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Chapter 9: Relationships & Attraction Flashcards

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Researchers must rely on — to examine the dynamics that unfold over time in preexisting relationships. There is always the concern of – bias

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longitudinal methods

self-selection

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human beings (and many other kinds of animals) have what appears to be ——- for belonging in —–

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a biological need

relationships

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Why do we have a biological need to belong?

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  • relationships help individual and their offspring survive
  • friendships is a means for non-kin to cooperate in survival-related tasks (gathering food and fighting predators)
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What did Harlow’s rhesus monkey experiment show?

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  • evidence for the biological need to belong
  • monkeys preferred the surrogate that looked like a monkey rather than on the one that provided food
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what is evidence for the marriage benefit?

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  • mortality rates are higher for divorced, unmarried, and widowed people
  • suicide and crime rathers are also lighter for single and divorced people
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What is a communal relationship?

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Individuals in the relationship feel a special responsibility for one another and often expect the relationship to be LONG TERM (family-like identity)
- individuals give and receive according the whoever has a greater NEED

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What is an EXCHANGE RELATIONSHIP?

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  • trade based
  • short term
  • no special responsibility for one another’s well-being
  • governed by equity (get what you give) and reciprocity
  • salespeople, workers
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Even the most intimate relationships to a certain extent is based on —-

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Rewards

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What is the SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY

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Humans (wanting to maximize their own satisfaction) seek rewards in their interaction with others and are willing to pay certain costs to obtain those rewards

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What is the COMPARISON LEVEL?

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The expectations people have about what they should get out of a relationship
- high comparison level: expect more from relationships
- low comparison level: expect less from relationships

standard for social exchange theory of relationships

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What is the comparison level for alternatives?

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  • the outcomes people think they can get out of alternative relationships
  • if there are many alternative people/options, more likely to have a higher comparison level
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What is the equity theory?

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  • too many rewards and two few costs in a relationship seems unfair
  • people are motivated to pursue fairness/equity in their relationships
  • individualistic cultures
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What is the ATTACHMENT THEORY?

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Early attachments with our parents and other primary caregivers shape our relationships for the rest of our lives

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What are the 3 attachments types according to the attachment theory?

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Secure: easy to get close with others and comfortable depending on them
Avoidant: caregivers distant; attempts to be intimate are rebuffed
Anxious-ambivalent: caregivers are inconsistent

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What is the anxiety dimension of attachment?

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Amount of fear a person feels about rejection and abandonment within close relationships

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What is the avoidance dimension of attachment?

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The degree to which a person is comfortable with intimacy and dependence in adult relationships or finds them aversive

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A securely attached person is —-

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Low in the anxiety dimension of attachment and low in avoidance dimension of attachment

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how and the housing in westgate west demonstrate friendship formation?

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Increase proximity = increase friendships because it facilitates chance encounters

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What is functional distance?

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how easy it is to come into contact with a person

became easier in digital age

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What is the mere exposure effect?

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The idea that repeated exposure to a stimulus, such as an object/person leads to greater liking of the stimulus

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What is complementarity?

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The tendency for people to seek out others with characteristics that are different from / complement their own, but only works when the needs of one person is met by the other

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What is the halo effect

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The common belief (accurate or not) that attractive individuals possess a host of positive qualities beyond physical appearance

what is beautiful is good

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What is reproductive fitness?

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The capacity to pair one’s gener on to subsequent generations

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In terms of proximity to form friendships, - distance is more important then - distance

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Functional, physical

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Why does the mere exposure effect work?

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l. People find it easier to perceive and cognitively process familiar stimuli
2. Repeated exposure with no negative consequences forms a comfortable attachment

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Besides proximity, - can also increase attraction / friendship

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Similarity

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What is the status exchange hypothesis?

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Extension of complementarity concept - romantic attraction increases when 2 individuals offer each other elevated status where they themsetes are lacking

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Benefits of physical attractiveness

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Halo effect, make more money, less harshly punished for crimes, more friends & seen as better romantic partners, depends on culture (individualistic: assertive, interdependent: generous)

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How is the role of attractiveness different between genders?

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More effect for women: unattractive women have more negative work experiences and have less

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Considering physical attractiveness in evolution,

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Bilateral symmetry is a sign of reproductive fitness

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How do gender s differ in mate preference?

