Lecture 9: Growing up in a Family Flashcards

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discipline

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the set of strategies parents use to teach their children how to behave appropriately

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when is discipline effective?

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if a child stops engaging in inappropriate behaviour and engages in appropriate behaviour instead

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what does discipline ideally lead to?

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internalization

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internalization

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the process by which children learn and accept the reasons for desired behaviour

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example of internalization

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a child abides by the parents’ rules/norms even when the parent isn’t present

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how to foster internalization?

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  • Using reasoning that focuses on the effects of a behaviour on someone else
  • Reasoning has to be combined with psychological pressure to foster internalization
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benefit of reasoning that focuses on the effectiveness of a behaviour on someone else

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It teaches empathy

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too little psychological pressure

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the child disobeys and ignores the message

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too much psychological pressure

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  • The child is obedient but only because they feel forced to do it
  • They will only comply if there is a risk of being caught
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the right amount of psychological pressure

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a slightly raised voice and a disapproving look are often enough

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2 dimensions of parenting

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  • Discipline/ control
  • Sensitivity/ support/ warmth
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Discipline/ control

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the extent to which parents monitor and manage their children’s behaviour through rules and consequences

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Sensitivity/ support/ warmth

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the extent to which parents mirror their children and are responsive to them

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high control, high warmth

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authoritative parent

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high control, low warm

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authoritarian parent

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low control, high warmth

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permissive parent

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low control, low warmth

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uninvovled parent

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authoritative parents

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  • High in sensitivity/warmth and discipline
  • Attentive and responsive to the child’s needs and concerns and respect the child’s perspective
  • Set clear standards and limits for their children and are firm and consistent about enforcement, but allows autonomy within those limits
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effect of authoritative parenting on kids

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  • Good self-confidence
  • Socially skilled (tend to have many friends and are well-liked)
  • Behave following adults’ expectations
  • Do well academically
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authoritarian parents

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  • High in discipline, but low in sensitivity
  • Cold and unresponsive to a child’s needs
  • Expect the child to comply with the parent’s desires without question
  • Exercise power by using threats, punishments, and psychological control
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effect of authoritarian parenting on kids

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  • Creates hostility in children and refusal to internalize parents’ message
  • More likely to rebel against parents’ rules
  • Lower self-confidence and generally higher levels of mental health problems
  • Lower social competence
  • More behavioural problems, like aggression and delinquency
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permissive parenting

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  • High in sensitivity, but low in discipline
  • Responsive to child’s needs and wishes but are overly lenient
  • Do not require the child to regulate themselves or act in appropriate ways
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effect of permissive parenting on kids

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  • Higher in impulsivity
  • Low academic achievement
  • More behavioural problems, like delinquency and aggression
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uninvolved parenting

