Lectures Final Flashcards
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Greta Thunberg general info and clinical diagnoses
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- teenage climate activist from Sweden
- Aperger’s syndrome (mild autism)
- Depression (common in mild ASD)
- OCD behaviours
- Anorexia nervosa
- Selective mutism
- mom opera singer, dad filmmaker
- younger sister has ADHD
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Greta’s personality in the “How Dare You” video
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- passionate, intense, accusatory, apocalyptic
- social dominance
- doesn’t care ab empathizing w leaders (maybe low A)
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Greta’s personality in the Montreal Climate March speech
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- warmer, less intense, urgency instead of accusatory
- builds connection w audience using humor (can be highly agreeable!)
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Greta Thunberg Big 5
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- high on social dominance facet of E
- can show high A (circumstantial)
- high C
- low N
- unsure about O
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Heritability of ASD
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90%
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In 2019, _____/80ppl have ASD diagnosis
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1/80
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Examples of people with aspergers
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- maybe Bill Gates
- guy Koestner knew in HS (obsesses w subway system)
- many profs might have ASD
- kid at National Park who knew more than the ranger
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AQ (+ items relate to…..)
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- Autism-Spectrum Quotient
- normal distribution, everyone is somewhere on scale
- items relate to empathizing vs. systematizing
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Baron-Cohen study of AQ and NEO-PI-R
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- wanted to know if autism traits were an independent personality dimension
- found that autism is independent trait
- students w ASD are lower on E (esp. gregariousness)
- higher on N (esp. depression and self consciousness)
- lower C (get caught-up or sidetracked)
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Smith et al. Meta-analysis of Big 5 and ASD
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- questionnaire method, also collected questionnaires from parents
- meta-analysis, quantitative review
- Pearson correlations all significant
- all 5 traits on less socially desirable end
- found that when a kid with ASD has more socially desirable scores (esp. E), they’re more likely to shed diagnosis later in life
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Big 5 traits in depression and anxiety
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- lower E
- lower C
- higher N
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Big 5 traits and substance abuse disorders
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- low A
- E not associated
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3 levels of personality
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- Big 5 traits
- personal concerns (motivational and developmental; greta best understood at level 2 - as an agent)
- life narrative
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Achievement motivation
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- like to master tasks, develop skills, improve
- like moderate challenge, responsibility, feedback
- small business owners, lawyers, research scientist, salespeople, maybe doctors
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Affiliation motivation
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- preoccupied and interested in social relationships
- counsellors, mediators
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Power motivation
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- wanting to have impact and influence
- Greta very high on this
- managers, clergy
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Lifetime prevalence of depressive disorders
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17%
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Lifetime prevalence of anxiety disorders
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29%
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Lifetime prevalence of substance use disorders
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35%
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Age of onset of McAdams layers of personality
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- Actor: birth
- Agent: 6y
- Author: 16y
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Greta Thunberg stage 2 (Agent)
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- high power motivation
- seems like Greta skipped to Generativity stage (concern that she is her parents’ puppet and is therefore foreclosed)
- life story is kinda messianic (“I’m gonna save the world”)
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Erikson’s 8 Stages of Psychosocial Development
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0-18mo: Trust vs. Mistrust
18mo-3t: Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt
3-5y: Initiative vs. Guilt
5-13y: Industry (competence) vs. Inferiority
13-21y: Identity vs. Role confusion (need to explore and make commitments)
21-39y: Intimacy vs. Isolation
40-65y: Generativity vs. Stagnation
65y+: Ego integrity vs. Despair
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According to David McClelland, what is the first and most important thing to consider when thinking about someone’s personality?
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Motives!
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We feel best about ourselves and our lives when the important goals we are pursuing are _______
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…more related to the motive we’re highest on
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Ordinary People movie trailer
- boy who tried to commit suicide after brother dies
- forced to go to therapy
- wants to feel more 'in control'
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Why didn't Koestner become a clinician
- right trait (A), right schema, right values
- not right motive
- low social vitality was a problem
- because he can't ask open-ended questions
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McClelland's arguments against theory that "personality doesn't matter that much"
- need to look at variance accounted for by groups of traits, not just one
- personality accounts for more of life outcomes when you look at it more broadly!
