私は会話が苦手です！だから、会話が上手なんです！🤩

Question 1

The more you challenge yourself, the more there is to do, so a month feels longer.

Answer 1

チャレンジすればするほどやることは増えるから一ヶ月長く感じるの。

Question 2

Generally, when it feels like it went by so quickly, I wasn’t doing anything in particular.

Answer 2

だいたいあのすごく早かった感じる時は特になんか何もしてない

Question 3

Regarding January, I feel like it was short, therefore I think I kind of spent it leisurely.

Answer 3

１月に関しては僕は短く感じているということはなんかダラダラ過ごしちゃったのかななんて思います

Question 4

They closed the road, made it so no cars could pass through

Answer 4

その道路を閉めて車を通れないようにして

道路(douro)

Question 5

A market like the one in Alladi’s town.

Answer 5

アラジンのこう街にあるような市場

Question 6

The ceiling is made out of fabric and vegetables are placed on tables and sold. Those kind of shops were lined up along the street like “dwaa”

Answer 6

布でさ天井を作って野菜をテーブルの上に乗せて売るようなああいうお店が道にどわーとこう並ぶんですけど。

布(nuno)
天井(tenjou)

Question 7

I left my phone behind, brought only cash, a shopping bag and went shopping.

Answer 7

あの携帯も置いてね現金だけ持って買い物袋を持って買い物に行ってね。

携帯(keitai)
現金(genkin)

Question 8

Ugh, I’m hungry I thought and in the market there was a restaurant, or rather food stall where you could eat tacos. I sat there, relaxed and ate my food.

Answer 8

いやーお腹すいたなあと思ってあのーその市場の中にタコスが食べられるねまあレストランっていうか屋台があるんですけどそこに座ってのんびりご飯を食べて。

屋台(yatai)

Question 9

When I looked around, everyone was on their phone even when eating taco.

Answer 9

周りを見るとみんなさタコスを食べるときも携帯を見ちゃうわけですよ。

携帯(keitai)

Question 10

The couple next to me were on Instagram on their phone while holding tacos.

Answer 10

僕の隣にいたカップルはねタコス持ちながら携帯でインスタグラムを見ながら

Question 11

While thinking that I’m an old man, I thought after all I want to at least not be on my phone while I’m eating.

Answer 11

おじさんだなと思いながらやっぱりこうご飯を食べるときぐらいはさあの携帯電話見ないようにしたいなって思いました。

Question 12

want to focus on each and every thing in front of me and live my life like this. I was thinking about this while drinking Coca-Cola and eating delicious tacos at a taco shop.

Answer 12

一つ一つ今目の前にあることにね集中して生きていきたいなていうのをこうタコス屋で考えながらねコカ・コーラを飲み、美味しいタコスを食べた

集中(shuuchuu)

Question 13

Um, on Monday night I recorded a collab Podcast with Miku chan from Miku Real Japanese and I want to talk a little more about what I felt at that time.

Answer 13

えっと月曜日の夜にあのミクリアルジャパニーズのミクちゃんとコラボポッドキャストを録りましてあのその時にね感じたことをもうちょっとプラスでお話ししたいなと思います。

Question 14

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I recorded a podcast with Miku san with the topic of giving advice to improve your conversation, that was around one hour.

Answer 14

会話が上手になるためのアドバイスっていうテーマでそのミクさんとねもう結構一時間ぐらいのポッドキャストを録ったんだけど

Question 15

Towards the end of the podcast, it became a talk about how in the end it’s better to not worry.

Answer 15

そのポッドキャストの終わりの方にねまあ結局気にしなくていいんじゃない？？っていうような話になったんですよ。

結局(kekkyoku)

Question 16

It’s true that I’m really not good at conversation.

Answer 16

確かに僕は会話がすごく苦手なんですよ。

Question 17

That’s why when it comes to me, who’s bad at conversation, giving advice, in the end it becomes careless advice like “You don’t need to worry”.

