Lecture 10: Development of Self and Peer Relationships Flashcards

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implicit self

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the sense that one has a body that can experience and act on the world and that this body is separate from the world

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when does the implicit self emerge?

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it’s present from birth

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how do we know when the implicit sense of self emerges?

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the rooting reflex

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self-concept

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an organized set of beliefs about oneself

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what question does the self-concept answer?

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“Who am I?”

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what does the self-concept include?

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personality traits, physical characteristics, abilities, values, and roles

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when does the self-concept emerge?

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around 18 months

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how do we know when the self-concept emerges?

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the rouge test

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when do children start using the “me” pronoun and start calling themselves by their name

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around 18 months

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how does a child’s self-concept develop?

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primarily by internalizing others’ perceptions of them

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direct development of the self-concept

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The caregiver describes a child in a certain way and the child incorporates that description into their self-concept

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example of direct development of the self-concept

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being told they’re good at math

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indirect development of the self-concept

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how children are treated

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example of indirect development of the self-concept

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caregiving experiences shape internal working models

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what is the first characteristic present in children’s self-concept?

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gender

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when do children form a basic sense of gender identity?

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2.5-3 years old

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how does gender identity begin

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by identifying as a boy or girl and labelling others as boys or girls

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gender socialization

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The process through which children learn about the social expectations, attitudes, and behaviours associated with girls and boys by internalizing the messages received about gender and caregivers and wider society

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when does gender socialization begin?

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from birth

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gender socialization at birth

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Parents of day-old infants describe newborn girls as softer, less strong, more delicate, and quieter than newborn boys

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baby x studies

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studies in which researchers label the same infant as a boy or a girl and then observe how adults interact with the infant

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baby x studies findings

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  • Infants labelled as boys are rated as bigger, stronger, louder, and more likely to be encouraged to be active
  • Infants labelled as girls received more talk and nurturance
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gender socialization and crawling study question

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how does gender shape parents’ expectations about motor skills?

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gender socialization and crawling study method

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parents of 11-month-olds estimated the steepest slope their infants could safely crawl down without falling by setting the angle on a mechanical sloping walkway. Infants were then tested on their actual crawling skills down slopes of different angles

