9 LOVE + SEXUALITY Flashcards

1
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ados in ASIAN CULTURES tend to have first romantic relationship ___ than other cultures

A

LATER

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  1. RECREATION (fun/enjoyment)
  2. LEARNING (becoming more skilled at romantic interactions)
  3. STATUS (impressing others w high-status partner)
  4. COMPANIONSHIP (sharing activities w smn else)
  5. INTIMACY (close emotional relationship)
  6. COURTSHIP (seeking steady partner)
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REASONS TO FORM LOVE RELATIONSHIPS IN ADO

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EARLY/LATE ADOS: most important reason for relationships = ___ followed by ___ then ___

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RECREATION; INTIMACY; STATUS

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COLLEGE STUDENTS: most important reason for relationships = ___ followed by ___ then ___ then ___

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INTIMACY; COMPANIONSHIP; RECREATION; STATUS

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MIDDLE ADO BOYS: ___ ___ = most preferred quality in romantic partner

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PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS

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MIDDLE ADO GIRLS: ___/___ = most preferred quality in romantic partner

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SUPPORT/INTIMACY

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LATE ADO BOYS + GIRLS: ___/___/___/___/___ = most preferred qualities in romantic partner

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SUPPORT/INTIMACY/COMMUNICATION/COMMITMENT/PASSION

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8
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does physical maturation predict dating habits?

A

NO

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  1. ados in SAME-SEX groups join OPPOSITE-SEX groups to hang out in public places
  2. ados take part in social events organized in adults + develop crushes
  3. MIXED-SEX groups go to movies together + relationships = short-lived
  4. ados begin to hang out in pairs + romantic relationships = more adult-like
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4 PHASES OF ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP DEVMT IN ADO

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unwritten set of cultural rules/expectations transmitted thru fam/media/education

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SOCIAL SCRIPTS

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cog models that guide DATING interactions

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DATIN GSCRIPTS

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DATING SCRIPT based on characteristics of INDIVIDUALISM + MALE CHARACTERISTICS

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PROACTIVE SCRIPT

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DATING SCRIPT based on characteristics of INTERDEPENDENCE + FEMALE CHARACTERISTICS

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REACTIVE SCRIPT

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males follow a ___ DATING SCRIPT + females follow a ___ DATING SCRIPT

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PROACTIVE; REACTIVE

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Q
  • ados in relationships = MORE POPULAR
  • more POSITIVE self-image
  • more SOCIAL-ACCEPTANCE/FRIENDSHIP CONFIDENCE/ROMANTIC COMPETENCE
A

POSITIVE OUTCOMES OF RELATIONSHIPS IN ADO

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  • GIRLS: serious relationship = related to DEPRESSED mood bc under bf’s pressure to participate in sex before ready
  • romantic experience = related to greater substance use/delinquent bhvr
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NEGATIVE OUTCOMES OF RELATIONSHIPS IN ADO

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17
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principle in social science of INTERPERSONAL ATTRACTION that ppl like to find in others an AGREEMENT/CONSENSUS w their own characteristics/views of life

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CONSENSUAL VALIDATION

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  1. INITIATION PHASE
  2. STATUS PHASE
  3. AFFECTION PHASE
  4. BONDING PHASE
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BROWN’S 4 PHASES IN THE DEVMTL MODEL OF ADO LOVE

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PHASE OF ADO LOVE that involves first romantic explorations which are superficial + brief w lots of fear/anxiety/excitement

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INITIATION PHASE

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PHASE OF ADO LOVE in which ados gain confidence in romantic interactions, begin to form first romantic relationships + assess how status w friends/peers would be influenced by relationship

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STATUS PHASE

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PHASE OF ADO LOVE in which ados express deeper feelings for each other + engage in more extensive sexual activity

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AFFECTION PHASE

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PHASE OF ADO LOVE in which romantic relationship becomes more serious + partners discuss potential lifelong commitment to each other

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BONDING PHASE

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23
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attachment styles btwn lovers resemble ___-___ attachment styles

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PARENT-CHILD

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ATTACHMENT STYLE btwn lovers characterized by EMOTIONAL SUPPORT + CONCERN for partner’s wellbeing

