exam 3 Flashcards
Close relationships
important, interdependent, & longlasting; time/energy in maintenance
Proximity
geographic,
residential, and other forms
of spatial closeness
Familiarity
The mere exposure effect:
increase in positive feelings
toward a novel stimulus based
on frequent exposure
Matching hypothesis
people of similar levels of
attractiveness gravitate toward each other; BMI
Parental investment theory:
species mating patterns
depend on what sex has to invest in time, energy, and
survival risk – to produce and nurture offspring
Reciprocal liking
liking those who show that they like you
Self-disclosure
voluntary act of sharing personal
information about yourself with another person;
reciprocity required
Relationship maintenance
actions/activities that sustain
desired quality of relationship; independence/stability/
protection; spontaneous/planned; long-distance vs. local
Social exchange theory
interpersonal relationships
governed by perceptions of costs/rewards exchanged in
interactions
Investments
things people contribute to a relationship; no
return at the end of the relationship; exchange vs.
communal
Heterosexism
assumption all individuals/
relationships are heterosexual
Triangular theory of love
Sternberg; all love experiences
are made up of intimacy, passion, and commitment
Adult attachment
- Secure: 50%+; easy trust, comfortable with mutual
dependence, longest-lasting relationship; fewest divorce
rates; rarely worry of abandonment from partner - Avoidant: 25%; fear/feel comfortable getting close to
others; maintain emotional distance; lowest incidence of
positive relationship experiences - Anxious/ambivalent: 20%; obsessive; extreme jealousy
based on fears of abandonment; shortest duration of
relationships
The course of romantic love
*Passion peaks at the
beginning and decreases over
time
*Intimacy and commitment
increase over time
Loneliness
occurs when a person has fewer interpersonal
relationships than desired or when these relationships are not as
satisfying as desired
Conquering loneliness
- Internet
- Resist temptation to withdraw from social situations
- Cultivate social skills
- Social skills training
- Break habit of self-defeating attributions
- Cognitive therapy
Marriage
legally/socially union of sexually intimate adults
Cohabitation
living together in
a sexually intimate relationship
outside of marriage; 66% of
couples in US therefore is the
norm
Polygamy
having more than one spouse at a time (i.e., Mormonism)
Endogamy
tendency for people to marry within their own social
group (i.e., same race, religion, ethnic background, and social class)
Homogamy
tendency for people to marry others with similar
personal characteristics (i.e., physical attractiveness, attitudes,
values, marital history, vulnerability to psychological disorders)
Monogamy
having one spouse at a time
Family life cycle
orderly sequence of developmental stages families progress
through
6-stage model:
1. Between families: the unattached young adult (accepting parent/offspring
separation)
2. The joining of families through marriage: the newly married couple
(commitment to new system)
3. The family with young children (accepting new members into the system)
4. The family with adolescents (flexibility/boundaries/child independence)
5. Launching children and moving on (accepting exists/entries into family
system)
6. The family in later life (accepting shifting generational roles)
Divorce rates
- Most common demographics: black, low income, less education,
cohabitation, younger couples - Most common reason: communication issues
- Unhappy married couples vs. getting divorced – poorer health, lower
life satisfaction - Self-compassion = less post-divorce stress
- Children can adjust well after 2-3 years; 25% show serious
psychological/emotional problems in adulthood - Age, coping, adjustment prior to divorce -> moderate effects of
divorce on kids