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gender socialization and crawling study results
- Parents of girls tended to underestimate their infant’s crawling ability - Parents of boys more accurately estimated their ability - When tested on their actual skills, boys and girls did not differ on the slopes they could safely crawl down
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gender socialization and crawling study takeaway
this suggests that gender differences in motor skills only exist in the parent’s perception
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gender socialization and play
- Parents present boys with more physical challenges than girls - They are more likely to offer girls more help
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gender socialization and language differences
- Parents are more likely to use emotional words with girls than boys in early childhood - Emotional understanding thus develops earlier in girls
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gender socialization and toy purchases
boys have more toy trucks and girls have 5x more pink toys by 12-month-olds
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gender socialization and division of household chores
home in which parents take on more traditional gender roles in completing chores are communicating gender roles
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gender socialization and media exposure
more TV viewing by preschoolers is associated with them being more likely to see boys as better than girls
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gender self-socialization
- Once a child identify with a gender, they actively seek out gender-related information and conform their behaviour to this information - This highlights children’s role in their gender development
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gender self-socialization of 3-5-year-olds
- rigid, gender-stereotyped behaviour - They show a preference for toys and clothes that are consistent with gender identity - Preference for same-gender playmates - Due to the lack of gender constancy
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gender self-socialization across cultures
This is cross-cultural
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gender constancy
the understanding that gender remains the same regardless of superficial changes to appearance or behaviour
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gender self-socialization of 6-year-olds
- rigid, gendered behaviour relaxes because gender constancy is achieved - They accept more non-gendered appearance and toy preferences in themselves and others
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gender self-socialization of older children
- they acquire more complex ideas and expectations about gender that include traits, roles, abilities, etc. - they incorporate these into their self-concepts and adjust their behaviour accordingly
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implications of gender identity
- Gender is a central characteristic that organizes children’s self-concepts - Adherence to gender stereotypes can unnecessarily limit children’s development in educational aspirations, social development, and emotional expression - The extent to which a child behaves in gender-consistent ways is associated with their level of peer acceptance
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peer acceptance and gender-inconsistent behaviour
- Even though children increase their gender flexibility with age, they tend to reject peers who do not behave in typically gendered ways - Greater engagement with peers of the same gender is a powerful way that gender stereotypes and identities are reinforced
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impacts of gender-neutral parents on children
When parents have more egalitarian views and behaviours, children tend to have less traditional gender-role attitudes
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gender-neutral parenting
conscious parenting practices to encourage children to explore and express themselves in a way that is not defined by traditional gender roles
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where is gender-neutral parenting most common?
WEIRD countries
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examples of gender-neutral parenting
not enforcing gender-specific colours, encouraging all activities
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sex
assigned at birth and usually based on external genitalia
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cisgender children
children who identify with their assigned sex
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transgender children
children who don’t identify with their assigned sex
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socially transitioned
a transgender person whose outward appearance and pronoun use is consistent with gender identity
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gender development of trans vs. cisgender kids study aim
comparison of gender development of transgender and cisgender children
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gender development of trans vs. cisgender kids study method
- 317 transgender children aged 3-12 who had socially transitioned - 316 age and gender-matched cisgender children - 189 cisgender siblings of the transgender children - Reported on the strength of gender identity and gender-stereotyped preferences
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gender development of trans vs. cisgender kids study findings
transgender children show strong identification and preferences aligned with their current gender in a way that is very similar to cisgender children
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gender development of trans vs. cisgender kids study implications
- Transgender children’s gender development follows similar patterns to cisgender children’s development - The lack of differences between siblings and controls suggests that there is nothing unique about the home gender socialization of transgender children - Self-socialization plays a strong role in gender identity
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implications of self-socialization on gender identity
- Suggests that there is something internal about gender identity; it isn’t just the role of socialization - Children, from an early age, may be selectively attending to broader societal messages regarding the gender they feel they are
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self-concept in early childhood
- Gender is central to self-concept - Concrete, observable characteristics that tend to focus on physical attributes and physical activities - Unrealistically positive and confident (the result of cognitive limitations)
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what ages make up early childhood?
3-5 years old
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what ages make up middle childhood?
7-12 years old
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self-concept in middle childhood
- Describe the self using personality traits and inner qualities - The self-concept is more balanced and accurate (includes weaknesses but is still positive overall)
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what explains the changes in self-concept from early childhood to middle childhood?
- Increased cognitive ability to use higher-order concepts and to think about multiple qualities simultaneously - Greater engagement in social comparison and more strongly influenced by the opinions of others
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what ages make up adolescence?
13-18 years old
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self-concept in adolescence
- Can think of themselves in increasingly abstract ways - They have more intense concerns about social acceptance, which heavily influences their self-concept - Egocentrism - Imaginary audience - Aware of differences in behaviour in different social settings leading to confusion and many questions about identity
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egocentrism in adolescence
- Especially in early-mid adolescence - They assume their thoughts and feelings are more unique than they are
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imaginary audience
the belief that everyone is very focused on their appearance and behaviour
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forming an identity
Forming an identity is the primary psychosocial task of adolescence/early adulthood
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how is identity formed?
exploration and commitment
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exploration
- questioning of parental and societal values and experimenting with various facets of identity - This includes appearance, hobbies, traits, friends, etc.
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committment
consolidation and acceptance of who one is as indicated by the choices one makes
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typical trajectory of identity formation
diffusion -> moratorium/foreclosure -> achievement
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identity diffusion
- lack of exploration of options and no commitments made - Due to a lack of interest in one’s identity or indecision
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what age group is associated with identity diffusion?
children
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what happens if identity diffusion persists into late adolescence/ adulthood
