theories of attachment Flashcards

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AIM - O’Connor et al. (2013) – Social learning, parenting and attachment

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to investigate whether or not beneficial parenting styles can improve the quality of
parent-child attachment relationship

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What did O’Connor et al examine?

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O’Connor et al. examined changes in parental behaviours and assessed the security of children’s internal working model (children who experience sensitive/responsive care can regulate their emotions and show greater social competence).

The study set out to determine whether a child’s internal working model was altered by a social learning theory-based parent training program

However, the study did not target the internal working model, and the child was not included in the treatment setting (only the parents).

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sample of O’Connor et al (2013)

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● 672 children (in kindergarten and year 1) from the most disadvantaged district of a
deprived inner-city London borough. All showed emotional and behavioural difficulties
(antisocial behaviours).

● Informed consent was given by the parents and the study was approved by the local
research ethics committee.

● Randomised clinical trial - random allocation of children by class at school to either
the intervention group or control group was carried out by an independent statistician.
Observation was carried out in homes.

● Intervention Group - several parenting programs. Control Group - not offered any
intervention programs.

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O’ Connor et al procedure

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(18 weeks)
A Twelve-week parenting program
1. Observe videotapes showing screens of parent and child in variety of common situations.
2. Group discussion (about different types of parenting style)
3. Practice in role-play (practice new parenting style to a child actor)

B Six-week Literacy program (the pause-prompt-praise technique used to teach children how to read)
1. When a child encounters a new unknown word, the parent pauses for 5s and lets the
child figure out the definition of the word.
2. When a child does not succeed, the parent will give a specific prompt (hint).
3. If the child gets the correct definition of the word, praise is given.

Group treatment model- each group had one leader (with professional child
developmental psychology qualifications) and one co-leader (child mental health trainees
without qualification) to supervise the interventions.

Measurement- Pre- and post-treatment (6 month after intervention) home visits – observational method:
1. 10 min free play during which no specific instructions were given to the parent and child.
2. 10 min highly instructed play where parent and child were instructed to build a difficult LEGO object from a picture (parents were not allowed to touch the LEGO bricks).
3. 5 min clean-up session. Minimal instructions were given to the parent, e.g. We’d like to you to get your children to tidy up the toys before we move on to the next thing.’

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Findings - O’ connor et al

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Parenting behaviour was coded using standard count measures of positive and negative
parenting, and for attachment theory using measures of sensitive responses; children’s
attachment narratives were also assessed.

Compared to the parents in the non-intervention group, parents allocated to the intervention showed increases in the positive behavioural counts and sensitive responding; change in behavioural count measures over-lapped modestly with change in attachment-
based changes. There was no reliable change in children’s attachment narratives associated
with the intervention.

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Conclusion - O’connor et al

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Standard social learning theory-based parenting interventions can improve the quality of
parent-child attachment relationship.

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Evidence - O’connor et al

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Randomised clinical trials show that parenting interventions can reduce child negative
behaviour (Scott et al., 2010).

Bakermans-Kranenburg et al., (2003) conducted a meta-analysis and found the most positive attachment outcomes were the result of using specific behavioural techniques.

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O’Connor et al (2013) findings (results)

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mean results
mutuality positive parenting:
-Free playing session (FP) - 3.25 pretreatment to 3.68 post treatment
-structured Lego task - 3.39 pre treatment to 3.57 post-treatment

**child centred.
**FP - 0.45 pre-treatmnt FP-0.51 post treatment
LEGO- 0.34 pre-treatment to 0.40 post-treatment

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O’Connor - Ethics

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-Informed consent was given by the parents and the study was approved by the local
research ethics committee.

  • The study helps improve the quality of parent-child attachment relationships, the
    parents learn how to more accurately identify and satisfy a child’s needs, this can
    help reduce child emotional and behavioural difficulties, therefore the study is very ethical and beneficial.
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O’Connor Generalisability

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The research used a large sample of 672 children. However, the children were all in
kindergarten or year 1, which is not a representative stratified sample of the total population, as the results cannot be generalised to children who are younger (babies) or older (elementary schoolers), therefore it has low generalisability.

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O’Connor - High internal validity

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For each intervention group, a group leader with professional child developmental
psychology qualifications is provided to guide the parents, to explain any misunderstandings and to make sure the parents know how to correctly use the new techniques, therefore the results are not affected by extraneous variables such as
misuse of parenting techniques, ensuring the internal validity of the results.

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Bowlby’s Maternal Deprivation Hypothesis. What did he propose?

