The Like Switch: Touches Flashcards
(9 cards)
Safe touching
Safe touch:
- between elbow and the shoulder
- Safe touch: hand to hand.
- serves as a barometer for romantic relationships:
- hand holding == more intense form of touching
- interlocking fingers == the most intense
more personal than touching his or her arm
Unless the individual is exceptionally shy and reserved, negative reactions to a simple arm touch probably indicate dislike or distrust
An intimate touch:
- The most intimate (nonsexual) place a man can touch a woman in public
- reserved for men who have earned the right to make an intimate public display of affection
if, as you approach, the man firmly touches the small of the woman’s lower back or hip region, you should assume that the relationship has progressed well beyond the introductory stage and you should look elsewhere for companionship
Staking a claim, but not a sexual touch:
- If the man extends his arm and hovers over the small of the woman’s back, he is staking his claim, but he has not yet earned the right to invade the woman’s personal space
you still have a chance to gain her affection without interfering with an ongoing, committed relationship
Getting “groomed”:
- is a sign of good rapport
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Preening/Grooming your partner:
- sign of a good rapport
Strong rapport:
- holding hands
- no objects between them
Whispering:
- sign of a very strong rapport