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  • Low in discipline and sensitivity
  • Generally disengaged from parenting
  • Sometimes rejecting and neglectful
  • Focused on their own needs instead of the child’s needs
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effect of uninvolved parenting on kids
- Struggle with self-worth and mental health problems - Insecure attachment - Low in social competence - Low in academic achievement - More behavioural problems
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parenting of moms
- Spend on average, even those that work, 1.5 hours more with their children than dads - More likely to provide physical care and emotional support to children
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parenting of dads
More likely to play with children
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importance of parenting of moms vs dads
- Parenting by moms and dads is equally important and affects children in similar ways - Sensitivity from both is important for children’s mental health
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parenting across cultures
there are many similarities, but some differences
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similarities in parenting across cultures
All parents teach about good and bad behaviour very often and are least likely to use love withdrawal
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differences in parenting across cultures
- Italian parents are more likely to yell or scold - Kenyan parents are most likely to threaten or use punishment, but least likely to take away privileges
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European-American vs. Chinese parenting shows
- Chinese/Chinese-American parents are more likely to use an authoritarian parenting style - Authoritarian parenting has fewer negative consequences for Chinese/Chinese-American children - There is a positive association between authoritative parenting and positive outcomes in children for both European Americans and Chinese children but this association is weaker for Chinese children
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impact of authoritarian parenting across cultures
authoritative parenting is best across cultures but authoritarian parenting is less harmful in cultures where it is the norm
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prevalence of spanking worldwide
- 60% of children worldwide experience regular physical punishment - The rates are higher in countries where authoritarian parenting is the norm
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meta-analysis of spanking
A meta-analysis of studies across 50 years shows that the more children are spanked, the: 1. Less they comply and the more aggressive they are 2. More problematic their relationships with their parents are 3. More mental health problems they have 4. Lower their self-esteem
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negative impacts of spanking across cultures
These negative outcomes are found across cultural groups
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what does research about spanking show?
that it is bad
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United Nations on spanking
spanking is a form of violence against children that violates human rights to be protected from violence
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parent-child interactions as cycles
- Parent-child interactions tend to be bidirectional - Each influences and reinforces the other’s behaviour - This can create both positive and negative cycles
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parenting and shared genes
Parents and children’s behaviour can also be caused by the genes they share
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implications of parenting practices
- A correlation between parenting and a child’s behaviour/outcomes could be due to parenting practices, children’s behaviour and/or shared genes - This does not imply causation between parenting and children’s outcomes - Parenting practices are not solely responsible for children’s outcomes
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longitudinal research and parent-child relationships
The only way of definitively showing a bidirectional relationship between children’s behaviour and parenting practices
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age of first-time moms over time
- The average age of first-time moms in Canada is increasing - 1973: 24 years old - 2016: 29 years old
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Older first-time parents (vs. younger parents) tend to have:
- More education and higher income - Fewer children - Less likely to get divorced in the first 10 years - More authoritative parenting
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same-sex parents over time
- More same-sex couples are becoming parents in Canada: - 2001: 8.6% of same-sex couples are raising children - 2016: 12% of same-sex couples are raising children
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children raised by same-sex parents vs. opposite-sec parents
- Children raised by same-sex parents are no different than children raised by different-sex parents: - Similar mental health, social competence, sexual orientation, and academic achievement - This shows that parenting style matters, not parents’ sexual orientation
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divorce over time
- 35-42% of marriages end in divorce - Divorces peaked in 1987 at 50%
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initial impact of a divorce on children
- Initially, a divorce negatively impacts children’s well-being - Kids show more depression, lower self-esteem, more behavioural problems, and do worse academically
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Children' age and divorce study question
Does a child’s age affect their adjustment to divorce?
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Children' age and divorce study method
followed families for 4 years to examine the effect of timing of divorce on children’s outcomes
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Children' age and divorce study conditions
Divorce: 1. No divorce 2. Early divorce: parents divorced when a child was in grades 1-5 3. Late divorce: parents divorced when a child was in grades 6-10 Children’s outcomes: 1. Internalizing symptoms: depression and anxiety 2. Externalizing symptoms: aggression, disobedience, impulsivity 3. Academic performance
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Children' age and divorce study findings
- Internalizing symptoms: younger kids whose parents divorced showed more internalizing symptoms (vs. older kids and no divorce kids) - Externalizing symptoms: younger kids whose parents divorced showed more externalizing symptoms (vs. older kids and no divorce kids) - Academic performance: older kids whose parents divorced had poorer academic performance (vs. younger kids and no divorce kids)
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Children' age and divorce study takeaways
- Age affects how children adjust to divorce - This suggests which areas parents should target to help kids through a divorce
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long-term effects of divorce
- The negative effects of divorce on children tend to not last long - Differences in the well-being of adults whose parents divorced in childhood vs. adults whose parents stayed married are very small
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Children have a harder time adjusting to divorce and do worse if:
- There are multiple changes - There is an ongoing conflict between parents/stepparents
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what happens when there is an ongoing conflict between parents/stepparents
- This puts the child in the middle and the role of mediator - Children do better if parents and stepparents can be civil and communicate directly with each other
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when do children have an easier time adjusting to divorce?
if parents show high levels of sensitivity/warmth
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when is divorce a good thing?
if parents were engaged in a lot of conflict before getting divorced
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impact of a "good divorce" on kids
Kids’ psychological well-being improves after divorce if the parents had a lot of conflict
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siblings
- Can be friends and support each other - Can be competition for resources like toys and parental attention - Quality of sibling relationship matters
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Negative sibling relationships predict:
- More depression - More social withdrawal - More problem behaviours
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predictors of positive sibling relationships
- Siblings are treated equally by parents - Parents get along with each other
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what happens if parents favour one child
the least favoured child’s well-being suffers
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Differential treatment is less detrimental if the least favoured child:
- Views it as justified - Is the older sibling - Is growing up in a collectivist culture
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impact of parental relationships on sibling relationships
It models a positive relationship with a family member
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the role of SES on childrens' development
Low SES (vs. average SES) negatively affects children’s development
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how does low SES (vs. average SES) negatively affect children’s development?
- Lower academic achievement - More behavioural problems - More depression and anxiety
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why does low SES (vs. average SES) negatively affect children’s development?
- Material hardships - The negative effect of low SES on parenting - The amount of time parents can spend with their child - Creates stress which can lead to poor parental mental health, harsh parenting, and marital conflict
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Adolescents growing up in high SES (vs. average SES) families show elevated rates of:
- Increased drug and alcohol use - More delinquent behaviour - More depression and anxiety
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why does high SES (vs. average SES) negatively affect children’s behaviour?
- Parents spend more time at work - High pressure to achieve and excel
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implications of SES on children
- Similarities in adjustment outcomes of low and high SES children - Middle SES is the best in terms of child development
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what do similarities in adjustment outcomes of low and high SES children suggest?
that there is more than one pathway to detrimental outcomes
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American Psychiatric Association on the best kind of discipline
The best kind of discipline involves the parent clearly stating what the rules are, providing justification for why that’s a rule, and indicating what the clear consequences of breaking the rule are
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American Psychiatric Association on deterring bad behaviour
Paying more attention and praising a child when they’re engaging in good behaviour can be a useful deterrent for bad behaviour