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Bowlby (1958) proposed that attachment can be understood
within an evolutionary context in that the caregiver provides safety and security for the infant. Attachment is adaptive as it enhances the infant’s chance of
survival.

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What did Bowlby (1969) defined attachment as?

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a ‘lasting psychological connectedness between human
beings.’

Attachment is characterized by specific behaviours in children, such as seeking proximity to the attachment figure when upset or threatened.

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what did Bowlby used the term maternal deprivation to refer to ?

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● Failure of the child to develop an attachment to a mother figure.
● Significant separation from the mother during the first five years of life.
● Loss of the mother in the first five years of life.

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Bowlby’s (1953) maternal deprivation hypothesis

learn word for word

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proposed that a warm, intimate and continuous relationship with a mother (figure) is necessary for healthy psychological/
emotional development.

Continual disruption of the attachment between infant and primary caregiver (i.e., mother) could result in long term cognitive, social, and emotional difficulties for that infant.

Bowlby originally believed the effects to be permanent and irreversible.

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Consequences of maternal deprivation include?

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● An inability to form attachments in the future
● Affectionless psychopathy (inability to feel remorse)
● Delinquency (behavioural problems in adolescence)
● Problems with Cognitive Development

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What does Bowlby’s evolutionary theory of attachment suggest?

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suggests that children come into the world biologically pre-programmed to form attachments with others, because this will help them
to survive.

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define monotropy

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A child has an innate need to attach to one main attachment figure.

there is one relationship which is more important than all the rest.

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What did Bowlby’s suggest that there is a critical period for developing an attachment is?

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(2.5 years).

If an attachment has not developed during this time period, then then it may well not
happen at all (Bowlby later proposed a sensitive period of up to 5 years).

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According to Bowlby, what is an internal working model?

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is a cognitive framework comprising mental representations for understanding the world, self, and others, and is based on the relationship with a primary caregiver. It becomes a prototype for all future social relationships and allows
individuals to predict, control and manipulate interactions with others.

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AIM: 44 Thieves Study (Bowlby, 1944)

To test his Maternal Deprivation Hypothesis, Bowlby studied 44 adolescent juvenile delinquents
in a child guidance clinic.

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To investigate the long-term effects of maternal
deprivation on people in order to see whether
delinquents have suffered deprivation.

According to the Maternal Deprivation Hypothesis,
breaking the maternal bond with the child during the early
stages of its life is likely to have serious effects on
intellectual, social and emotional development.

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Procedure - 44 Thieves Study (Bowlby, 1944)

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Between 1936 and 1939 an opportunity sample of 88 children was selected from the
clinic where Bowlby worked.

Of these, 44 were juvenile thieves and had been referred to him
because of their stealing. Bowlby selected another group of 44 children to act as ‘controls

(individuals referred to the clinic because of emotional problems, but not yet committed any
crimes).NATURAL EXPERIMENT.
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On arrival at the clinic,
each** child had their IQ tested tested by a psychologist who also assessed the child’s emotional attitudes towards the tests. At the same time a social worker interviewed a
parent to record details of the child’s early life
(e.g., periods of separation). The psychologist and social worker made separate reports.

**A psychiatrist (Bowlby) then conducted an initial interview with the child and accompanying
parent **(e.g., diagnosing affectionless psychopathy).

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Findings - 44 Thieves Study (Bowlby, 1944)

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  • Only 17% of the thieves not
    diagnosed as affectionless
    psychopaths had experienced
    maternal separation.
  • Only 2/44 of the control group had experienced a prolonged separation in their first 5
    years.

Fourteen of the young thieves (32%) showed affectionless psychopathy

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Conclusion: 44 Thieves Study (Bowlby, 1944)

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Bowlby concluded that maternal separation/deprivation in the child’s early life caused permanent emotional damage.