Answer 17

なのですごく会話が得意じゃない私がアドバイスをするって言ったら最終的に気にしなくていいんじゃない？？みたいな適当なアドバイスになってしまったん

Question 18

To be honest, I was unsure whether to record this podcast or not.

Answer 18

正直このポッドキャスト録ろうかやめようか迷ったんだよな。

正直(shoujiki)
迷ったん(mayotta)

Answer 19

プライベートレッスンを受けてくれている学生もいる中、これを言うのが果たして正しいのか正しくないのかってなんか嫌われちゃったらやだな思いながら。

Question 20

The best thing is not to worry

Answer 20

気にしないのが一番いい

Question 21

When you have fewer friends, when you are in trouble, there are fewer people to help you. And when there are few people to help you when you are in trouble, life becomes quite difficult.

Answer 21

友達が少なくなると困ったときに手伝ってくれる人がちょっと少なくなるわけよねで困っている時に手伝ってくれる人が少ないとちょっと人生なかなか難しくなってきちゃうわけよね。

Question 22

If I can no longer work as a Japanese teacher, and can no longer do Podcasts, if someone were to say “Yuusuke, my company has work, would you help out?” it would be a huge help.

Answer 22

日本語の先生の仕事ができなくなってポッドキャストもできなくなった時にもし誰かが ”悠介、俺の会社仕事があるんだけど手伝ってくれない？？” って言ってくれたらめちゃめちゃ助かるわけじゃん。

Question 23

The more people who like you, the higher that percentage will be.

Answer 23

自分のことが好きな人が多ければ多いほどそのパーセンテージは高くなるよね。

Question 24

Well, it’s ok not to care. But, if whatever you do you don’t have many friends and you’re in trouble, think it’s important after all to be careful while you talk.

Answer 24

まあ気にしなくてはいいけど。でもどうしても友達が少なくて困っているときにはやっぱり気をつけながら話すことも大事だと思うんですよ。

Question 25

I will introduce the things you need to be careful of to everyone who wants to get good at conversation in Japanese.

Answer 25

日本語の会話が上手になりたいみんなに気をつけなければならないことを紹介します。

Question 26

There's no meaning to conversation in the first place.

Answer 26

そもそも会話に意味なんてない。

Question 27

To get the other person to do something

Answer 27

相手に何かをやってもらうとか

Question 28

When you hear "conversation", things like expressing your thoughts, or things like getting the other person to do something, those things happen, but, when you think there's really not much meaning you feel a lot more at ease.

Answer 28

あの会話って聞くとね、自分の思いを伝えるとか相手に何かをやってもらうとかそういうのはあるんだけどほとんど意味なんてないんだって思うとすげー気持ち楽になる。

Question 29

People who's conversations aren't going well often say they can't communicate their thoughts.

Answer 29

よくさ、こう会話がうまくいかないっていう人が言うのがさなんか自分の考えが伝わらない

Question 30

I said this before, but

Answer 30

さっきも言ったんだけど

Question 31

The person listening, that person.. no matter how much I give my heart to say something, I don't understand what the person listening feels, I don't know if they want to understand. So it's almost pointless.

Answer 31

聞いてる人はね、その人がね、私がどんなに心を込めて何かを話したとしても聞いているの人の気持ちなんてわからないし聞いてる人がわかりたいことがわかんないから。ほとんど意味なんてないわけよ。

Question 32

So, what's the goal of conversation? When I think that, I think it's to feel great after the conversation is over.

Answer 32

じゃあさ、会話のゴールって何なんだろう？？って思うと会話が終わった後に素敵な気持ちになることなんじゃないかなって思うんだ。 | 素敵(suteki)

Question 33

If you think, "That was so much fun!", then it's a good conversation.

Answer 33

なんかすげー楽しかった！って思えればさ、それはいい会話だよね。

Question 34

If you think it's not about yourself, making the other person feel good is the most important thing in a conversation, then you will become considerably better at conversation, that's what I think.