- multiple correlation comes out at .5 or .6 (vs .2 for one trait)
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Koestner study on CEGEP students and STEM path
- for children of immigrants, only way to get out of doing science was being really bad at it
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Trait profile to succeed as a clinician (and enjoy doing it!)
- intimacy/affiliation motivation
- power motivation (having an impact)
- agreeableness (therapeutic alliance)
- social vitality part of E
- it's okay to be neurotic
- high on Universalism and Benevolence values
- schema: optimism or positive expectancies
- interpersonal emotional skills (like test w pictures of eyes where you have to identify the emotion)
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4 categories of fundamental values
- Self-Transcendence
- Conservation
- Self-Enhancement
- Openness to Change
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Fundamental values: Self-Transcendence
- universalism
- benevolence
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Fundamental values: Conservation
- conformity
- tradition
- security
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Fundamental values: Self-Enhancement
- achievement
- power
- hedonism (also goes into openness)
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Fundamental values: Openness to Change
- hedonism (also goes into self-enhancement)
- stimulation
- self-direction
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10 fundamental values
Self-Transcendence
- Universalism
- Benevolence
Conservation
- Conformity
- Tradition
- Security
Self-Enhancement
- Achievement
- Power
- Hedonism (also goes into Openness)
Openness to Change
- Stimulation
- Self-Direction
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Koestner's top fundamental values
- benevolence and universalism (self-transcendence)
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Fundamental values scale
(culture? politics?)
- 50 item quiz
- 10 fundamental values found through factor analysis
- same across cultures
- highly predictive of political positions
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Schemas (and what schemas did McClelland focus on?)
- beliefs or worldviews
- McClelland focussed on optimism and positive expectancies
- locus of control: you think there will be a relation between your behavior and outcomes
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Picture Story exercise
- way to assess motives
- show people an everyday scene and ask them to tell a story with a beginning, middle, and end
- code for thematic content in 6 stories
- no correlation with how people describe themselves on traits
- no correlation w self-reports
- if you ask for 10 goals/strivings r is about .4 (in Koestner's studies he only asks for 4 stories)
- implicit motives more predictive of career success
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People high on power motivation are more likely to be leaders if they're also ______ on the trait of _______
HIGH on the trait of SOCIAL ASSERTIVENESS
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Motives tell us ____ a person does what they do. Traits tell us _____ they do it.
WHY, HOW
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German study on sports participation and motives
- recruited ppl who like team sports (sports are achievement rich)
- undergrads, community adults, tennis pros
- assessed implicit and self-reported achievement at beginning of season
- only implicit motive predicted time spent doing sport
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According to Koestner, we need to find a career path that fits at least _____ of our ____, ____, ____, ____ and____.
...at least 3 of our motives, traits, skills, schemas and values.
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Obama and Trump are both high on which kind of motivation
Power!
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The positive side of high power motivation
- joining volunteer organizations
- being an effective leader
- liking being associated w symbols of prestige
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The negative side of high power motivation
- more likely to get into fights, drink to excess, be exploitative in their relationships
- unhappy marriages/divorce (often bc of infidelity)
- selfish behaviors
- linked to lower SES
- linked to poor activity inhibition (mitigating impulses
- more common for men (obvi) BUT if they get responsibility training they don't show this maladaptive power motivation
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Story about high power motivation and Koestner's daughter's school
- mom took action bc school had terrible crossing guard, eventually had whole intersection redone
- same mom organized to replace bad science teacher, planned a big school dance
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Affiliation vs. Intimacy motive
- affiliative motive is worry ab others liking you
- if you're low on this you're a better leader bc you can delegate, tell ppl what to do
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Motivational profile of a good leader
- high nPow
- low nAff
- high activity inhibition
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Michael Scott motive profile
- very high nAff (bad for leaders)
- very low capacity for inhibition (bad leader)
- might be high on nAch
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Study on leadership motive profile at AT&T and the Navy
- all men
- longitudinal study over 20y
- 25% of leaders had profile
- they were the ones who moved up executive ladder!