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bowlby 44 thieves evaluation - Limitations
**External variables** (family conflict, parental income, education, etc.) may have affected the behaviour of the 44 thieves and not the disruption of the attachment bond. The supporting evidence that Bowlby (1944) provided was in the form of clinical interviews of **retrospective data**. This meant that Bowlby was asking the participants to look back and recall separations. These memories may not be accurate **(low validity**). The study concluded affectionless psychopathy was caused by maternal deprivation. This is correlational data and as such only shows a relationship between these two variables, and not the cause. As Rutter (1972) pointed out, Bowlby’s conclusions were flawed, mixing up cause and effect with correlation.
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bowlby 44 thieves evaluation -strengths
**Greater stability in childcare practice** has been developed through daycare centres assigning caregivers to children and hospital visiting hours have been reviewed so that children can maintain contact with their parents. **Some national governments offer more financial support for young families in terms of maternity and paternity leave.** For instance, Sweden offers 480 days parental leave, clearly highlighting its commitment to support children’s early attachment experiences.
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rutter (1981)
- argued that if a child fails to develop an emotional bond, this is privation, whereas deprivation refers to the loss of/damage to an attachment.
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Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation
- is a standardized procedure -devised to observe attachment security in children within the context of caregiver relationships, i.e., called the Strange Situation Classification (SSC). It is an** assessment technique to investigate how attachments might vary between children and was applied to infants between the age of nine and 18 months.**
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. what does the procedure involve?
involves series of eight episodes lasting approximately 3 minutes each, whereby a mother, child and stranger are introduced, separated and reunited.
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. How is the experiment set up?
in a small room with one way glass so the behaviour of the infant can be observed covertly.
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. what was the ppts ages between and who did the sample comprimise of?
Infants were aged between 12 and 18 months. The sample comprised of 100 middle-class American families.
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. episode 1
persons present: Mother, infant, observer description: observer introduces mother and infant to the experiment room before leaving.
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. episode 2
persons present: Mother, infant description: mother is passive while the infant explores
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. episode 3
persons present: stranger, mother, infant description: stranger enters. First minute: stranger silent second min: stranger converses with mother 3rd min: stranger approaches infant. Mother quietly leaves the room
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. episode 4
persons present: stranger, infant description: First sep episode. the behaviour of the stranger is geared towards the infant.
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. episode 5
persons present: mother, infant description: first reunion episode. Stranger leaves. Mother greets/comforts infant, then tries to engage infant to play. Mother says 'good bye' and leaves
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. episode 6
person present: Infant description: second separation episode. Infant is left alone
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. episode 7
person present: Stranger, Infant description: continuation of second separation. Stranger enters and gears her behaviour to that of the infant
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. episode 8
persons present: Mother, Infant description: Second reunion episode. Mother enters, greets and then picks up the infant. Stranger quietly leaves
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. Strange Situation classifications (i.e., attachment styles) are based primarily on four interaction behaviours directed toward the mother in the two reunion episodes (Ep. 5 & Ep. 8).
1. Proximity and contacting seeking behaviours 2. Contact maintaining behaviours 3. Avoidance of proximity and contact 4. Resistance to contact and comforting ## Footnote The observer notes down the behaviour displayed during 15-second intervals and scores the behaviour for intensity on a scale of 1 to 7. Other behaviours observed included: ● Exploratory behaviours e.g., moving around the room, playing with toys, looking around the room. ● Search behaviours, e.g., following mother to the door, banging on the door, orienting to the door, looking at the door, going to mother’s empty chair, looking at mother’s empty chair. ● Affect Displays negative, e.g., crying, or positive, e.g., smiling.
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# Mary Ainsworth (1970s) – The Strange Situation. Results - Attachment Styles
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Type B: Secure Attachment
- comprised the majority of the sample - feel confident that the attachment figure will be available to meet their needs. - They use the attachment figure as a safe base to explore the environment and seek the attachment figure in times of distress - easily soothed by the attachment figure when upset. - Infants develop a secure attachment when the caregiver is sensitive to their signals and responds appropriately to their needs.
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Type A: Insecure Avoidant
children do not orientate to their attachment figure while investigating the environment. - very independent of the attachment figure - do not seek contact with the attachment figure when distressed. - Such children are likely to have a caregiver who is insensitive and rejecting of their needs (Ainsworth, 1979). - The attachment figure may withdraw from helping during difficult tasks and is often unavailable during times of emotional distress.
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Type C: Insecure Ambivalent / Resistant