Answer 34

自分がどうこうじゃなくて相手が素敵な気持ちになることが一番会話で大事なことだと思うとだいぶね、話が上手になると僕は思っている。 | 素敵(suteki)

Question 35

In the first place, the likelihood of the other person wanting your opinion or advice is very low. Regarding what I say.

Answer 35

そもそもね相手が自分の意見とかアドバイスを求めている可能性ってめちゃめちゃ低いのよね私の言う事に対して

Question 36

Wouldn't it make you the most happy to be recognized like "I understand" or "You're fine the way you are", "You're a good person", "You're a great person"

Answer 36

わかるわーとか あなたは大丈夫だよそのままで あなたはいい人間だ、すごい人間だよって認めてもらうことが一番嬉しくない？

Question 37

like, for example, I've been recording **now** this podcast for 23, 24 minutes.

Answer 37

なんか例えばこのポッドキャストを今23分24分録ってるけどさ

Question 38

What would make me **most** happy would be if it was said "Wow, what Yusuke said was spot on, I tried it out and got really good at conversations" that would make me the most happy, for me.

Answer 38

僕が一番嬉しいのはうわあ悠介さんの考えはもうその通りだと実際にやってみてすごく会話上手になったよって言われるのがさ一番嬉しいよね、僕的に。 | 実際(jissai)

Question 39

I think the key to being good at conversation is to not and show interest in the other person.

Answer 39

自分を薄くして相手に興味を持つようにするっていうのが一番会話が上手になるポイントなんじゃないかなって思います。 | 薄く(usuku)

Question 40

Instead of speaking to someone, I think it would be better to practice recording a podcast like me.

Answer 40

誰かと話すじゃなくて僕みたいにPodcastを録る練習をしたほうがいいかなと思う。

Question 41

It's not like your doing nothing else, only sitting, stretching your back and listening now for 25 minutes. I think you're listening while doing things like cooking, what else? eating, driving a car.

Answer 41

他のこと何もしないでさ座って背中を伸ばして今25分聞いてるわけじゃないと思うんだよね。料理をしながらとかさ何だろうご飯を食べながらとかさ車を運転しながら聞いてくれてると思うんだけど。

Question 42

?

Answer 42

あのやっぱながらで聞くからこうやって25分人の話を聞けるわけであって

Question 43

In a real conversation, in a cafe, without talking for 25 minutes, listening to someone talking for 25 minutes is really tough.

Answer 43

実際の会話で喫茶店で25分何も話さずに誰かの話25分聞くのめちゃめちゃきついわけよ。 | 実際(jissai) 喫茶店(kissaten)

Question 44

With that in mind, **if you can** be like you are interested in the other person.

Answer 44

それを考えるとできれば相手に興味を持つようにする。

Question 45

I feel kind of like I haven't been able to speak well today.

Answer 45

なんかうまく今日話してない感じがするけど

Question 46

First, with all your heart, as hard as you can, listen to what the other person wants to express.

Answer 46

１つ目 相手が伝えたいことを心を込めて一生懸命聞く。 | 懸命(kenmei)

Question 47

Let's leave what we want to say behind. What we ourselves want to say. Try and listen to what the other person wants to express, try to understand and, regarding what they say, say something like "I understand" or "That's great" or "That's good", this is called affirmation.

Answer 47

話したいことを置いときましょ自分が話したいことはね。相手が伝えたいことを頑張って聞くわかろうとする、で、それに対して分かったとかすごいねとかいいねとかこれ肯定するって言うんだけど。 | 対して(taishite) 肯定(koutei)

Question 48

Then suddenly, even though you aren't finished talking, if they say "but"

Answer 48

それでいきなりまだ話終わってないのに”でも”って言われたら。

Question 49

He said it was interesting to express opposing opinions and have it turn into a debate.

Answer 49

反対意見を言ってディベートになっていくのが面白いっていう風に言っていました。 反対(hantai)

Question 50

There's a student from France who is taking my private lessons. In France, after all, it's important to debate opinions (that's what he believes)

Answer 50

あの僕のプライベっとレッスン受けてくれているフランスの学生がいるんだけどフランスはやっぱ意見を戦わせることは大事だと

Question 51

I think the atmosphere of the conversation becomes much better.

