Intimacy and Attraction Flashcards

(38 cards)

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Love is fascinating and complex. Romantic love, in particular, seems to be a beautiful mystery we find hard to explain.

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Love as a human experience

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The triangular theory of love is developed by psychologist _.

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Robert Sternberg

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The three components of love are _, _, and _.

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Intimacy
Passion
Commitment

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In the triangular theory of love:
_ encompasses feelings of attachment, closeness, connectedness, ad bondedness.

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Intimacy

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In the triangular theory of love, _ encompasses drives connected to both limerence and sexual atraction.

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Passion

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In the triangular theory of love, _ encompasses, in the short term, the decision to remain with another, and in the long term, the shared achievements and plans made with that other person.

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Commitment

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Love is an experience that transcends time and culture.

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Love as a universal culture

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_ are events or experiences which ensue within our interaction and relationship with other people.

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Social Phenomena

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As a social phenomenon, loving entails the following:
_ is the process of giving and receiving information between and among people;
_ is culturally agreed upon as possessing certain meanings and that are used by people to express certain realities and worldviews

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Communication
Language

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The theories of love are _, _, _, _, and _.

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Psychodynamic View on love
Color Wheel of Love
Triangular Model of Love
Romantic and Companionate Love
Love Languages

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In psychodynamic view on love:
_ is life instinct. _ is sexual energy.

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Eros, Libido

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_, a Canadian psychologist, suggested that there are different types of love.

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John Alan Lee

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Color Wheel of Love:
The primary types of love are: ., and _.

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Eros, Philia, Storge

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Color Wheel of Love:
The second types of love are: _, _, and _.

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Pragma, Agape, Philautia

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Color Wheel of Love:
Primary Types:
_: sexual and romantic
_: friendly:
_: parental/filial

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Eros,
Philia,
Storge

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Color Wheel of Love:
Secondary Types:
_: practical love
_: universal love
_: self-love

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Pragma,
Agape,
Philautia

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In the triangular model of love:
Passion only is: _

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In the triangular model of love:
Commitment only is: _

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In the triangular model of love:
Passion and intimacy is: _

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Romantic Love

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In the triangular model of love:
Passion + commitment is: _

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Ludic Love or fatuous love

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In the triangular theory of love:
Intimacy + commitment is: _

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Friendly love or Companionate love

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In the triangular theory of love:
Passion, Intimacy and Commitment: _

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Consummate love

23
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Romantic and companionate love is proposed by: _ and _.

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Hatfield and Rapson

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Ratfield and Hapson:
_ is characterized by the intense passion and “a state of intense longing for union with your partner”

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Romantic Love

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Ratfield and Hapson: _ is characterized by intense intimacy and emotional closeness-which is also characterstic of liking
Companionate Love
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_ proposed that there are five ways through which we give and receive love.
Gary Chapman
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The ABCDE of Intimate Relationships A: _ Intimate human relationships start in this.
Acquaintance
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Acquaintance: Crucial stage is attraction: 1. _: closeness 2. _: repeated interaction 3. _: common preferences
Proximity; Exposure; Similarity
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The ABCDE of Intimate Relationships B: _ the stage where two persons test their boundaries. They test the waters before engaging fully and so committedly in the relationship.
Buildup
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The ABCDE of Intimate Relationships C:_ The stage is when people commits to a long-term relationship with one another, either through a personal agreement or agreement
Consolidation and Continuation
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The ABCDE of Intimate Relationships D: _ Unfortunately, some intimate partnerships are unable to sustain and maintain their commitments or attraction.
Decline or Deterioration
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The ABCDE of Intimate Relationships E: _ Finally, for those intimate partnerships who are unable to address the causes and circumstance leading to the deterioration of their relationship, the stages culminate into ending or termination of the agreements made
Ending
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Factors of Attraction: Humans are highly oriented, which motivates a person to get to know someone better they find physically attracted to
Personal Appearance
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Factors of Attraction: _ is how close/near people live or work and how they interact.
Proximity
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Factors of Attraction: Humans find _ to be attractive because of _ to find people who are similar.
Similarity
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Factors of Attraction We attract others are opposite because we see their differences as _, which refers to as benefits to ourselves because others provide a quality that we lack.
Complementary
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Factors of Attraction: We tend to associate our opinions about other people with our current state.
Association
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Factors of Attraction: We tend to like those better who also like us back.
Reciprocal Liking