relationships Flashcards
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what is evolution
changes to the biology of a species over time
what is sexual selection
type of natural selection where individuals with the traits that increase their ability to attract mates are more likely to reproduce and pass on their genes
what natural selection
the idea that individuals with advantageous traits are more likely to survive, reproduce and pass on their advantageous genes
what is anisogamy
difference between male and female gametes
what does anisogamy lead to
it leads to two types of selection in females and males
what are the 2 types of selection
inter sexual selection
intra sexual selection
what is inter sexual selection
the idea that females show preferences for certain qualities within the opposite sex and are pre-programmed to mate with individuals who hold these qualities
why are females more selective in their choice of partner
as they do not want to go through the consequences of mating with an unsuitable male therefore invest more when it comes to reproduction
what things do females look at when choosing a mate
-good resources, economic and financial security, well educated
-good genes, good health, hair, weight
-good parents, ability to provide, be affectionate, be protective
what is intra sexual selection
the idea that males compete with each other for mates, theyre less selective than females, but look for signs of fertility
what is the male reproductive strategy
to mate with as many fertile females as they can
what are the consequences of two different types of selection
-males and females look for different things in a partner
-they adopt different mating statergies
-sexual dismorphism, difference in appearance of males and females of the same species
state evaluation points for evolutionary explanations
-hatfield(1989), sent male and female psychologists, accross campus to individually approach students with the question
ive seen you on campus and find you attractive, will you go to bed with me tonight,
not one female said yes and 75% male said yes immediately, supports the theory that females are more selective when it comes to mating and that males have a different mating strategy
-research support for preferences for anisogamy
buss surbeyed 10000 adults in 10 different countries
females valued resource characteristics such as finances and males valued reproductive capacity, good lucks, supports evolutionary differences and can be applied accross all cultures, however ppts may have given answers that were socially expected rather than their own preferences
-ignores social factors, e.g introduction of the contraceptive pill, has given women more control over reproduction
also as women have entered the workforce, they’ve become more financially independant and may not priortize partners wealth as much as in the past
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what are 3 factors affecting physical attraction
-self disclosure
-physical attractiveness
-filter theory
what is self disclosure
revealing personal information about yourself
why do people self disclose
in early days of a relationship we like to learn as much as we can about the new partner, we share our likes thoughts dislikes fears etc, the more we learn about them the more we understand and like them
it also strengthens a a romantic bonf if used appropriately
what is the social penetration theory
theory explains how we form relationships through self disclosure, the gradual process of revealing personal information
for a relationship to deepen both partners must open up and penetrate deeper into each other lives
state the gradual process of self disclosure
at first we share low risk information
then overtime as trust builds we share more personal and sensitive information,share thoughts and feelings
the exchange is reciprocal, if one person opens up , the other is expected to do the same, this mutual trust helps build relationships
what is breadth and depth
breadth is how much you talk about certain information
depth is how personal and deep the information
how does breadth and depth differ throughout the relationship
early stages both are narrow, as relationships develop both increase and more topics are discussed
what is tmi
too much information, revealed can harm the relationship, as becomes overwhelming and increases vulnerability before relationship is developed
what is reciprocity and whys it needed
reciprocial element is needed for a relationship, once you have disclosed information your partner must respond in a way which is rewarding, and understanding with empathy, and adress their own intimate thoughts and feelings, this leads to a balance between both partners deepening the relationship
Evaluation for self disclosure
research support, hass and hartford, found that 57% of homosexual ppts beleived that open self dislcore was a key way to maintain close relationships, supports idea that sharing information is important for developing intimacy within romantic relationships
however, most evidence for self disclosure comes from correlational studies, meaning researchers can see a link between self discloure and relationship satisfaction, but cannot prove that one causes the other, limits the strength of conclusions that can be drawn
-practical applications, as learning when and how to share personal information can help couples communicate better and form more satisfying, stronger relationships,showing how social penetration theory can be used oratically to enhance romantic relationships
-most supporting research comes from western individualstic cultures where personal sharing and openness is encouraged whcih is different to collectivist where people are more reserved,as a result self disclosure may not be seen as appropriate or essential, challenged the idea that self disclosure is always needed to form satisfying relationships and limits univeral applicability of the theory
state the two matching hypothesis
1- attractive people expect an attractive partner,
2- partners who are equally matched are more happier