- children adopt an ambivalent behavioural style towards the attachment figure. - child will commonly exhibit clingy and dependent behaviour but will be rejecting of the attachment figure when they engage in interaction. - fails to develop any feelings of security from the attachment figure. - exhibit difficulty moving away from the attachment figure to explore novel surroundings. - When distressed they are difficult to soothe and are not comforted by interaction with the attachment figure. This behaviour results from an inconsistent level of response to their needs from the primary caregiver.
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Strange Situation Conclusion
Ainsworth (1978) suggested the caregiver sensitivity hypothesis as an explanation for different attachment types. Ainsworths maternal sensitivity hypothesis argues that a child’s attachment style is dependent on the behaviour their mother shows towards them. ● ‘Sensitive’ mothers are responsive to the childs needs and respond to their moods and feelings correctly. Sensitive mothers are more likely to have securely attached children. ● In contrast, mothers who are less sensitive towards their child, for example, those who respond to the child’s needs incorrectly or who are impatient or ignore the child, are likely to have insecurely attached children.
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Strange situation Evaluation
- Evidence - The caregiver sensitivity theory is supported by research from, **Wolff and Van Ijzendoorn (1997)** who conducted a Meta-analysis (a review) of research into attachment types. They found that there is a relatively weak correlation of 0.24 between parental sensitivity and attachment type – generally more sensitive parents had securely attached children. - The strange situation classification has been found to have** good reliability.**  This means that it achieves consistent results.  For example, a study conducted in Germany found 78% of the children were classified in the same way at ages 1 and 6 years **(Wartner et al., 1994).** ## Footnote The overall consistency in secure attachment types leads to the conclusion that there may be universal (innate - nature) characteristics that underpin infant and caregiver interactions. However, the significant variations of insecure attachments demonstrate that universality is limited. Implications include the linking of the variation in attachment to child-rearing practices and environmental factors (nurture).
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development what did Erikson's theory centre on?
psychosocial development rather than psychosexual development.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development what did Erikson's theory centre on?
psychosocial development rather than psychosexual development.
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Erikson's psychosocial development theory has how many stages?
8 stages that span a persons lifetime.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development At each stage what do people face?
At each stage, people **face conflicts** that can result in gaining psychological strength or being left with a weakness. At each stage of psychosocial development, people are faced with a crisis that acts as a turning point in development.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development At each stage what do people face?
At each stage, people **face conflicts** that can result in gaining psychological strength or being left with a weakness. At each stage of psychosocial development, people are faced with a crisis that acts as a turning point in development.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development Successfully resolving the crisis can lead to?
developing a psychological virtue that contributes to overall psychological well-being.
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# stage 1 - trust vs mistrust How To Build Trust The primary way you can build trust with your baby is to?
respond when they try to communicate with you. - can't use words- use non-verbal communication to show their thinking and feelings ## Footnote - crying - communication with caregivers Usually, babies cry to let you know one of the following: ● **Affection**: an infant's cries communicated an important message to caregivers. Such cries indicate an unmet need, and it is up to caregivers to determine how to fulfil that need. ● **Comfort**: It is important for caregivers to provide comfort to an infant by holding them closely and securely. This provides both warmth and physical contact. Feeding, bathing, and comforting your child helps them learn to trust that their needs will be met. ● **Food**: Erikson also believed that feeding played a pivotal role in the development of trust. By feeding an infant when the child is hungry, they learn that they can trust their need for nourishment will be met. becoming familiar with your babys communication style is the key to success at this stage.- helps them learn to trust world around them
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# stage 1 - trust vs mistrust Consequences of Mistrust
- Children raised by consistently unreliable, unpredictable parents who fail to meet these basic needs eventually develop an overall sense of mistrust (Murphy, 2015). - Mistrust can cause children to become fearful, confused, and anxious, all of which make it difficult to form healthy relationships. This, in turn, can lead to poor social support, isolation, and loneliness.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development Psychosocial Stage 1 – Trust vs Mistrust
**Infancy (0-18 months):** A baby will either develop basic trust in his or her caregiver or will grow to view the world as a dangerous place, depending upon whether the baby gets sensitive, nurturing care.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development Psychosocial Stage 2 - Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt
**Early childhood (2 – 3 years)**. Children can either develop a sense of competence and independence or deep shame. This development is intimately related to toilet training.
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# stage 2 - Autonomy vs shame Potty Training
