2nd q Flashcards

(43 cards)

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The type of relationship which is closely associated with a person and which can only have meaning to this person.

A

Personal Relationship

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2
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The interconnections and interdependence between two individuals

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Interpersonal relationships

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3
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The exchange of verbal and nonverbal messages
between two people who have a relationship and are
influenced by their partner’s messages

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Interpersonal relationships

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4
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A web of relationships that connect individuals
to one another

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Relational Network (Interpersonal Relationships)

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5
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Types of Interpersonal relationships

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family, friendship, romantic relationships, online (virtual, hyperpersonal)

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6
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“deep affection for and attachment to another person”

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love

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7
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“Closeness and understanding of a relational partner”

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intimacy

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8
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romantic or sexual love

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eros

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9
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feeling part of team/group

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philia

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10
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family/ very close friends love

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storge

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11
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play. fun. exciting love.

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ludus

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12
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obsessive love

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mania

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13
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love that endures. being there.

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pragma

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14
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self love. being kind to yourself.

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philautia

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15
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love of humanity

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agape

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16
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three stages of falling in love

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HELEN FISHER

lust
attraction
attachment

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17
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lust vs attraction vs attachment

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lust - estrogen progesterone

attraction - dopamine norepinephrine serotonin

attachment - oxytocin (intimacy)
vasopressin (long term)

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18
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types of attachments

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secure [++]

anxious avoidant [+-] (cold and detached)

anxious ambivalent [-+] (not consistent)

anxious disorganized [–]

19
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why say no to sex

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std
pregnancy
right time
boundary

20
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THE ___ QUARTERLY SEVERAL THEORIES
RELATED TO ATTRACTION AND LIKING

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ROZENBERG

Transference Effect
Propinquity Effect
Similarity
Reciprocity
Physical Attractiveness
Physical Characteristics and Traits

21
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Our past relationships can therefore affect our current
interactions with people.

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Transference Effect

22
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Proximity promotes familiarity and hence, liking, this can also be
true if we do not like a person.

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Propinquity Effect

23
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a strong factor in friendship and in the selection of a mate because it promotes intimacy, trust, empathy, and long-lasting relationships

24
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The more we are liked by someone we equally like, the more we behave in ways that promote mutual feelings of liking.

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connotes positive health and reproductive fitness, which are both essential to human survival.
Physical Attractiveness
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Empathic persons and socially competent persons. Happy and cheerful disposition, poised, and can present themselves well, outgoing, ad sexually warm and responsive Integrity, income potential, and stability of men Attractiveness and Vitality of women
Personality Characteristics and traits
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WHY DO WE FORM RELATIONSHIPS
COMPANIONSHIP ACHIEVING GOAL PROXIMITY PHYSICAL ATTRACTION SIMILARITY STIMULATION
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an odorless chemical found in urine and sweat can be detected by the nose, are involved in the assessment of a future mate, an indication of a person’s immune system.
Pheromones
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Unconscious assessment of another person’s genes through their physical appearance Genes are usually determinants of good health Both male and female are often attracted to symmetry -Women are also attracted to men who smell similar to their father. Preference of individuals to marry somebody who resembles one or both of their parents.
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Rewards Extrinsic (e.g. social status) Instrumental (e.g. saving on rent) Intrinsic (e.g. feeling of safety)
Social exchange of costs and benefits
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Make contact with another Many relationships don’t move beyond this stage
Initiating stage
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Small talk Uncertainty reduction {passive, active, interactive}
Exploratory Stage
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Personal self-disclosure Share affection verbally Pet names
Intensification Stage
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Integrating or becoming one Bonding by sharing public messages about relationship
Stable Stage
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Uncertainty Events Interference (with growth) Unmet expectations “Perfect couples never argue.” Relationship Repair tactics
Declining Stage
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Passing away Relationship gradually fades Sudden death Unexpected termination for one partner
Termination Stage
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Spontaneous development Third-party mediation High affect  Tacit persistence Mutual interaction Avoidance
Reconciliation
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CHEATING SEXUAL ISSUES SIGNIFICANT DIFFERENCES LIFE STAGES TRAUMATIC EVENTS STRESS (PHYSICAL/EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL/FINANCIAL) BOREDOM JEALOUSY BLENDED FAMILY ISSUES DOMESTIC VIOLENCE (VERBAL/PHYSICAL ABUSE) IRRESPONSIBILITY UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS ADDICTIONS LACK OF SUPPORT DOMINANCY COMMUNICATION GIVE AND TAKE DEPRESSION
common relationship problems
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Accumulation of all rewards Temptation of alternative partners Investments made by the couple
VARIABLES RELATED TO STRENGTHENING COMMITMENT
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CONNECT WITH YOUR FAMILY PRACTICE GRATITUDE LEARN TO FORGIVE BE COMPASSIONATE ACCEPTANCE CREATE RITUALS TOGETHER SPEND RIGHT TIME WITH THEM
nurture relationship
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LOVE YOURSELF FIRST PARTNERING IS A CHOICE TO NURTURE CREATING LOVE AS A PROCESS PROVIDE The OPPORTUNITY TO GROW COMMUNICATION NEGOTIATION IT WILL BE A CHALLENGE BY CHANGE RENEWAL IS THE KEY FOR LONGEVITY
RULES FOR FINDING LOVE AND CREATING LONG LASTING AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIPS
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SPOILERS TO COMMITMENT
Criticism Denial of the existence of conflict. Contempt
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BASIC RIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP
PATIENCE HONESTY KINDNESS RESPECT