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Enmeshment (General Definition)

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A relationship, often one that is too close, in which the boundaries are unclear or porous. It can be thought of as being caught in a net or entangled. Too much information is allowed into or out of a system.

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Origin of the Concept of Enmeshment

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Originally defined by Salvador Mnuchin in his book Families and Family Therapy (1974). Rooted in Systems Theory.

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Systems Theory and Enmeshment

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Within a system, the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. The system is interrelated, so changes in one area affect other areas. In the context of enmeshment, it means ‘too much information is allowed into or out of a system’.

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Impact of Changes within a System

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Changes and conversations you have with one member of the system may impact the system as a whole.

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Family Structure

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Describes the rules that govern a set of relationships to understand the proximity of relationships within the family. Key terms include proximity, hierarchy, and triangles.

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Proximity in Family Structure

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Outlines the roles and boundaries within the family structure. Enmeshed relationships: Too close, too much information shared. Distant relationships: Too far apart, emotionally cut off, no information sharing, rigid boundaries.

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Hierarchy in a System

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The rank of various players within the system. Examples include parent-child hierarchies and supervisor-employee relationships.

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Triangles in Relationships

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A conflictual relationship between two people that turns into a conflict among three people when one person introduces a third person as a sort of ally.

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Effective Communication in a System

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Communication that is sufficient to succeed, with clear and appropriate boundaries between individuals and subsystems.

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Impact of Communication Issues on a System

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When relationships become too distant or too enmeshed, or boundaries are too rigid or too fluid, stress is introduced into the system.

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Financial Enmeshment (Definition)

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Occurs when family financial structures become so intertwined that the traditional roles of parents and their children become blurred.

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Examples of Financial Enmeshment: Child as Mediator

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Having the child act as a mediator or go-between between parents who are at odds over money.

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Examples of Financial Enmeshment: Child as Defender

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Using the child to run interference or act as a defender of the parent, such as answering phone calls from creditors.

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Examples of Financial Enmeshment: Child as Therapist

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Using children as a stand-in for a therapist, where the parent unloads their worries on the child for emotional relief regarding financial stress.

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Examples of Financial Enmeshment: Oversharing

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Sharing too much financial information with children who are not ready to understand or process it, lacking appropriate coping skills.

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Examples of Financial Enmeshment: Using Money to Exert Control

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Using money to exert control over a child in inappropriate ways, not tied to work-for-pay scenarios.

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Examples of Financial Enmeshment: Singling Out for Reward

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Rewarding one child inappropriately over others financially for non-work-related behaviors.

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Examples of Financial Enmeshment: Inappropriate Roles

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Having children balance their parents’ checkbooks or pay the parents’ bills in a stressful financial environment.

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Examples of Financial Enmeshment: Borrowing Money

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Borrowing money from children to pay for parents’ financial responsibilities.

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Three Overarching Problems Identifying Enmeshed Relationships

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Wrong Boundaries: Boundaries exist but are in the wrong spots. Unclear Boundaries: Boundaries are not clearly established. Unhealthy Boundaries: Boundaries may be too rigid or too flexible.

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Financial Dependence

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Problematic reliance on others for money. Can create fear of being cut off, anger, resentment, and stifle motivation.

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Financial Enabling

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The inability to say no when someone asks for money.

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Financial Enmeshment as a Disorder

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Financial enmeshment is not a diagnosable disorder under DSM-5 guidelines, but rather a problematic behavior.

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Signs and Symptoms of Financial Enmeshment (General)

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There is not a one-size-fits-all checklist.

