CHAPTER 8 Some Agonies of Contracting Flashcards
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What is Step 5‐S in contracting?
Stuck on Wants and Offers
Step 5‐S refers to the situation where agreement becomes difficult.
What are the two phases to dealing with being stuck?
- Recognizing that you are stuck
- Taking action to resolve it
What is a clear sign that you are stuck during a conversation?
Re-explaining something for the third time
What does it indicate when a client dives into a third explanation of the same idea?
Lack of agreement, not lack of clarity
What bodily signals indicate that you are getting stuck?
- Suppressing yawns
- Feeling fatigued
- Irritation with resistance
What should you trust when assessing the contracting process?
Nonverbal messages and body language
If there is a conflict between a client’s words and body language, which should you trust?
Body language
What is Step 6‐S in the process of dealing with being stuck?
Think/Recess
What should you do when you acknowledge being stuck?
Mentally pull back and observe the meeting
What is a useful action to take when stuck in a meeting?
Adjourn the meeting or take a pause
What is Step 7‐S focused on?
New Wants and Offers
What might you propose if the client wants a project done in 30 days but you think it needs 60?
- Complete the project in 30 days with 2 people from the client
- Accept a shorter final report
What should you do if new wants and offers lead to another impasse?
Shift gears and reassess the relationship with the client
What is Step 9‐S about?
Process How We Are Handling This Discussion
How can you express that the meeting is not progressing?
Say, ‘I think we are stuck.’
What should you ask to gauge how the client feels about the meeting?
How do you feel we are doing in reaching agreement?
What is Step 10‐S focused on?
Re‐Discuss Wants and Offers
What should you do if you remain stuck after following all suggestions?
Terminate or minimize your investment in the project
Why might internal consultants hesitate to say ‘no’ to a project?
Fear of taking risks with line managers
What is a crucial reason to refuse a project?
To avoid failure and protect future credibility
Fill in the blank: Step 5 in contracting is called _______.
Agreement
What is a key reason to terminate a project?
To avoid failure and the waste of resources and future credibility.
Why should consultants feel empowered to say ‘no’ to clients?
To manage the relationship and establish boundaries.
What happens if consultants cannot say ‘no’?
The meaning of ‘yes’ is diminished and commitment is compromised.