UNIT 6 Flashcards

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social relationships

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  • dynamic, recurrent patterns of internactions iwth other individuals
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attachment theory

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  • Bowlby’s theory
  • infants form strong affectional bonds with their caregivers that provide basic security and understanding of the world and serve as a foundation for later relationships
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attachment

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  • strong affectional bond an infant forms with his or her caregivers
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attachment behaviors

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  • outward expressions of attachment
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internal working model

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  • Bowlby
  • the set of beliefs and assumptions a person has about the nature of all relationships based on specific experiences in childhood
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attachment orientation

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  • patterns of expectations, needs, and emotions one exhibits in interpersonal relationships that extend beyond the early attachment figures
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caregiving orientation

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  • system that is activated in adults when they interact with infants and young children, causing them to respond to the appearance and behavior of younger members of species by providing security, comfort, and protection
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convoy

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  • ever-changing network of social relationships that surrounds each of us throughout our lives
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socioemotional selective theory

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  • Carstensen
  • the explanation that people emphasize more on meaningful, emotional satisfying social relationships as they become older because they are more aware of the end of life than younger people
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evolutionary psychology

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  • explains human behavior in terms of genetic patterns that were useful in our primitive ancestors for survival and reproduction success
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mate selection

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  • process of choosing a long-term partner for an intimate relationship
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3 emotional system for mate selection

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  • lust
  • attraction
  • attachment
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lust

mate selection

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  • causes men adn women to experience sexual desire to seek our sexual opportunities
  • accelerator
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attraction

mate selection

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  • directs men and women to attend to specific potential mates an dto desire an emotional relationship
  • steering wheel
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attachment

mate selection

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  • drives men and women to be close to the target of attraction and to feel comfortable, secure, adn emotionally dependent with that person
  • romantic love, obsessive love, passion
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libido

lust system

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  • sexual desire
  • foundation of all intimate relationships
  • powered by androgens
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filter theory

attraction

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  • theory that we select mates by using finer and finer filtering mechanisms
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exchange theory
(attraction)
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  • theory that we select mates by evaluating the assets we ahve to offer in a relationship and the assets the potential mates have to offer, adn try to make the best deal
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selection effect

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  • those who are more mature and have stronger relationships follow the traditional path to marriage
  • whereas those with doubts and troubled relationships opt for cohabitation first
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engaged cohabitation

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  • the couple becomes engaged before moving in together

- lead to marriage

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preengaged cohabitation

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  • the couple becomes engaged after moving in together

- lead to marriage

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nuclear families

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  • parents and their children
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extended families

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  • grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, and other relatives beyond the nuclear family of parents and children
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intergenerational solidarity theory

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  • extent to which family members of different generations are close to each other
  • quality of family relationships can be assessed
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associational solidarity
(intergenerational solidarity theory)
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  • how often family members interact with each other adn what type of activities they do together
  • frequency and pattern of interaction in various types of activities
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affectional solidarity
(intergenerational solidarity theory)
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  • how positive the sentiments are that family members hold for ache other adn whether those sentiments are returned
  • they type and degree of positive sentiment that family members hold for each other
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consensual solidarity
(intergenerational solidarity theory)
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  • how well family members hold the same values, attitudes, and beliefs
  • the degree of agreement on values, attitudes, and beliefs among family members
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functional solidarity
(intergenerational solidarity theory)
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  • how much family members do for each other in terms of services or assistance
  • the degree to which family members exchange services or assistance
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normative solidarity
(intergenerational solidarity theory)
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  • how much family members feel a part of the family group and identity with each other
  • perceptions of norms of family solidarity adn the degree to which they are followed
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30
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intergenerational family structure

intergenerational solidarity theory

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  • how many family members there are, how they are related, and how close they live to each other
  • number, type and geographic proximity of family members
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31
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ambivalence

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  • mixed feelings or feelings of being torn into two directions
32
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grandmother effect