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Obama motive profile
- highest nPow vs 6 other democratic candidates
- moderate nAch, low nAff
- high activity inhibition
- he has the right profile but low E might have limited his success
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David Winter's scoring system for coding speech
- you can code the speeches of politicians and identify their motives and level of activity inhibition
- codes strong vigorous actions that try to impact others, actions that directly arouse strong emotional states, and concern for reputation/prestige
- higher nPow associated w higher success as President
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David Winters channeling hypothesis
- traits channel and direct the way motives are expressed
- might need requisite level of E to work towards our goals
- worried Obama was too introverted to be a good President (low E can inhibit expression of nPow) (introversion inhibition hypothesis)
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Winter study of Radcliffe women
- women's Harvard
- measured motives and if they had high-impact careers
- for extraverts, high nPow meant high-impact career
- in introverts nPow not expressed clearly
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Trump motive profile
- high nPow
- high nAch
- high nAff
- no activity inhibition
- kinda like Michael Scott, will say what audience wants to hear (even if they're racists)
- does NOT have socialized form of nPow
- leads to divisiveness of country and corruption
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Zelensky's motive profile
- stood up to Trump blackmailing him (we will give you missiles if you say Joe Biden's son is under investigation in the Ukraine)
- gave lots of really inspiring speeches
- did improv/acting, probably high in nPow
- does have good leadership profile
- AND moral courage!
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The people who are most likely to struggle with identity are _____
young adults! (not middle aged people)
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Erikson's Psychosocial Stages general info
- reformulation of Freud's theories
- each stage is a social task/challenge to be resolved
- identity is the critical stage
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Erikson's 8 stages
1. Trust (0-1y)
2. Autonomy (2-3y): become willful; important how parents negotiate allowing autonomy but also having some structure
3. Initiative (4-5y): autonomy goes further
4. Industry (6-16ish): are we good? (skills and morals)
5. Identity (16-22++): question self and future
6. Intimacy (YA)
7. Generativity (midlife): leaving a mark
8. Integrity (old age): was life worth living
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Koestner's identity crisis at age 18
- knew his identity wasn't forming well so wanted to move away for uni
- got a scholarship to Colgate, but mom asked him to stay so he went to Columbia
- hated it; had to work bc less scholarship money
- worked at Macy's in basement food emporium
- made friends but they all wanted to help change him
- Alex: said he couldn't listen to broadway anymore, made him a playlist of cool music
- Margaret Feeny: asked to go shopping with him (he dressed like Dwight); so he started buying his own clothes
- John Rivera: tough, confident; brought Rich to Taekwando class, he hated the class and hid his Gee (white outfit) in his desk
- mom found Gee a year later and thought he was joining the Moonies (cult religion famous for brainwashing and giant marriage ceremonies)
- if your parents think you'd fall for something like this, it's likely you haven't figured out your identity
- moved away so he could develop an identity
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James Marcia and identity status assessment
- developed way to see what status young people have achieved
- identity is 2 steps: exploring and making commitments
- set of semi-structured Qs allow trained individual to judge whether a young adult has achieved a clear identity or not
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Identity Achievement
- 21%
- exploration and commitment
- trust themselves, able to explain their choices, view parents in balanced way
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Identity diffusion
- 24%
- no exploration, no commitment
- isolated, alienated, not highly motivated
- no attachment to parents
- engage in a lot of fantasy/withdrawal
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Moratorium
- 27%
- exploring but not making commitments
- preoccupied and struggling, marked ambivalence toward parents
- higher N, lower social confidence/assertiveness
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Foreclosure
- 28%
- no exploring but made a commitment
- often bc of family
- goal-directed, very close to family, choose similar friends, self-confident
- if life events disrupt stability they struggle to recover
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Vulnerability of those who are diffused or foreclosed
- don't handle stress well
- difficulty with intimacy
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Criticisms of Marcia and Erikson
- not all of us grow up in families where we're encouraged to explore
- they would say there's a psychological cost to that and many will end up foreclosed
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Hikikomori
- occurs in Japan in later years of HS (esp boys)
- socially withdraw and live in their room
- 1-2% of adolescents in Japan
- identity diffusion!
