Exam 3 Flashcards
(70 cards)
Ideal romantic partner
North American research- younger people look for physical features as opposed to older people looking for compatibility. Also- depends if someone is looking for sexual partner or marriage partner. Example- Regan & Berscheild asked undergraduates to rank a variety of personal characteristics in terms of desirability for a) sexual activity partner and then b)long-term relationship. - men look more for physical attractiveness.
Cross-Cultural research
In developing countries couples are not expected to marry for love. Many arranged marriages in developing countries. Women want their men to be well-educated and have good financial prospects. In all geological areas , women look for men to be financially stable.
Characteristics of heterosexual love relationship
women report more often that they have a relationship based on friendship. Women tend to report more sadness, depression , hurt, and loneliness therefore women have broader range of emotions from relationships from sad to happy(wider range of emotions)
Breaking Up
women had more relief and joy after breakups because they are more sensitive to breakups and anticipate them with danger signs within relationships. Women are more “mind readers” . Men tend to distract themselves after a breakup more. Women blame men more for not putting effort into the relationship.
Rates of marriage by ethnicity
Average age for marriage females=25 males=27 90% of people in western society marry at some point
Marriage gradient
prestige, income potential; women- “marry up” men-“marry down”
Martial satisfaction
youngest married couple are the happiest, but a few years later report feeling less romantic and more dissatisfied. 20-24 years of marriage are least satisfied. Once children leave home it improves. Women want to change aspects of their marriages.
Characteristic of happy marriage
emotional needs fulfilled, enriches each others lives, stability, communication, trust, etc.
Traditional relationship
husband has authority and is financial
Modern relationship
Surface seems equal, but man still has more power
Egalitarian relationship
equal power
Latinas marriage
Obligate to their family
Machismo
men must show their manhood by being string, sexual, violent, dominant.
Marianismo
women must be chaste until marriage , they must also be passive and long suffering, giving up their own needs to help husbands and children.
Latina Families
Traditional relationship
Black women
Women are stronger figures and work outside the home due to poverty, egalitarian relationship
Women of color divorce
40% - 65% will get divorced
Ethnicity divorce
Highest in blacks and lowest for asians
Cohabitation and divorce rate
more than half have lived together before marriage and they are more likely to get a divorce than those who have not lived together before marriage.
Decision to divorce
women initiate the divorce. 3 reasons women give for divorce= emotional abuse, infidelity(cheating), narcotic use.
Psychological effects- divorce
many separations from many relationships, depression, anger, Women can feel relieved after divorce, also shows women how strong they really are.
Financial effects- divorce
women’s is always worse after divorce. Less than half of men after divorce pay child support.
Lesbian and bisexual women relationship
Typically egalitarian relationship
The psychological adjustment of lesbian
is as well adjusted as the typical heterosexual woman. (research findings Rothblum & Factor’s study on twins in text- took 184 pairs of lesbian women and their biological sisters),lesbians considered more positive characteristics.