Chapter 9 Flashcards
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What is marriage?
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-a socially constructed and gendered social institution
2
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What is marriage governed by?
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-norms and laws that determine the rights and responsibilities of spouses
3
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What has changed over time with marriage?
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-the role and nature of marriage
4
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What did the Puritans believe about women?
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- they were the weaker vessel
- less control over physical and emotional passions
5
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What did the Puritans say about sex?
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-sex should be restricted to intercourse between heterosexual married people aiming to reproduce
6
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What was forbidden for the puritans?
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-all non marital and non reproductive sexual activities
7
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What happened if someone Puritans sex rules?
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-punished by fines, whipping, public shaming, ostracism, or even death
8
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What were the Puritans scandalized by?
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- the sexual lives of North America’s Indigenous peoples because they were more open minded and permissive
- than Europeans
9
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What did many tribes accept?
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- casual sex
- monogamy and polygamy
- homosexuality
- gender nonconformity
10
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Did Indigenous people often care who the father of the child was?
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-no
11
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What emerges together when societies transition from foraging to settled agrarian societies that cultivate crops?
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-private property and patriarchy
12
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During history, what was the only way to prove paternity?
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-to control women’s sexual freedom
13
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Once communities put down roots, what concerns were there?
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- passing their wealth down to their heirs
- didn’t want women to become pregnant with other men’s children
14
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What practical reasons did the Puritans sexual repression have?
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- group survival
- because they were threatened by illness, war, and starvation
- causing them to focus on penal vaginal sex only
15
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In preindustrial societies what was life like?
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- most men and women worked and lived at home on the farms
- children were necessary for work
16
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What happened to life when industrialization occurred?
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- it separated work from home
- children cost a lot more now
17
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Define commodification (the making of something into a commodity)
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- goods transition from something a family provided itself
- into something bought with a wage
18
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How, in industrial times, did couples limit their reproduction?
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-condoms, they were cheap
19
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What were toddlers in cages?
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-in the era of tenement housing, large families in small spaces put babies in cages attached to the window to get fresh air
20
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What happened in the 1800s with the Victorian era?
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- people abandoned the idea that sex was only for reproduction
- began to think sex was for love
21
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What did the Victorians introduce?
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- the gendered love/sex binary
- a projection of the gender binary onto the ideas of sex and love
- women are believed to be motivated by love and men by sex
22
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What did the Victorians do that changed traditional Puritan thinking?
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- reversed Puritans beliefs about women’s voracious sexuality
- the victorians feminine dress love and masculinized sex
23
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What did early feminists think they could convince their contemporaries and why?
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- that women’s were men’s equals
- if women were more spiritual
24
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What did Protestant churches do?
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- they pushed women to be more spiritual
- to supposedly be considered equal to men
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What happened to women as the idea that women were spiritual spread?
- women were reimagined
- as naturally chaste, innocent of the vulgar desires felt by men
- stirred by love, not lust
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What happened to men as the idea that women were spiritual spread?
- men were considered more tied to their bodies
| - constantly torn between the carnal and the celestial
27
Define sexual double standard
-different rules for the sexual behaviour of men and women
28
Explain the good girl/bad girl dichotomy?
- emerged at this time
- the idea that women who behave themselves sexually are worthy of respect
- women who don't are not
29
What was the 1920s characterized by?
- period of economic prosperity
- technological innovation
- artistic experimentation
30
When was the word sexy invented, and what did it mean?
- in 1923
| - meant sexually attractive
31
What inspired the birth of mass entertainment?
- in the 1920s
| - people with money, free time and the opportunity to socialize
32
What shifted the balance of power? And why?
- dating
- because it took place in the home, calling was an activity women had control over
- they decided who came over and when
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What did Historian Beth Bailey write about dating?
-dating moved the courtship out of the home and into the man's sphere
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What did dating require?
- someone pay for everything
| - and women made less than men
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What was known as treating?
-when men paid for a women to have a night out
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What did the Charleston dance allow for?
-men and women to dance as equals instead of lead and follow
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What did some men resent? Why?
- having to pay for the costs of dating
| - they were nostalgic for the days of calling which cost them nothing
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What was a result of men resenting dating?
- women tried to make it worth their while
| - tried to be attractive and pleasing
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What become central to a women's value because of dating?
-a slim, attractive, cosmetically enhanced face and body
40
Who was makeup and nail polish before the 1920s previously used by?
-sex workers
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What did women's growing freedom in the 1920s result in?
- men and women could hang out, gender-egalitarian relationships
- have more sexual freedom
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How, in the 1920s did sex remain dangerous for women?
-birth control was limited and condemned by most churches so women took the risk of pregnancy
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What increased the ability of single men and women to meet without supervision (4)?
- industrialization
- urbanization
- commercialization of leisure
- new freedom for women
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What did the new found sexual freedom result in?
- altered the environment in which sexuality was experienced
- and the norms for sexual behaviour
- queerness became more accepted
45
For thousands of years, what did marriage do?
-served economic and political functions unrelated to love happiness or personal fufillment
46
Prior to the Victorian Era, what was a bad reason to marry?
-love
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What were the functions of marriage before the Victorian Era?