it is associated with feeling disconnected, being easily influenced by others, and having little sense of purpose
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moratorium
- the active exploration of various roles but no commitment yet - Brought about by awareness of multiple selves and exposure to different identity options - Feelings of confusion and anxiety are normal at this status - Necessary for identity achievement
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foreclosure
commitment to a life path without having explored alternatives
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what causes foreclosure?
- Parents making decisions for teens without their input - Teen strongly identifies with a parent and wishes to follow in their footsteps
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who is most likely to experience foreclosure?
obedient children with authoritarian parenting
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potential problems of foreclosure
- Committed to an identity that is not a good fit for their authentic self - Commitment is less strong
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what identity status are most teens in?
moratorium or foreclosure
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identity acheivement
- completed phase of exploration and commitment to an internally-driven identity - Associated with the most positive mental health and social outcomes
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when does identity achievement usually occur?
- Usually achieved in early adulthood - Biggest gains in identity are in university due to greater exposure to different lifestyles, beliefs, and career options
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marcia's identity status theory
argues that there are four identity statuses
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what are marcia's four identity statuses?
- identity achievement - foreclosure - moratorium - identity diffusion
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criticisms of marcia's identity status theory
- Research into identity statuses conducted in WEIRD samples - Identity development is a continuous process, not limited to adolescence
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play
Voluntary activities done for inherent enjoyment
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play across ages
Play looks different depending on the child’s age
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non-social play
Play that doesn’t involve the participation of peers
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3 types of non-social play
- unoccupied play - solitary play - onlooker play
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unoccupied play
the child briefly watches things around them, but nothing holds their attention for long
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when does unoccupied play begin?
birth-3 months
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solitary play
the child is focused on their own activity and is uninterested in playing with others
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when does solitary play begin?
3 months- 2 years
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onlooker play
- the child watches other children play - May ask questions but won’t join in
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when does onlooker play begin?
around 2 years old
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social play
Play that involves the participation of peers
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3 forms of social play
- parallel play - associative play - cooperative play
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parallel play
children play next to each other, possibly doing the same activity, but do not interact much
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when does parallel play begin?
2-3 years old
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associative play
children play together, engaging sometimes, but have different goals
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when does associative play begin?
between 2-4 years old
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cooperative play
children play together and are working toward a common goal
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when does cooperative play begin?
4+ years old
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progressing to more advanced form of play
the progression onto more advanced forms of play doesn’t mean that children no longer engage in less advanced forms of play
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what is play important for?
- social-emotional development - cognitive development - motor development
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social-emotional development and play
- Learn to cooperate - Develop theory of mind
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cognitive development and play
- Practice problem-solving - Learning about the world through trial and error - Develop language skills
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motor development and play
Unoccupied play fosters motor skills
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the UN on play
The UN recognizes a child’s right “to engage in play and recreational activities appropriate to the age of the child”
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adults interfering with play study question
how does teaching affect exploratory play?
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adults interfering with play study method
4-6-year-olds were shown a toy with many plastic tubes
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adults interfering with play study conditions
- Accident: an adult accidentally bumped into the tube, making it squeak - Teaching: an adult showed the child that the tube squeaks
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adults interfering with play study findings
- Children played longer and tried more different actions when the experimenter squeaked the toy accidentally - Teaching discouraged the children from discovery during play
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adults interfering with play study takeaways
- Letting children play spontaneously allows them to learn - Adults can best support play by following children’s lead so that a child can build knowledge themselves
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friend
A person who’s not a relative with whom an individual has an intimate, reciprocated, and positive relationship
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what are the most important factors in children's friendships?
similarity & proximity
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similarity in friendships
- Age - Acceptance by peers - Personality - Level of negative emotions - Academic motivation
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proximity in friendships
- Live in the same neighbourhood - Go to the same school - Participate in the same extracurricular activities
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gender and choice of friends
- More likely to be friends with kids of the same gender - This preference emerges around 3 and peaks around 13 - At age 13, different gender friends increase, especially for girls
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friendships at 1-2 years old
- show preference of some children over others - Touch them more - Smile at them more
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friendships at 2-3 years old
- developing more complex social behaviours - Ex. imitating peers’ behaviours, cooperative problem solving, turn-taking - Emergence of parallel play
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friendships at 3-5 years old
- kids have a concept of friendship - Most kids have at least one friend - Friendship is defined as playing together - Best friend= peer a child plays with the most - But friends also have more conflict than non-friends - More likely to cooperate to resolve conflict than non-friends - Emergence of preference for same-gender peers emerges around 3-4 years old
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friendships at 6-8 years old
define friendship based on shared activities with friends
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friendships at 9-12 years
the definition of friendship expands to include trust, care, and help
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friendships in adolescence
- friendship is primarily defined by self-disclosure and intimacy - Friendship takes on central importance
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gender differences in friendships
- As children get older, gender differences emerge in what they want out of friendship - Girls desire more closeness and dependency in friendships - This comes with more worrying and stress about friendships
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gender similarities in friendship
Girls and boys show similar levels of conflict and stability in friendships
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sociometric status
the degree to which children are liked vs. disliked by peers
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how is sociometric status measured?
by having children anonymously nominate peers in their class that they like (positive nominations) and peers in their class that they dislike (negative nominations)
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5 sociometric status groups
- Popular - Rejected - Average - Neglected - Controversial (PRANC)
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popular kids