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SECURE ATTACHMENT STYLE

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ATTACHMENT STYLE btwn lovers characterized by EXCESSIVE DEPENDENCY on one partner or EXCESSIVE DISTANCING

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INSECURE ATTACHMENT STYLE

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26
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theory that diff types of love involve combining 3 fundamental qualities of love in diff ways

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STERNBERG’S THEORY OF LOVE

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  1. PASSION
  2. INTIMACY
  3. COMMITMENT
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STERNBERG’S 3 FUNDAMENTAL QUALITIES OF LOVE

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FUNDAMENTAL QUALITY OF LOVE: physical attraction + sexual desire

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PASSION

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FUNDAMENTAL QUALITY OF LOVE: feelings of closeness + emotional attachment

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INTIMACY

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30
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FUNDAMENTAL QUALITY OF LOVE: pledge to love someone over long run thru ups + downs

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COMMITMENT

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  1. LIKING
  2. INFATUATION
  3. EMPTY LOVE
  4. ROMANTIC LOVE
  5. COMPASSIONATE LOVE
  6. FATUOUS LOVE
  7. CONSUMMATE LOVE
A

7 FORMS OF LOVE (COMBOS OF 3 QUALITIES OF LOVE)

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32
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FORM OF LOVE:
INTIMACY (NO PASSION/COMMITMENT)

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LIKING

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33
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FORM OF LOVE:
PASSION (NO INTIMACY/COMMITMENT)

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INFATUATION

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34
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FORM OF LOVE:
COMMITMENT (NO PASSION/INTIMACY)

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EMPTY LOVE

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35
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FORM OF LOVE:
PASSION + INTIMACY (NO COMMITMENT)

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ROMANTIC LOVE

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36
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FORM OF LOVE:
INTIMACY + COMMITMENT (NO PASSION)

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COMPASSIONATE LOVE

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37
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FORM OF LOVE:
PASSION + COMMITMENT (NO INTIMACY)

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FATUOUS LOVE

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38
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FORM OF LOVE:
PASSION + INTIMACY + COMMITMENT

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CONSUMMATE LOVE

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39
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form of love in most friendships

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LIKING LOVE

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40
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form of love that involves a lot of emotional arousal + sexual desire but NO emotional closeness/commitment

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INFATUATION LOVE

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40
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form of love that applies to a couple married for long time who have LOST PASSION/INTIMACY or to ARRANGED MARRIAGES

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EMPTY LOVE

41
Q

form of love where ppl SAY they’re “in love” + it is intense + joyful but RARELY lasts long

A

ROMANTIC LOVE

42
Q

form of love that applies to
- marriage/long term couples whose PASSION has DECR but who have MAINTAINED other qualities of love
- unusually close friendships/close fam relationships

A

COMPASSIONATE LOVE

43
Q

form of love that applies to WHIRLWIND courtships where 2 ppl meet, fall passionately in love + get married too fast before getting to fully know each other

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FATUOUS LOVE

44
Q

ideal form of love for many ppl that involves PASSION, INTIMACY + COMMITMENT (despite these qualities potentially fading out)

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CONSUMMATE LOVE

45
Q

QUALITY of love that = MISSING for ADOS

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COMMITMENT

46
Q

QUALITY of love that only develops during EMERGINg ADULTHOOD

A

COMMITMENT

47
Q

ADOS rated ___/___/__ as MOST VALUES dimensions in relationships + ___ as LOW VALUE

A

COMPANIONSHIP/INTIMACY/SUPPORT; SECURITY

48
Q
  1. INFATUATION (PASSION no intimacy/commitment)
  2. ROMANTIC LOVE (PASSION/INTIMACY no commitment)
A

2 PRINCIPLE TYPES OF ADO LOVE

49
Q

WOMEN = ___ likely to break up w men

A

MORE

50
Q
  1. no common interests
  2. communication probs
  3. conflicting sexual attitudes
  4. conflicting marriage ideas
  5. diff background
  6. one partner wanted to be independent
  7. one partner = bored
  8. other partner wanted to be independent
  9. other partner = bored
  10. partner = interested in someone else
A