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  • suggestion that the presence of grandmothers (especially maternal grandmothers) has ensured children’s survival through recorded history
  • trait of longevity
33
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friendship

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  • voluntary interpersonal relationship carried out within a social context
34
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anthropomorphizing

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  • giving human thoughts, feelings, adn motivations to non-human animals and objects, such as pets
35
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homogamy

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  • similarity of values and interests
36
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  1. fondness and admiration

gottman

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  • when they are talking together
  • affection and admiration
  • positive emotion shared
37
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  1. “we-ness” vs. “me-ness”

gottman

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  • refer to each other as “we”
  • unit
  • considerations
38
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  1. love maps

gottman

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  • talks about their love history
  • lots of details = memories
  • positive expression
39
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  1. purpose and meaning

gottman

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  • difficult times

- went through together = more pride to overcome things

40
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  1. satisfaction

gottman

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  • gratefulness
41
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validating marriage

successful marriage gottman

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  • mutual respect and disagreements rarely escalate
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volatile marriage
(successful marriage gottman)
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  • many disagreements but much affection, passion, and positive emotions
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avoidant marriage
(successful marriage gottman)
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  • agree to disagree and don’t try to persuade each other
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hostile negative marriage

unsuccessful marriage gottman

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  • anger towards each other

- disappointment

45
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emotionally unexpressive marriages

unsuccessful marriage gottman

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  • little emotional expression
  • little affection, humor
  • emotionally disconnected
46
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influential

grandparents

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  • provide advice
  • support
  • parenting role
  • disciplinary
47
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supportive

grandparents

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  • less involved

- not in daily basis

48
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passive

grandparents

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  • wait for g.children or children to make contact

- seldom to take initiative

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authority oriented

grandparents

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  • impart the tradition
  • authority figure
  • formal relationships
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detached

grandparents

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  • little to do with their g.children

- no effort to make any contact

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proximity

adult attachment

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  • comfort that comes from the close physical or psychological presence of the attachment figure
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safe haven

adult attachment

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  • help and support when a threat is present
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secure base

adult attachment

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  • support in pursuing personal goals
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independent style

friendship

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  • no best friend
  • no emotional connection
  • lots of social contact
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discerning style

friendship

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  • small very close friends, intense connection

- long term

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gregarious style

friendship

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  • large friendship groups; make connections; emotionally connected
57
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repulsion hypothesis

filter theory

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  • dissimilarity leads to less social interaction
58
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assortive mating

filter theory

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  • based on similarity

- leads to more relationship satisfaction

59
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secure

Hazen and Shaver - mate Attachment

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  • values themselves and others

- secure

60
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dismissing

Hazen and Shaver - mate Attachment

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  • value themselves but not others

- avoidant

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preoccupied

Hazen and Shaver - mate Attachment

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  • value others but not themselves

- anxious

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fearful

Hazen and Shaver - mate Attachment

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  • no value on themselves and others

- disorganized

63
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rejection sensitivity

attachment mate

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  • look for signs of leaving

- misreading actions

64
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intimacy

components of love

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  • emotional component
  • feeling of closeness
  • self disclosure
65
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passion

components of love

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  • motivational and arousal component
  • physical attraction
  • sexual desire
  • intensity of feeling
66
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commitment

components of love

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  • cognitive component, putting the relationship first

- consideration of other persons in decision

67
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personal commitment

commitment

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  • how much wants to stay in the relationship
68
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moral commitment

commitment

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  • feeling morally obliged to stay in the relationship
69
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structural commitment
(commitment)
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  • social constraints or barriers to leaving the relationships
70
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ideal/consumate love

types of love

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  • intimacy
  • passion
  • commitment
71
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romantic love
(types of love)
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  • intimacy

- passion

72
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companionate love
(types of love)
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  • commitment

- intimacy

73
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fatous love
(types of love)
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  • passion

- commitment

74
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empty love
(types of love)
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  • commitment
75
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infatuation

types of love

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  • passion
76
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liking

types of love

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  • intimacy