Class 3: Object relations and Attachment theories Flashcards
Review: Drive
(Techniques)
- Evenly Hovering Attention
- Interpretation of unconscious conflict
- Dream Analysis
- Role of Transference
- how client is relating to you
- Goal = insight (make unconscious conscious)
Review: Ego
(influential people and contributions)
- Anna Freud
- Ego Functions
- builds defense mechanisms to help manage anxiety from internal unconsious conflicts…concerned with intrapsychy conflicts
- Ego Functions
- George Vaillant
- Hierarchy of Defenses
- which are mature, healthy, psychotic…
- Hierarchy of Defenses
Object Relations
(basics)
- Internal (unconscious) world of relationships
- dont realize how we have internalize things
-
Internal representations of self and others
- Different from relationships
- Evident when experience does not match expectations
- Distinguishes “Object” (other) from “Subject” (self)
Object Relations
(1. what is object)
(2. what is it concerned with)
(3. object satisfies what?)
- “Object” may be a person or a thing
- Concerned with how our needs are met, or not met
- Object satisfies “needs” rather than drives
- To be to seen and valued—all parts, good and bad
- To be held tight and to be let go
Role of the Object in Psychological Development
(Responses to loss)
(info and pic)
- Responses to loss
- Similar features (of Freuds view) initially
- Withdrawal from the external world
- Then divergent paths
- Similar features (of Freuds view) initially

Mourning
(in object relations)
- Mourning = Grieving
- Conscious process, healthy, normal
- The world loses it’s value
- The libido detaches from the lost object through hypercathexis (i.e., excessive investment of libido in the object; energy is focused on the memory of the person)
- An attempt to keep the object alive
- Loss is “real,” is worked through
- Goal is to attaching libido to a new object
- moving on
- The Self remains stable, unchanged
- main thing with mourning
Melancholia
(in object relations)
- Pathological
- Identification of the ego/self with the lost object, in an effort to maintain the idealized object
- Mourner directs anger/disappointment toward internalized image, which is identified with the self (“anger turned inward”)
- angry at self for loss…what they did to cause loss…their responsibility
- your ego is so tied into the object that a loss of object is a loss of your ego
- Allows mourner to maintain idealized view of the lost object
- Characterized by self-reproach, loss of self-regard, expectation of punishment
- self guilt, idea that have to be in pain
- Loss is emotional, unresolved
“Object”
(in drive compared to object relations)
(chart)

Drive Theory v. Object Relations Theory
(chart)

Melanie Klein
(basics)
(what is the heart of personality dev?)
(positions are…)
- “Drives” directed toward objects
- Mother-infant relationship is at the heart of personality development
- “Positions”
- state of object relationships
- aka “Developmental moments” (Fred Pine)
Melanie Klein
(what are the two positions and explain)
- Positions: state of object relations
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Paranoid-schizoid Position
- Earliest position
- Fragmented perception
- needs stuck in good or bad…cant have both
- even withself….cant hold ambivilance
- We experience “Part-objects”
- think borderline
-
Depressive Position
- Awareness of object, and self, as good and bad (ambivalence)
- Loss of innocence
- Goal of development
-
Paranoid-schizoid Position
Melanie Klein
(about her and concepts)
(what did she develop?)
- Klein was the first to analyze children (her own!)
- The Psychoanalysis of Children (1932)
- Developed “play technique”
- Play is meaningful—symbolic of unconscious
- extra
- Contemporary Kleinian Theory
- Wilfred Bion
- Thomas Ogden
- Contemporary Kleinian Theory
D. W. Winnicott
(basic concepts)
-
“Bliss of Oneness”
- cannot move from pleasure principle to reality and beyond unless good-enough mother
-
The “Good Enough Mother”
- Attunement
- what child needs
- Attunement
-
“Holding Environment”
- Clinical application: therapist offers “holding environment”
- Antisocial behavior = cry for holding environment
D. W. Winnicott
(Transitional Object)
- A bridge
- stands for the mother, extends the self
- Clinical application
- More common in cultures that value independence and privacy as opposed to collectivistic
D. W. Winnicott
(Primacy of Play)
- Our ability to feel ALIVE
- PLAY leads to healing/growth, rather than Insight (per Freud)
- Adult activities that are creative, engaging (sports, art, meaningful conversation) are forms of play
D. W. Winnicott
(1. attachment needs to be…)
(2. false self disorder)
- …flexible to nurture the “true self”
- “False self disorder”
- Child is not attuned to the needs of others
- Quality of personhood is disordered
- Overly compliant (push over) or overly constricted (stubburn)
Defenses in Object Relations
(1. focus is on …)
(2. what do defenses do?)
(3. issues when defenses indicate…(hint two differnt models))
- … early development = “Primitive” Defenses
- Primitive refers to earliest developmental period
- Keep anxiety related to object relations at bay
- issue is if the defense indicates
- Developmental arrest (aka Deficit model—the person is stuck)
- Regression (aka Conflict Model—regression in response to stress)
Primitive Defenses in
Object Relations
(Introjection)
- the good or bad of the other is taken into the self
- e.g., victim of abuse hates self rather than abuser
- they have introjected (believed) that what abuser says is true
- e.g., victim of abuse hates self rather than abuser
Primitive Defenses in
Object Relations
(Projection)
- unwanted feelings are placed on others (e.g., paranoia)
- ex. saying you sense anger in someone else when you’re the one feeling anger
- just like Freuds concept of the defense
Primitive Defenses in
Object Relations
(Projective Identification)
- unique to object relations
- the other experiences the projection
- buys into the other persons projection
- a big part of this is empathy
- cant have this defense if you dont empathize
Primitive Defenses in
Object Relations
(Denial)
- classsic….no different
Primitive Defenses in
Object Relations
(Splitting)
- good and bad are kept separate
- self or other
- think borderline
- interpersonal relationships are scattered…might praise you for being a special therapist…either best or worst
Primitive Defenses in
Object Relations
(Idealization)
- focus on positive, keeps painful feelings at bay
- think victims of domestic violence….idea that the abuser is not all that bad…bc here is all the good they do…and when the bad stuff comes up minimizing it
Primitive Defenses in
Object Relations
(Devaluation)
- keeps painful feelings out of consciousness
- making jokes about painful things to keep pain out of consciousness
- ex…making jokes about how father used to hit you
- ex. think of someone who smiles when talking about painful situations