The essential theme of this stage is that children **need to develop a sense of personal control over physical skills and a sense of independence.** Potty training plays an **important role** in helping children develop this sense of autonomy. Like Freud, Erikson believed that toilet training was a vital part of this process. **However, Erikson's reasoning was quite different than that of Freud's.** Erikson believed that **learning to control one's bodily functions leads to a feeling of control and a sense of independence.** Kids who have **confidence in their skills are more likely to succeed in subsequent tasks** such as mastering social, academic, and other skills. Offering reassurance and having **faith** in your childs abilities is crucial to the development of a sense of autonomy and confidence (Paediatric Child Health, 2004). Parents who are negative or who punish a child for simple mistakes can contribute to feelings of shame or self-doubt. ## Footnote Other important events include gaining more control over food choices, toy preferences, and clothing selection.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development Psychosocial Stage 3 - initiative vs. guilt.
**Preschool years (3 – 5 years)**: Children develop a sense of initiative if they are able to explore their environments and discover they are able to do things on their own. If a child is made to feel guilty about making his or her own choices, the child will develop a sense of guilt rather than initiative.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development Psychosocial Stage 4 - Industry vs. Inferiority
**School age (6 – 11 years)**: A child compares self to others during this phase and either develops a sense of industry and work ethic or feelings of inadequacy.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development Psychosocial Stage 5 - Identity vs. Role Confusion
**Adolescence:(12 – 18 years)** During this period, teens may have an identity crisis, questioning their roles in the world and future goals. If parents allow youth to explore the world, they'll develop their own identities, but those who are punished for autonomy may develop role confusion.
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# stage 5 what is One of the main elements of Erikson's psychosocial stage theory?
is the **development of ego identity.** It is the conscious sense of self that we develop through social interaction, which is constantly changing due to new experiences and information we acquire in our daily interactions with others.
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Erikson defines identity as?
“fundamental organizing principal which develops constantly throughout the lifespan.” ## Footnote Identity involves the experiences, relationships, beliefs, values, and memories that make up a person's subjective sense of self. This helps create a continuous self- image that remains fairly constant even as new aspects of the self are developed or strengthened over time. Identity provides the following: ● Self-sameness: A sense of continuity within the self and in interaction with others ● Uniqueness: A frame to differentiate between self and interaction with others ● Psychosocial development: Mental and physical health for adolescents
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# stage 5 Children who are not allowed to explore and test out different identities might be left with what?
Erikson referred to as **role confusion**, which can result in the following: ● Being unsure of who you are and where you fit ● Drifting from one job or relationship to another ● Feeling disappointed and confused about your place in life
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# stage 5 Benefits of Identity
● **Commitment**: Resolving the crisis at this stage of development involves committing to a particular identity. This might involve committing to a career path, deciding what social groups to associate with, and even developing a sense of personal style. ● **Self-confidence**: Those who are able to develop a strong sense of identity are better able to have self-confidence, or a sense of trust in their abilities, qualities, and judgements. ● **Sense of independence**: Those who receive proper encouragement and reinforcement through personal exploration will emerge from this stage with a strong sense of self and a feeling of independence and control. Those who remain unsure of their beliefs and desires will remain insecure and confused about themselves and the future. ## Footnote Causes - There are various factors that contribute to whether a person forms a strong identity. Friends, family, schoolmates, other social groups, societal trends, and pop culture all play a role in shaping and forming identity.
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During the identity vs. confusion stage, what is the conflict is centred on?
developing a personal identity. Successfully completing this stage leads to a strong sense of self that will remain throughout life.
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# stage 5 Consequences of Role Confusion can have lasting consequences on a person's life, including (Rageliené, 2016):
●**Difficulties with commitment**: A stable personal identity allows individuals to have better relationships with others. ● **Worse mental health and well-being:** Research has linked a strong sense of identity to better emotional and psychological well-being in adolescents. ●**Lack of confidence:** A lack of self-identity can make it difficult for people to have confidence in themselves and their abilities.
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# stage 5 How to Decrease Role Confusion If you're feeling confused about who you are and your role in life, there are steps you can take to decrease role confusion.
●**Build on your strengths. **Identify the areas in your life in which you excel and take time to develop and build on those strengths. ●** Try new things to discover what you like.** Think about your passions and interests. Brainstorm some ideas around things that excite you. ● **Participate in activities that are related to your interests.** Whether church events or clubs for sports, take the initiative to become part of something that interests you.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development Psychosocial Stage 6 - intimacy vs. isolation
**Early adulthood (19 – 40 years)** The development of strong friendships and healthy intimate relationships help people develop intimacy, but people who fail at this task may become isolated.
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# stage 6 What Is Intimacy?
Erikson believed that it was vital to develop close, committed relationships with other people. As people enter adulthood, these emotionally intimate relationships play a critical role in a person's emotional well-being. It includes romantic partners, but it can also encompass close, enduring friendships with people outside of your family.
