personality traits of attractive people
What is the matching hypothesis?
People choose partners who are of similar attractiveness to them. Best we can get. More likely to be happy than if mismatched
What is Walster’s computer dance study?
Hypothesis: We look for partners of similar attractiveness to ourselves.
Invited males and females to a dance. Rated on attractiveness . Completed a questionnaire about themselves and told they would be matched on this but were paired randomly
What were Walster’s findings and conclusions demonstrated by the computer dance study?
Hypothesis not supported. Most liked were most attractive.
HOWEVER another study allowed selection on attractiveness and pps tended to choose people of similar attractiveness
Found we match partners on our own attractiveness rather than rearing rejection by going ‘out of our league’
What is the evaluation of physical attractiveness (Halo Effect)?
Research - Walster - stay in our league
Individual differences - each person has a preference
Nomothetic - may not be generalisable to everyone should do ideographic approach in order to study in more depth
What is meant by field of availables?
Everyone who is available