Answer 51

どんどんどんどん会話の雰囲気が良くなってくるかなって思う。 雰囲気(fuinki)

Question 52

Um, I actually gave some advice regarding this when I collaborated with Miku San, it would be great if you listened to it there.

Answer 52

あのこれに関するねアドバイスは実はこのミクさんとコラボをしたときにいくつかお話をしてるのでまあそこで聞いてくれればいいかなと思います。

Question 53

The talk is about specifically what techniques there are.

Answer 53

具体的にどういうねテクニックがあるかっていう話な 具体的に(gutaiteki)

Question 54

If you want to get good at conversation, when someone is listening to you, I think it's best to think that the person listening is doing something for you.

Answer 54

上手に会話をしたかったら聞いてもらっているときは話を聞いてくれている人は私のために何かをしてくれているんだなって思ったほうが良いと思います。うん

Question 55

They're bearing with me, now , I'm grateful.

Answer 55

今私のために我慢してくれてんだなあありがたいな

Question 56

So when you do that, naturally you will think "This time I will ask a question"

Answer 56

でそうすると自然となんか、じゃあ今度は自分が質問しようって思う

Question 57

Whatever I do, while listening to what people are saying I say my own ideas.

Answer 57

どうしても話聞きながら自分のアイデイアを話しちゃったり

Question 58

things like your pet being unwell

Answer 58

ペットの体調が悪いとか。 | 体調(taichou)

Question 59

Something important to me broke

Answer 59

大事にしてたものが壊れた

Question 60

When that happens, you want to end the conversation quickly.

Answer 60

そうすると早く会話を終わらせたい

Question 61

It becomes a careless way of listening, like "I understand, I understand, I know how you feel"

Answer 61

”わかったわかった、気持ちよくわかるよ”みたいな適当な聞き方になっちゃう | 適当(tekitou)

Question 62

If you do that, then because you ended up listening lazily, the person talking about journeys becomes like "Well, I don't think Yuusuke, who hasn't traveled much will understand, though"

Answer 62

そうすると適当な聞き方になってしまっているからその旅について話してる人は”まあああまり旅行もしてない悠介にはそんな気持ちわからないと思うけど”みたいになるわけよ。 | 適当(tekitou)

Question 63

If that happens it would just make me more angry.

Answer 63

そうすると俺もっと腹を立つわけじゃん

Question 64

The mood will gradually get worse and worse.

Answer 64

だんだんだんだん雰囲気が悪くなってくる

Question 65

In other words, a big reason why the mood gets bad during a conversation is because your mental and physical condition is poor.

Answer 65

つまり会話で雰囲気が悪くなるその大きな理由は自分の心と体のコンデイションが悪いから。 | 理由(riyuu)

Question 66

If you ask something like "Did something bad happen?", from there might start a great conversation.

Answer 66

嫌なことあった？？っていう風に聞くとそこから素敵な会話が始まるかもしれないね。 | 嫌(iya) 素敵(suteki)

Question 67

and what else? It probably means there were a lot of people gathered who were interested in that topic.

Answer 67

あと何だろうな、そのテーマについてすごく興味がある人がしっかり集まれているって事かな | 興味(kyoumi)

Question 68

But the conversations that happen in life aren't only like those, are they. There are times when you have to talk to people who aren't interested in the things you like, arent there?.

Answer 68

でも人生で起こる会話がそれだけじゃなくてじゃん、なんかもう自分が好きなことに興味持ってない人とも話さなきゃいけない時もあるじゃん？

Question 69

I would be happy if, when you go out to drink with friends, remember Yuusuke like "I will listen with all my heart"

Answer 69

友達と飲みに行くってなった時に、心を込めて聞こうって祐介のことを思い出してくれると嬉しいです。

Question 70

The more ideas I have, the more ideas I come out while I'm listening.