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Investment in offspring is much higher for females (produce less eggs in lifetime and reduced fertility -more selective

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What are the 3 categories of love?

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l. Companionate love
2. Compassionate love
3. 3. Romantic love

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What is companionate love?

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Friends and family members (trust, share interests, like to be around)

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What is compassionate love?

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  • Communal relationship
  • Bonds that focus on monitoring and responding to other’s needs
  • parents looking out for children
  • spouse putting their partners needs above their own
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What is romantic love?

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Intense emotion, sexual desire (passionate love)

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What is the typical time course of romantic love?

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  1. early: intense passion/arousal
  2. spend more time with each other - passion decrease and intimacy increase
  3. include partner’s charac, perspe, experiences, in own self-concept
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What is the investment model of commitment?

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A model of interpersonal relationships maintains there are three determinants that make partners more committed to each other

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3 components of commitment?

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  1. relationship satisfaction: rewards + costs (believe in future satisfaction)
  2. few alternative partners
  3. investments in the relationship (invest more time, effort)
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What is perceived partner responsiveness?

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the degree to which people perceive their partners as being understanding, validating, and responsive to their needs.

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What are predictors of dissatisfaction and divorce?

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Neurotic people (anxious, tense), low self esteem, highly sensitive to rejection, lower socioeconomic status, marry young

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What are the 4 most harmful behaviours in a relationship?

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Criticism, stonewalling, defensiveness, contempt

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What are dangerous attributions in a relationship?

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Blame, seeing actions in a negative light (giving a gift)

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How to create stronger romantic bonds?

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  1. Capitalize on the good (share good news)
  2. Playfulness
  3. Open communication
  4. Find the good in partner
  5. willingness to sacrifice and compromise
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In the brain, being in love -

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Activity in reward regions in the brain (oxytocin and dopamine) and deactivated amygdala (threat perception)

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Marriages arranged by parents are advantageous because,

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Avoid socioeconomic status gap, lack of expecting romantic love, instead for companionate love

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What are the rules of attraction?

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  1. proximity/familiarity
  2. similarity
  3. reciprocipy
  4. physical attractiveness
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Why is proximity and familiarity important in attraction?

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  1. propinquity: actual physical distance (mere exposure effect)
  2. functional distance:
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What is the similarity matching hypothesis?

EXCEPTION?

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people of equal physical attractiveness (and values) tend to seek each other as mates

highly masc men r attracted to highly fem women; high dom. prefer sub.

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What is the norm of reciprocity? exception?

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we like others who like us but not if they are know to like everyone else

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attributes that are considered attractive in both men and women?

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  • facial symetry suggests health
  • clear skin
  • prominent cheeh bones
  • men: strong jawline, large chin
  • women: signs of youth
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What do people look for in short-term partners?

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  • both men and women prioritize looks
  • allocated more money to physical attractiveness than any other trait
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What do people look for in long-term partners?

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men: intelligence, looks, kindness
women: intelligence, income, kindness

ALL CULTURES & SOs: KIND & INTEL. R HIGHer than PA/ EARNING POTENTIAL

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gender diferences in mate preference?

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men: physical attarctiveness more important and younger women
wmen: more important to indicate ability to provide and prefer older men

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What are the 5 categories of behaviours that are red flags in an intimate partner?

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  1. monitoring
  2. controlling
  3. demeaning
  4. threatening/aggressive
  5. jealous/possessive
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Anxiously attached individuals tended

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to downplay the significance of moderate red flags

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Avoidantly attached individuals, particularly women, tend to

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minimize the significance of severe red flags driven by their inclination to maintain emotional distance in relationships

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What is sternberg’s triangular theory of love?

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  1. passion
  2. intimacy
  3. commitment
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passion in triangular theory of love?

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  • intense physical and sexual attraction to one’s partner
  • an intense longing to be with them
  • strong feelings of angst if you can’t be with that person
  • giddy and euphoric to describe how they feel
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intimacy in triangular theory of love?

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  • affective
  • warmth and closeness
  • also with familty and friends
  • telepathic
  • free to be onese’d
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commitment in triangular theory of love?

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Decision to love someone and long term dedication to maintain love

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