Chapter 7 Flashcards
(13 cards)
Immediacy
Behavior that increases physical and emotional closeness, signals warmth, and promotes involvement between people.
Social support
Verbal and nonverbal behavior produced with the intention of providing assistance to others: these behaviors often communicate concern and caring
Three types of closeness
Physical closeness
emotional closeness
relational closeness
The paradox of affection
The affection is often intended and usually perceived by others to be a positive communication move it can backfire for a number of reasons and produce negative outcomes.
Direct and verbal affectionate communication
Self-disclosure
direct emotional expressions compliments and praise
assurances
physical contact and close distance eye behavior
vocal behavior
Indirect and nonverbal affectionate communication
Support behaviors
idiomatic behaviors
Types of support
Emotional support: expressing care concern and empathy
Esteem support: to bolster someone self-worth by making him or her feel valued admired and capable
Informational support: giving specific advice including facts and information that might help someone solve a problem
Tangible aid: providing physical assistance goods or services
Network support: involves directing someone to a person or group who can help
The invisible support phenomenon
Support attempts that go unnoticed by recipients are highly effective in reducing distress
Nonverbal ways of providing comfort and social support
Hugs close proximity facial expression attentiveness increased miscellaneous touch pats eye contact
High person centered messages
Messages that acknowledge elaborate on invalidate the feelings and concerns of the distrust person and are especially comforting
Moderately person centered messages
Acknowledges the distresses person’s feelings but they do not help the distress person contextualize or elaborate on his or her feelings
Low person to centeredness messages
Implicitly or explicitly deny that legitimacy of the distressed persons feelings
Affectionate communication
Behavior that communicates feelings of fondness and positive regard