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Signs and Symptoms in a Child: Anxiety and Insecurity Around Money
A child may feel **anxious and insecure around money**.
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Signs and Symptoms in a Child: Role Reversal
The child is **acting as the parent or a spouse**, particularly in financial settings.
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Signs and Symptoms in a Child: Lack of Individuality (Identity Foreclosure)
The child may **not develop their own identity** and simply blindly follow what parents tell them.
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Signs and Symptoms in a Child: Adultification
The child is placed into the role of the **parent's friend or confidant**.
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Signs and Symptoms in a Parent: Over-Parenting (Helicopter Parenting)
A parent who exhibits **too much involvement in the child's life**.
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Clinical Effects Associated with Enmeshment
Research has associated enmeshment with **bipolar disorder, anorexia, depression, anxiety**, and more.
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Research Findings: Financial Socialization
The **impact parents have on the development of their kids' attitudes about money**.
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Research Findings: Connection with Money Scripts
Males with **higher levels of income** were more likely to possess enmeshing behaviors.
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Research Findings: Correlation with Money Behaviors (KMBI)
Financial enmeshment is correlated with **compulsive buying, gambling disorder**, and more.
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Role of the CFT-1
To **help clients identify enmeshing** if it is happening or has happened in the past.
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Important Reminders for the CFT-1
Be aware of your own **limitations and boundaries**.
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What is the basic definition of enmeshment?
Enmeshment is a relationship, often one that is too close, in which the boundaries are unclear or porous.
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Who first defined the concept of enmeshment and when?
Salvador Minuchin first defined enmeshment in his landmark work, 'Families and Family Therapy,' published in 1974.
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What theoretical foundation is enmeshment rooted in?
Enmeshment is rooted in Systems Theory, which views families and other groups as interconnected systems where changes in one part affect the whole system.
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Beyond families, what other contexts can experience enmeshment?
Enmeshment can occur in classrooms, workplaces, communities, or any group system where boundaries become unclear or porous.
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What is a key insight from Systems Theory that helps understand enmeshment?
'The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.'
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How can changes in one part of a system affect enmeshment?
Changes or conversations with one member of a system may impact the system as a whole.
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How does family structure relate to enmeshment?
Family structure describes the rules that govern a set of relationships to understand the proximity of relationships within the family.
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What is 'proximity' in family structure and how does it relate to enmeshment?
Proximity exists on a spectrum: * Enmeshed: Too close, with too much information shared * Balanced: Appropriate closeness with clear boundaries * Distant: Too far apart, emotionally cut off.
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What is 'hierarchy' in a system and how might it be affected by enmeshment?
Hierarchy refers to the rank of various players within a system and can become confused or reversed in enmeshed relationships.
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What are 'triangles' in relationship systems?
Triangles occur when a conflictual relationship between two people turns into a conflict among three people when one person introduces a third person as an ally.
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What constitutes 'effective communication' in a family system?
Effective communication occurs when there is: * Sufficient information * Appropriate information * Clear boundaries between individuals and subsystems.
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How can we visualize the spectrum of communication effectiveness?
Communication effectiveness can be viewed as a spectrum: * Distant: too little information * Effective: appropriate information * Enmeshed: too much information.
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What negative consequences can result from enmeshment in family systems?
Negative consequences include anxiety, lack of autonomy, identity issues, emotional regulation problems, and difficulties establishing healthy boundaries.
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What is financial enmeshment?
Financial enmeshment occurs when family financial structures become so intertwined that the traditional roles of parents and their children become blurred.
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How is financial enmeshment different from appropriate financial education?
Financial education involves age-appropriate teaching about money concepts; financial enmeshment places inappropriate burdens on children.
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What types of boundary issues characterize financial enmeshment?
Financial enmeshment involves: * Wrong Boundaries * Unclear Boundaries * Unhealthy Boundaries.
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What is an example of children serving as mediators in financial enmeshment?
Having the child act as mediator between estranged parents arguing over financial matters.
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How might children act as 'defenders' in financial enmeshment?
Children might be asked to run interference, such as answering phone calls from creditors on behalf of parents.
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What does it mean for children to serve as 'therapists' in financial enmeshment?
Parents may use children as emotional therapists, unloading financial worries on them.
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How does financial enmeshment involve inappropriate information sharing?
Parents might share too much financial information with children who are not developmentally ready.
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How can money be used to exert control in financially enmeshed relationships?
Money might be used to control a child, such as offering rewards for good behavior.
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How might favoritism create financial enmeshment?
One child might be singled out for financial rewards unrelated to work or merit.
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How do inappropriate roles manifest in financial enmeshment?
Children might be asked to take on adult financial responsibilities.
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What is an example of financial boundary violations in enmeshment?
Parents borrowing money from children to pay for parental financial responsibilities.
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How does financial dependence relate to financial enmeshment?
Financial dependence involves problematic reliance on others for money, creating fear and resentment.
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What is financial enabling and how does it relate to enmeshment?
Financial enabling is the inability to say no when someone asks for money, often involving boundary issues.
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Is financial enmeshment classified as a mental disorder?
No, financial enmeshment is not a diagnosable disorder under DSM-5 guidelines.
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What approach should CFT-Is take to identifying financial enmeshment?
CFT-Is should be familiar with potential signs and symptoms and use appropriate assessment tools.