- gaining money and reosources
- building alliances between families
- organizing the division of labour
- producing legitimate male heirs
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Who was marriage, before the Victorian Era, typically arranged by?
-Older family members
49
For the wealthy and middle class, why were marriages important?
-maintaining and increasing the power of families
50
What were patriarch/property marriages?
- men were the heads of households and women were their human property
- equal to children and slaves
51
What did feminist activists in the 1800 and 1900s fight to end?
-the patriarch/property marriages
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What was one of the earliest feminist demands for women?
-to have the legal right to own property rather than be property
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What rights did first feminists get?
- to vote
- decide ones own citizenship
- to work
- keep wages
- build financial credit
- have a voice in family decisions
- to have custody of children in divorce
54
What is the breadwinner/housewife marriage?
- a separate but equal model of marriage
| - defined mens and women's contributions different but complementary
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What was different between patriarch and breadwinner/housewife marriage?
- marriage did not legally subordinate wives to husbands
| - but it did rigidly define roles
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What rigid roles did the breadwinner/housewife archetype ask for?
- women owed men domestic services
- men were legally required to support their wives financially
- they could be sued if they didnt
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What changed the nature of relationships and family?
-industrialization and capitalism
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What did unionization help fight?
- helped men push back against capitalism
| - so men had the right to support a home and family on their wages alone
59
What cemented two spheres? And what were those spheres?
- home was farther from work than ever
- the growing distance between the two cemented separate spheres
- a masculinized work world
- feminized home life
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What is the cult of domesticity?
-women could and should whole heartedly embrace domestic work
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What is Rosie the Riveter?
- an iconic representation of the working women
| - went to a factory job because men were in WW@
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After WW2, who defended domestic women's work?
- husbands
- marketers
- columnists
- scientists
- public intellectuals
- the government
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What resulted in the entrenchment of the nuclear family?
-after WW2, many institutions pushed gender roles on men and women
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What has been called a nationwide coming out experience?
- world war 2
- because it was so conductive to exploring same-sex attraction
- gay men started to normalize themselves
- gay women hadn't come out quite yet
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Compared to the 1920s, what were marriages in the 1950s like?
- weirdly family oriented
| - sexually conservative
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What laws were passed in the 1950s?
- preventing the sale of alcohol to queer people
- same-sex dancing and cross dressing
- companies wouldn't hire gay men
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What was going steady?
- dating was replaced by this
- short but exclusive, public pairing off with the goal of marriage
- accelerated pre-marital sexual experimentation
- which is unusual because this period was very conservative
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What did going steady ensure?
- a girl always had a date on important nights
| - reduced her chances of becoming an old maid
69
Why were marriage prospects a concern in the 1950s?
-because many men had died in war or married foreign women
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What new hegemonic masculinity became popular in the 1950s?
- the playboy by Hugh Hefner
| - avoiding marriage, not because you are gay tho
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At the same time the breadwinner/housewife model was becoming the societal ideal, what was happening?
- women were leaving the home for paid work
| - the ideal was more myth than reality
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Who entered the wage economy from the beginning of the 1950s and stayed there?
-poor women and women of colour
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In the 1960s, what changes occurred?
- Betty Friedan challenged the feminine mystique
- and more women wanted both a private and public life
- the economy needed women because of the losses from WW2
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What was the civil rights act of 1964?
-banned discrimination against women, race, color, religion and national origin
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What was the 1967 Royal Commission of the Status of Women?
-gave women equal rights in the workplace and school
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In 1972, what law was passed?
- a law that banned discrimination in schools
| - opening up many professional doors
77
Why are married couples free to organize their lives however they wish?
-because partnership marriage involves a gender-neutral contract
78
In 2005, what did Canada pass?
- civil marriage act
| - allowing same sex marriage
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What is still a NA ideal?
-the breadwinner/housewife model
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What was a sign of marriage before rings?
-a thimble
81
Define forager societies
- migrate seasonally
| - following crops and game
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Define agrarian societies?
-ones that cultivate domesticated crops
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Define commodity
-something that can be bought and sold
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What did prostitution serve to do in Victorian and early capitalist societies?
- capitalism had worsened life for those at the bottom
- prostitution was a way for poor women to support themselves and their families
- shielded the married women from the grosser passions of her husband
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Who created the good girl/bad girl dichotomy?
-Victoria intellectuals
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What was calling?
-where young men were invited to the homes of young women for chaperoned visits
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Define production
-the making of goods for sale
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Define smashing
-a term 1920s girls used to describe a same-sex crush
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What were office wives?
- in the 1950s-60s women work was serving white collar men
| - like a secretary etc.
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What were marriage bans?
-marriage bans (1800s) were policies against married women working
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What was protective legislation? How were they justified?
- policies designed to protect women and children from exploitation in the workplace
- all women would become mothers and needed to be protected for that reason
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Define service and information economy?
-jobs focusing on providing services for others
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What is the ideal marriage now?
-partnership marriage
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Define partnership marriage
- a model of marriage based on love and companionship between two equal
- who negotiate a division of labour unique to each couple
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What is the marriage go round?
-Americans both marry and divorce more frequently than people in other countries