10 MOST COMMON REASONS FOR BREAKING UP (SPRECHER)

51
Q

unwanted pursuit of ex-partner (attempt to continue dating someone after they have clearly indicated desire to end relationship)

A

ROMANTIC HARRASSMENT

52
Q

living w romantic partner OUTSIDE marriage

A

COHABITATION

53
Q

COHABITATION before marriage = ___ likelihood of later divorce

A

HIGHER

54
Q
  1. MUTUAL ATTRACTION
  2. DEPENDABLE CHARACTER
  3. EMOTIONAL STABILITY/MATURITY
  4. DESIRE FOR HOME/CHILDREN
  5. EDUCATION/INTELLIGENCE
A

MALES’ TOP 5 MOST IMPORTANT TRAITS IN A MATE

55
Q
  1. MUTUAL ATTRACTION
  2. DEPENDABLE CHARACTER
  3. EMOTIONAL STABILITY/MATURITY
  4. EDUCATION INTELLIGENCE
  5. PLEASING DISPOSITION
A

FEMALES’ TOP 5 MOST IMPORTANT TRAITS IN A MATE

56
Q

marriage typical in TRAD cultures in which marriage partners = determined by others (usually parents/fam elders)

A

ARRANGED MARRIAGE

57
Q

desirability of marriage btwn prospective bride/groom = decided by each fam on basis of other fam’s:
1.
2.
3.

A
  1. STATUS
  2. RLGN
  3. WEALTH
58
Q

___ INCR extent to which young ppl value INDIV CHOICE/PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS

A

GLOBALIZATION

59
Q

marriage in which parents influence mate selection fo children but do not decide without child’s consent

A

SEMI-ARRANGED MARRIAGE

60
Q

not just bio sex devmt but also sexual beliefs/values/thoughts/feelings/relationships/bhvr

A

SEXUALITY

61
Q

smth ados develop that = sense of who they are as a sexual being

A

SEXUAL IDENTITY

62
Q
  1. SEXUAL SELF-ESTEEM
  2. SEXUAL SELF-EFFICACY
  3. SEXUAL SELF-IMAGE
A

3 COMPONENTS OF SEXUAL IDENTITY

63
Q

ppls perception of their WORTH as a sexual being

A

SEXUAL SELF-ESTEEM

64
Q

ppls CONFIDENCE in MASTERY/CONTROL of sexual activities

A

SEXUAL SELF-EFFICACY

65
Q

ppls perception of SEXUALITY + beliefs abt SEXUAL NEEDS

A

SEXUAL SELF-IMAGE

66
Q
  1. SEXUALLY NAIVE
  2. SEXUALLY COMPETENT
  3. SEXUALLY ADVENTUROUS
  4. SEXUALLY DRIVEN
A

4 SEXUAL STYLES TAKEN BY ADOS IN DEVELOPIGN SEXUAL IDENTITIES

67
Q

SEXUAL STYLE:
- LACK of confidence in sexual attractiveness
- LITTLE control over sexual situations
- usually YOUNGER girls who are inexperienced

A

SEXUALLY NAIVE

68
Q

SEXUAL STYLE:
- CONFIDENT in sexual appeal
- CONFIDENT in ability to control sexual situation
- older + more experienced

A

SEXUALLY COMPETENT

69
Q

SEXUAL STYLE:
- CONFIDENT in sex appeal
- CONFIDENT in ability to control sexual situation
- older + more experienced

A

SEXAULLY COMPETENT

70
Q

SEXUAL STYLE:
- HIGHLY confident in sex appeal
- HIGHLY confident in ability to take charge in sexual situation

A

SEXUALLY ADVENTUROUS

71
Q

SEXUAL STYLE:
- HIGHLY confident in sex appeal
- UNABLE to control sexual situations by saying NO to sex whether they find partner attractive or not
- usually SEXUALLY ACTIVE BOYS