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What signs might indicate financial enmeshment in a child?
Signs in children might include: * Anxiety and insecurity around money * Role reversal * Lack of individuality * Adultification.
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What signs of financial enmeshment might be observed in parents?
Over-parenting or 'helicopter parenting' is a prominent sign in parents.
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What clinical conditions have been associated with enmeshment?
Enmeshment has been associated with: * Bipolar disorder * Anorexia * Depression and anxiety.
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What psychological effects can result from enmeshment?
Effects include: * Guilt * Chronic low levels of anxiety * Fluctuating self-esteem * Fear of rejection.
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When might signs of financial enmeshment become most apparent?
Signs may become visible when the child makes their own financial choices as an adult.
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What does research tell us about financial socialization and enmeshment?
Parents significantly impact their children's attitudes about money, with over-involvement having negative effects.
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How does financial enmeshment correlate with gender and income?
Males with higher levels of income were more likely to possess enmeshing behaviors.
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What connection exists between money scripts and financial enmeshment?
Financial enmeshment has been correlated with the 'money status' script, suggesting a tie between identity and financial success.
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What problematic financial behaviors correlate with enmeshment?
Financial enmeshment correlates with: * Compulsive buying * Gambling disorder * Hoarding disorder.
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What is the primary role of a CFT-I in addressing financial enmeshment?
The CFT-I's role includes helping clients identify enmeshment and understanding the reasons behind enmeshing behaviors.
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How should timing be considered when working with financial enmeshment?
Timing is key; some clients may be currently in enmeshed relationships while others may have past experiences affecting current behavior.
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What are important professional boundaries for CFT-Is addressing enmeshment?
CFT-Is must stay within the bounds of their professional training and be aware of their own limitations.
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What is financial enmeshment?
Financial enmeshment refers to a situation where financial boundaries between individuals, often within families, are blurred or non-existent.
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What are key considerations for timing when addressing financial enmeshment?
Timing is key when addressing financial enmeshment: * Some clients may be currently in an enmeshed relationship * Others may have experienced enmeshment in the past that affects current behavior * The approach will differ based on whether the enmeshment is ongoing or historical.
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What are important professional boundaries for CFT-Is addressing enmeshment?
CFT-Is must: * Stay within the bounds of their professional training and licenses * Be aware of their own limitations and boundaries * Cultivate a referral network for support * Refer clients when appropriate * Remember that being a CFT-I does not make one a mental health clinician or certified financial planner without separate training and licensing.
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How might financial enmeshment manifest in childhood?
In childhood: * Parents oversharing financial worries * Expecting children to act as confidants.
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How might financial enmeshment manifest in adolescence?
In adolescence: * Teens being drawn into adult financial roles * Used as mediators.
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How might financial enmeshment manifest in young adulthood?
In young adulthood: * Parents maintaining inappropriate control over financial decisions.
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How might financial enmeshment manifest in adulthood?
In adulthood: * Continued blurred boundaries around financial responsibilities.
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How might financial enmeshment manifest in older adulthood?
In older adulthood: * Role reversal where adult children take excessive control over elderly parents' finances.
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How do cultural factors influence financial enmeshment?
Cultural factors significantly influence what is considered enmeshment: * Some cultures value closer family financial integration than others * Collectivist societies may have different norms around financial boundaries * Multigenerational financial support may be culturally expected * Economic conditions may necessitate financial interdependence.
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What role do power dynamics play in financial enmeshment?
Power dynamics are central to enmeshment: * Those with financial control can create enmeshing conditions * Economic vulnerability can make individuals susceptible to enmeshment * Gender roles may influence who manages money and how boundaries are established * Age-based power disparities can enable enmeshing behaviors.
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How might trauma and enmeshment be connected?
Trauma and enmeshment often interact: * Financial trauma may lead to enmeshing behaviors as a coping mechanism * Enmeshment itself can be traumatic, especially for children * Survivors of trauma may struggle with establishing healthy boundaries * Intergenerational trauma may perpetuate enmeshing patterns.
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What assessment approaches might help identify financial enmeshment?
Helpful assessment approaches include: * Listening for narratives about family financial roles * Asking about early money memories and messages * Exploring decision-making patterns around money * Using genograms to map family financial relationships * Observing emotional reactions to financial discussions * Noting disparities between stated values and actual behaviors.
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How might a CFT-I help a client establish healthier financial boundaries?
Approaches to establishing healthier boundaries: * Exploring what appropriate boundaries look like * Practicing saying 'no' to inappropriate financial requests * Developing scripts for difficult financial conversations * Creating structures that support separate financial responsibilities.
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How might a CFT-I approach helping parents who are financially enmeshing their children?
When working with parents who are enmeshing: * Help them understand developmentally appropriate financial education * Explore their own financial anxiety * Identify alternative sources of emotional support beyond their children.
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How might a CFT-I help adult clients dealing with childhood financial enmeshment?
For adults affected by childhood enmeshment: * Validate their experiences * Help them recognize enmeshed patterns * Work on developing financial confidence and autonomy.
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What self-awareness is important for CFT-Is when working with financial enmeshment?
CFT-Is should maintain awareness of: * Their own experiences with financial boundaries * Personal tendencies toward enmeshment or distance * Cultural biases about healthy financial boundaries.
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How can a CFT-I integrate addressing financial enmeshment with other financial therapy goals?
Integration approaches include: * Recognizing that addressing enmeshment may be necessary before other financial progress * Connecting boundary issues to specific financial behaviors and goals * Using practical financial tasks as opportunities to practice healthy boundaries.

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