11 Flashcards
Useful problem solving steps
- Identify, define and analyse the problem
- Identify possible solutions
- Select the solution
- Plan who will do what, where and by when
- Take Action
- Evaluate
Identify, define and analyse the problem
- Arrive at a mutually acceptable definition and understanding of the problem before trying to find solutions
- Try to develop a mutual understanding of each other’s perspectives
- There are a range of identification, definition and analysis strategies available for completing this step (e.g. conflict mapping; is/is not analysis)
Identifying possible solutions
- Solution is ‘plural’
- Assume that no ‘one best solution’ fits the problem at this stage
- It is important to encourage creativity and minimise or avoid evaluation
- It is considered optimal if both parties work co-operatively to generate and publish ‘a shared’ list of possible solutions to the problem
Selecting a solution
- Clarify (be specific on your solutions)
- Most appropriate solution/s
- Best meets everyone’s needs
- Consensus preferred (does not always work)
- Assess the consequences to ensure feasibility
- Clear statement, written or oral, of what the agreed solution is before proceeding to the next step
Plan who will do what and by when
- determine the specifics of how to implement the solution
- decide who will do what, where and by when
- There are a range of strategies is available for planning the implementation of the solution to maximise the probability of success (e.g., action chart and flowchart)
Unhelpful communication patterns
- ascribing motives
- counter-blame
- demand/withdrawal
- spiralling negativity
- stubbornness
Ascribing motives
making incorrect/unjust inferences from somebody’s behaviour
“they did this because”
Counter-blame
intention to prove that fault/blame lies with the other person
“it’s your fault because”
Demand/withdrawal
forcing/withdrawal dynamic
“you have to do this or I’ll do this”
Spiralling negativity
an initial mean/hostile comment is matched by the other party
- negative marital spiral
- tired/overwhelmed
- focus on what partner is not doing
- not noticing what partner is doing
- anger/ grumpiness
- negative feelings spread to partner
- back and forth of blame
Stubbornness
both parties obstinately cling to their position to save face
Is / Is not analysis
Going through each step of the process and testing “is the problem here?” Isolating the issue to begin the solution process
- Process of elimination to find the problem
Conflict mapping
Identifying the problem and “mapping out” who it effects and what resources they have.
Take action
- It is important to complete your action plan steps on schedule and to avoid over-reacting to another’s non-compliance
- If some people are having difficulty completing their action steps in the required time it is worthwhile trying to determine why the difficulty exists
- It may be that the parties have encountered unexpected factors preventing them from implementing aspects of the plan on time
Evaluate
- Evaluate the problem solving process and how well the solution turned out
- This may be conducted during and/or at the end of the problem solving process
- It is important for parties to review their involvement by considering the positive and negative aspects of the problem solving process
- The review may also consider changes that could be implemented to improve future problem solving processes
- It is important for all concerned to assess whether they are satisfied with the outcomes of the implemented process