Chapter 8 & 9

Question 1

John A Lee’s colors of love

Answer 1

Three primary love styles blue red and yellow with secondary combinations

Question 2

What are the three primary love styles

Answer 2

Eros: erotic love
Ludus: game playing love
Storge: friendship love

Question 3

Where are the secondary love styles

Answer 3

Mania: obsessive love (Eros+Ludus)
Pragma: pragmatic love (Ludus+Storge)
Agape: altruistic love (Storge+Eros)

Question 4

3 general orientations toward sex

Answer 4

Procreational: making babies
Recreational: having fun
Relational: intimacy

Question 5

Courtship stages

Answer 5

1. Attention
2. Courtship readiness
3. Positioning
4. Invitations and sexual arousal
5. Resolution

Question 6

Sex and Relational satisfaction

Answer 6

Direct communication about sex leads to greater sexual satisfaction, also contributing to relational satisfaction.
Indirect communication has the opposite effect.
Sexual satisfaction not the best predictor to relational satisfaction.

Question 7

Stern burgers triangular theory of love

Answer 7

Commitment- deliberate choice to remain involved with one another
passion- intensity of emotions and attraction
intimacy- foundation of love feelings of closeness connection comfort and tenderness

Question 8

Sexual scripts: initiating strategies

Answer 8

Hinting and indirect (flirting)
Expressions of closeness (I love you)
Pressure and manipulation (threats)
Antisocial acts (sexual harassment)
Logic and Reasoning (timing)

Question 9

Sexually coercion

Answer 9

To pressure or force another to engage in unwanted sexual activity