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# stage 5 Benefits of Intimacy People who navigate this period of life successfully are able to forge fulfilling relationships with other people. People who are successful in resolving the conflict of the intimacy versus isolation stage have:
● Close romantic relationships ● Deep, meaningful connections ● Positive relationships with family and friends ● Strong relationships ## Footnote When this happens successfully, you gain the support, intimacy, and companionship of another person. But sometimes things don't go so smoothly. You might experience rejection or other responses that cause you to withdraw. It might harm your confidence and self- esteem, making you warier of putting yourself out there again in the future.
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# stage 5 Isolation can happen for a number of reasons. Factors that may increase your risk of becoming lonely or isolated include:
● Childhood experiences including neglect or abuse ● Divorce or death of a partner ● Fear of commitment ● Fear of intimacy
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# stage 5 Consequences of Isolation
A person **might never share deep intimacy with their partners or might even struggle to develop any relationships at all.** This can be particularly difficult as these individuals watch friends and acquaintances fall in love, get married, and start families. Loneliness can affect overall health in other ways. For example, socially isolated people tend to have unhealthier diets, exercise less, experience greater daytime fatigue, and have poorer sleep (Schrempft et al., 2019).
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development Psychosocial Stage 7 - Generativity vs. Stagnation
**Middle age (40 – 65 years)**: People who develop a sense of purpose—from parenting, hobbies, or a career—excel during this period, but those who find no purpose or value in their activities may stagnate.
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# Erik Erikson's Stages of Psychosocial Development Psychosocial Stage 8 - Integrity vs. Despair
**Old age (65 – death)**: People may look back on their lives fondly or feel an overpowering sense of regret and despair.
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# stage 2 - Autonomy vs shame Potty Training
The essential theme of this stage is that children **need to develop a sense of personal control over physical skills and a sense of independence.** Potty training plays an **important role** in helping children develop this sense of autonomy. Like Freud, Erikson believed that toilet training was a vital part of this process. **However, Erikson's reasoning was quite different than that of Freud's.** Erikson believed that **learning to control one's bodily functions leads to a feeling of control and a sense of independence.** Kids who have **confidence in their skills are more likely to succeed in subsequent tasks** such as mastering social, academic, and other skills. Offering reassurance and having **faith** in your childs abilities is crucial to the development of a sense of autonomy and confidence (Paediatric Child Health, 2004). Parents who are negative or who punish a child for simple mistakes can contribute to feelings of shame or self-doubt. ## Footnote Other important events include gaining more control over food choices, toy preferences, and clothing selection.
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# stage 5 Benefits of Identity
● **Commitment**: Resolving the crisis at this stage of development involves committing to a particular identity. This might involve committing to a career path, deciding what social groups to associate with, and even developing a sense of personal style. ● **Self-confidence**: Those who are able to develop a strong sense of identity are better able to have self-confidence, or a sense of trust in their abilities, qualities, and judgements. ● **Sense of independence**: Those who receive proper encouragement and reinforcement through personal exploration will emerge from this stage with a strong sense of self and a feeling of independence and control. Those who remain unsure of their beliefs and desires will remain insecure and confused about themselves and the future. ## Footnote Causes - There are various factors that contribute to whether a person forms a strong identity. Friends, family, schoolmates, other social groups, societal trends, and pop culture all play a role in shaping and forming identity.
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# stage 6 What Is Intimacy?
Erikson believed that it was vital to develop close, committed relationships with other people. As people enter adulthood, these emotionally intimate relationships play a critical role in a person's emotional well-being. It includes romantic partners, but it can also encompass close, enduring friendships with people outside of your family. ## Footnote How to Build Intimacy Learning to be open and sharing with others is an important part of the intimacy versus isolation stage. Some of the other important tasks that can play a role in succeeding or struggling at this point of development include: ● Being intimate: This is more than just engaging in sex; it means forging emotional intimacy and closeness. Intimacy does not necessarily have to be with a sexual partner. People can also gain intimacy from friends and loved ones. ● Caring for others: It is essential to be able to care about the needs of others. Relationships are reciprocal. Getting love is important at this stage, but so is giving it. ● Making commitments: Part of being able to form strong relationships involves being able to commit to others for the long term. ● Self-disclosure: This involves sharing part of the self with others, while still maintaining a strong sense of self-identity.
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# stage 6 How to Overcome Isolation
* **Avoid Negative Self-Talk -** The things we tell ourselves can have an impact on our ability to be confident in relationships, particularly if those thoughts are negative. When you catch yourself having this type of inner dialogue, focus on replacing negative thoughts with more realistic ones. * **Build Skills -** Sometimes practicing social skills can be helpful when you are working toward creating new relationships. Consider taking a course in social skill development or try practicing your skills in different situations each day.