Liked by many peers and disliked by few
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prevalence of popular kids
11% of kids
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popular kids tend to be:
- Socially skilled - Good at emotional regulation - Assertive, but not aggressive - Tend to have factors that give them high status
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rejected kids
Liked by few peers and disliked by many
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prevalence of rejected kids
13% of kids
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rejected kids tend to:
have fewer positive social skills compared to peers
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2 types of rejected kids
- rejected-aggressive - rejected-withdrawn
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rejected-aggressive kids
- tend to show high levels of hostility, threatening behaviour, physical aggression, and delinquency - 40-50% of rejected kids
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rejected-withdrawn kids
- tend to be socially withdrawn, timid, and socially anxious - Frequently victimized and feel lonely, isolated, and depressed - 10-25% of rejected kids
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controversial kids
- Liked by many but also disliked by many - Characteristics of rejected-aggressive and popular kids - Aggressive, disruptive, and prone to anger - Compensate for this with many positive social skills like being cooperative, sociable, and funny
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prevalence of controversial kids
7% of kids
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prevalence of neglected kids
9% of kids
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neglected kids
- Neutral/not noticed - Less social and less disruptive than average children - But not at risk for negative outcomes - Simply prefer solitary activities - Can be socially skilled in more structured activities
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prevalence of average kids
60%
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average kids
- Moderate number of likes and dislikes - More social than rejected and neglected kids, but not as social as popular or controversial kids
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short-term (weeks-months) stability of sociometric status
- Neglected or controversial children are likely to change their status - Popular, rejected, and average children tend to remain so
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long-term (years) stability of sociometric status
- Sociometric status is more likely to change - Average and rejected status is the most stable
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importance of friendship
- Provides social validation and support - Fosters the development of positive social skills
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validation/support in friendship
- This is especially important during transitions - Kids tend to rely more on friends than parents starting in adolescence - Chronic friendlessness is associated with increased loneliness and depression - Friendship buffers against negative experiences
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development of social skills in friendship
- Builds cooperation, theory of mind, and conflict resolution skills - Gossip allows children to learn about social norms - Childhood friendships are “practice” for adult relationships
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friends as buffers study question
does friendship buffer against negative experiences?
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friends as buffers study method
- 10-11-year-olds reported on their negative experiences over the course of 4 days - After each experience, they indicated their self-worth and whether their best friend was present or not - They also measured salivary cortisol as an indicator of stress reaction
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friends as buffers study findings
- if the child’s best friend wasn't present, more negative experiences were associated with increased cortisol and lower self-worth - But, this wasn’t the case if their best friend was present
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friendship and attachment study question
how does friendship quality shape early adult attachment?
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friendship and attachment study method
a longitudinal study of 707 participants from childhood to age 18 using data from SECCYD
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what did the friendship and attachment study assess?
- Quality of caregiving experiences: at age 15 months, 24 months, 36 months, 54 months, and each year from grade 1-6 - Child’s social competence: assessed by parents and teachers each year from grades 1-6 - Self-reported best friendship quality in grades 3, 4, 5, and 6 - Attachment avoidance and anxiety at age 18
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friendship and attachment study results
less supportive parenting, lower social competence, and lower quality friendships across childhood predicted more adult attachment insecurity
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Avoidance at age 18 was predicted by:
- Lower maternal sensitivity - Higher maternal depression - Lower social competence in childhood - Best friendship quality
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Anxiety at age 18 was predicted by:
- Higher maternal depression - Lower social competence in childhood - Best friendship quality
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friendship vs. parenting and attachment
The effect of social skills and friendship experiences on adult attachment is similar to (if not larger than) the effect of caregiving experiences
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longitudinal benefits of childhood friendships study method
Friendship was assessed at age 10 and then followed up on at age 22
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longitudinal benefits of childhood friendships study results for 10-year-olds
At age 10, kids who had a best friend (vs. those that didn’t) were seen as: Less aggressive More popular/well-liked
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longitudinal benefits of childhood friendships study results for 22-year-olds
At age 22, those who had a best friend at age 10 Were more successful in university Had better family and social lives Had higher self-esteem and less anxiety & depression
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longitudinal benefits of childhood friendships study takeaway
this shows that having a close friendship in childhood has both short-term and long-term benefits for social and psychological well-being
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Being rejected, especially aggressive-rejected in childhood is associated with:
- More aggression - Delinquency in teens - Substance abuse - Continued unhealthy relationships into adolescence and adulthood - Lower self-esteem - Less education and limited work success - Crime in adulthood
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deviancy training
negative peer pressure wherein peers model and reinforce aggression and deviance by making these behaviours seem acceptable
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examples of deviancy training
- Kids that have aggressive/delinquent friends are more likely to also become aggressive and delinquent - Similar effects with drug and alcohol use
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when does deviancy training begin?
can begin as early as age 5
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deviancy training as a selection effect
- Children choose peers who are similar to them - This implies that kids choose and contribute to “the wrong crowd”
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how do parents shape their children's peer relationships in a positive way?
monitoring & emotional coaching
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monitoring
parents decide whom children interact with and how much time they spend doing particular activities
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monitoring at different ages
This looks different depending on the child’s age, but it matters for all ages
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emotional coaching
parents teach kids how to effectively manage emotions to interact with peers and handle conflict
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kids who have more age-appropriate monitoring & emotional coaching
are more socially competent and liked by their peers
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school interventions
School interventions aim to improve children’s peer relationships by enhancing their emotional development
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Promoting Alternative Thinking Strategies (PATHS)
A school intervention that aims to change how rejected children interact with their peers
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what age group does PATHS study?
ages 4-11
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what do children learn in PATHS?
- To identify emotional expressions - Think about the causes and consequences of different ways of expressing emotions - Strategies for self-regulation
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Children who participate in PATHS (vs. control) show:
- Increased emotion understanding and regulation - Increased social problem-solving - Decreased externalizing behaviour (aggression, acting out) - Decreased depression