Answer 70

アイデイアがあればあるほど聞きながらアイデイアが出てきちゃうのよ

Question 71

When the project was explained to me...

Answer 71

そのプロジェクトの説明をしてもらう時に | 説明(setsumei)

Question 72

When that happens I can't hear what the other person is saying **at all**

Answer 72

そうするとさ相手の話が全然耳に入ってこないわけよ。

Question 73

I listen to what the other person is saying for **around** 5 minutes, and then after that for about 20 minutes, it's not a conversation, my podcast is unfolding in front of my friends.

Answer 73

なんか5分ぐらい相手の話を聞いてその後20分ぐらい会話ではなく僕のポッドキャストが友達の前で繰り広げがれるわけですよ、

Question 74

When I do that, as expected the other person will think it's really boring,

Answer 74

そうするとやっぱ相手はねすごくつまらないなって思ってしまうし

Question 75

I read a book called philosophy of conversation.

Answer 75

会話の哲学っていう本を読んで。 | 哲学(tetsugaku)

Question 76

I understand it the way I want to understand it.

Answer 76

わかりたいようにわかってしまう

Question 77

In other words, my state of mind when I wanted to buy that book was that I had probably thought more seriously about conversation than other people.

Answer 77

つまりその本を買いたい時の僕の心境は、僕は多分会話について他の人よりも真剣に考えたことがある。 | 心境(shinkyou) 真剣(shinken)

Question 78

I think I probably bought that book because I wanted to know whether my thoughts were correct or not.

Answer 78

その考えが正しいかどうか知りたいから多分その本を買ったと思うんだよね。

Question 79

I don't ever buy things about topics I don't know about

Answer 79

全くさ、知らないテーマの事って買わないじゃん

Question 80

Surely, that "Philosophy of conversation" book- I bought it on the iPad, but... The book next to it, what was it again? Um... "New Society Capitalism", a book about economics.

Answer 80

確かその会話の哲学の本、あのiPadで買ったんだけどその本の隣にあったのが何だっけな…えーと 新社会の資本主義っていう経済の本だったんだよ。 | 哲学(tetsugaku)

Question 81

It was an economy book called "New Society Capitalism"

Answer 81

新社会の資本主義っていう経済の本だったんだよ。 | 新(shin) 社会(shakai) 資本主義(shihonshugi) 経済(keizai)

Question 82

I didn't have the slightest intention of buying that book.

Answer 82

その本は僕はもう１ミリも買おうとは思ってないわけですよ、

Question 83

In the first place, I only see the world that I want to see. Isn't that the case for everyone?

Answer 83

そもそも私が見たい世界しか見てないんですよね。みんなそうだよね？

Question 84

For example, people who like anime wouldn't open Netflix and think "Let's watch a Drama"

Answer 84

例えばアニメが好きな人がさNetflixを開いてドラマを見ようって思わないじゃん | 開いて(hiraite)

Question 85

Even if [they] talked to me, who didn't go out of his way to buy the book about capitalism that I happened to see, about the economy, I would listen to everyone while thinking "I'm not interested in that kind of thing."

Answer 85

その目に入った本、資本主義っていうのをわざわざ買わない僕に経済の話をされても…なんかそんなもん興味姉なって思いながらみんな聞くわけですよね。 経済(keizai) | 資本主義(shihonshugi)

Question 86

It's almost impossible for these two to have a pleasant conversation

Answer 86

この二人が楽しい会話をするのはまあほぼ不可能だよね | 不可能(fukanou)

Question 87

But in a normal conversation you talk about what happened from the start,

Answer 87

でもさ普通会話で何があったかって最初に話さないじゃん | 最初(saisho)

Question 88

I end up only seeing what I want to understand, rather than what the other person wants to convey.

Answer 88

なんか相手の伝えたいことよりも自分がわかりたいことしか見ないようになっちゃう

Question 89

I can't see the other persons situation properly

Answer 89

相手の状況をちゃんと見てあげられない | 状況(joukyou)