A

SEXUALLY DRIVEN

72
Q

avg age of 1ST intercourse in Canada

A

16 yo

73
Q
  • early users of DRUGS/ALC
  • grown up in POVERTY
  • from SINGLE-PARENT fams
A

ADOS WHO HAVE EARLY SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

74
Q
  • greater PARENTAL SUPPORT/CONTROL/MONITORING
  • ado GIRLS who have CLOSE relationships w mothers
A

ADOS WHO HAVE LATER SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

75
Q
  1. RESTRICTIVE
  2. SEMIRESTRICTIVE
  3. PERMISSIVE
A

3 TYPES OF APPROACHES TO ADO SEXUALITY

76
Q

cultures that place strong PROHIBITIONS on ado sexual activity before marriage = ___

A

RESTRICTIVE

77
Q

2 diff sets of rules for sexual bhvr, one applying to males + the other to females w the rules for females being MORE RESTRICTIVE

A

DOUBLE STD

78
Q

cultures that have prohibitions on PREMARITAL SEX but prohibitions = NOT STRONGLY ENFORCED + EASILY evaded = ___

A

SEMIRESTRICTIVE

79
Q

cultures that ENCOURAGE/EXPECT sexual activities from ados = ___

A

PERMISSIVE

80
Q

guidelines abt expectations of bhvr in sexual situations

A

SEXUAL SCRIPTS

81
Q

___ SEXUAL SCRIPT has motivations for EMOTIONAL CLOSENESS/INTIMACY/LOVE

A

FEMALE

82
Q

___ SEXUAL SCRIPT involves DOMINANCE + RISK-TAKING motivations for PHYSICAL/NON-EMOTIONAL satisfaction

A

MALE

83
Q
  1. withdrawing in order to avoid prob
  2. compromise
A

2 MOST COMMON WAYS ADOS MANAGE SEXUAL CONFLICT

84
Q

wide range of threatening/aggressive bhvrs related to sexuality

A

SEXUAL HARRASSMENT

85
Q

act of sexual aggression in which person (usually woman) - FORCED by romantic partner/date/etc to have sexual relations AGAINST HER WILL

A

SEXUAL ASSAULT/COERCION

86
Q

__ ado boys + girls report SEXUAL ASSAULT

A

1/3

87
Q

SEXUAL ASSAULT = most common for age ___-___ FEMALES

A

15-24

88
Q

attraction indivs feel for members of SAME/OPPOSITE sex

A

SEXUAL ORIENTATION

89
Q

process of acknowledging own HOMOSEXUALITY + disclosing it to FRIENDS/FAM/OTHERS

A

COMING OUT

90
Q

awareness of LGBT sexual identity begins in ___ ___

A

EARLY ADO

91
Q

ado SEXUAL ORIENTATION/IDENTITY results from complex mix of ___ + ___ FACTORS

A

ENVMTL + GENETIC

92
Q

core reason for NOT using contraception = when sex = ___/___

A

UNPLANNED/INFREQUENT

93
Q
  • LATER teen years
  • ongoing relationship w partner
  • doing well in school
A

ADOS WHO ARE MORE LIKELY TO USE CONTRACEPTION

94
Q

PEAK period for STIs = in ___ ___

A

EMERGIN ADULTHODO

95
Q
  1. SYMPTOMATIC
  2. LATENCY PERIOD
A

2 GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS OF STIs

96
Q

infected person shows NO SYMPTOMS of disease but can potentially infect others means they are ___

A

ASYMPTOMATIC

97
Q

period common w STIs btwn time person = infected w disease + time symptoms appear

A

LATENCY PERIOD

98
Q

FEMALES age ___-___ = 2X as likely as male peers to report being diagnosed w STI

A

15-24

99
Q
  1. CHLAMYDIA
  2. GONORRHEA
  3. SYPHILIS
  4. HIV
A

4 MAJOR STIs

100
Q

rate of intercourse = ___ for LESBIAN/BI/QUESTIONING girls due to SOCIAL ISOLATION/POOR SELF-IMAGE

A

HIGHER

101
Q

sex education programs that begin at early age + include detailed info on sexual devmt/bhvr w easy access to contraception for ados who choose to become sexually active

A

COMPREHENSIVE SEXUALITY EDUCATION