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Example of family friend who was foreclosed
- wanted to be a doctor
- didn't get into med school
- applied again after undergrad, only got in in Greece
- spent 3y there, got an internship
- didn't go well, got kicked out of school
- a year later still struggling and doesn't know what to do
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Spiderman and identity status
- probably foreclosed
- wanted to be a scientist, getting powers challenged this, he went into a depression
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Study on self-esteem and identity status
- made students take ambiguous test, gave fake feedback (either 40th percentile or 90th)
- in achieved and moratorium, self esteem wasn't too affected
- foreclosed and diffuse swung wildly based on feedback
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Intimacy status (what it is + 4 categories)
- depth of relationships; commitment
- isolate: no depth, no commitment (Sheldon Cooper before he met Leonard)
- stereotyped: lot of relationships but no depth (Seinfeld characters)
- pre-intimate: some depth but no commitment to a single partner (FRIENDS)
- intimate: commitment and mutuality (Jim and Pam)
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Generativity definition
- adult's concern for and commitment to the well-being of youth and future generations
- spans from 35-70
- non generative individuals experience self-absorption, stagnation, and impoverished interpersonal relations
- dynamic tension between generativity and stagnation!
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Virtues/strengths we get from resolving Erikson's stages
1. Trust -- hope
2. Autonomy -- will
3. Initiative -- purpose
4. Industry -- competence and self-esteem
5. Identity -- fidelity
6. Intimacy -- love
7. Generativity -- care
8. Integrity -- wisdom
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Study on identity status and intimacy status
- at higher levels of identity status, more likely to have higher level of intimacy status
- low levels also highly correlated
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Win Win movie trailer
- Paul Giamatti plays middle aged lawyer who's very stressed and is taking care of a lot of people
- takes on too much
- captures struggle of midlife
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Marcia's category model for generativity
- asks about work and community activities
- codes for evidence of deep involvement/concern for growth of others AND scope of concern/involvement
- should go beyond just your own children
- 4 quadrants (shallow/deep involvement and narrow/wide scope)
- stagnant: shallow + narrow
- conventional: deep + narrow
- pseudo-generative: shallow + wide
- generative: deep + wide
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Tableau vivant and other examples of generativity vs. stagnation
- Koestner was mostly involved w his own daughter, less other kids
- HS best friend Tony got in touch, was much more generative (took students on trips every year, made tableau vivant with community)
- Koestner asked to be involved in church but said no, "failure to rise to the occasion"
- became more generative in pandemic w community work
- Tony would score 99th percentile, Richard 50th, his brother less (dropped coaching job as soon as son changed teams)
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McAdams model of generativity
- 3 components: generative concerns (values), generative acts, generative strivings
- relate to level 2 of personality
- 3 components correlate about r= .40
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Lekes et al. 2015 study on generativity strivings and well-being in young and middle adults
- followed ppl for a year to see if level of identity and generativity predicted well-being outcomes
- generativity positively related to well-being for midlife adults but not young adults
well-being payoff for making progress on set of issues within your current stage!
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Hart et al. 2001 study on generativity and social activities
- student of McAdams
- studied 250 community adults (white and Black)
- in both samples, generativity ass. w wider friend network, providing more social support in community, and having greater relationship satisfaction
- greater involvement in church activities only significant in African American sample
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Generativity and parenting
- generative parents more involved in schooling, don't only volunteer when it involves their own kid
- generative parents have right balance of responsiveness and supporting autonomy w providing structures/expectations
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Peterson 2006 study on generative parents and college age children
- measured Big 5 trait change over 4y in students
- if you have generative parents you're more likely to show a marked improvement in A and C (thought to reflect social maturity)
- also became more comfortable and happier at uni over the 4 years if parents highly generative
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Successful aging
- social connectedness and physical activity are really important
- social connectedness that involves generativity especially important
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Peterson & Duncan 2007 Prospective Study of Generativity
- McAdam's students
- longitudinal design
- 100 50yo women for 10y
- women higher in generativity increased in life satisfaction, less concern ab aging, less confusion ab identity, and positive personality development (increase in A+O, decrease in N)
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Gruenwald et al. 2022 Generativity in Midlife and Successful Aging
- 2000 US 60yo
- sidenote: 25% of ppl die between 60-70; another 25% develop serious impairment
- the more generative you are at 60, the less likely you are to die or suffer from serious impairment in next 10 years
- replicated in Japan and France
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At level 2, it seems like ______ may be more significant than the traits
family influences!
- true for attachment and autonomy
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Hazen & Shaver personality scale for attachment in relationships
- worst personality scale ever developed
- gives 3 descriptions of a romantic relationship and asks which suits you best
- 60% secure, 25% avoidant, 15% dependent
- even though it's a bad measure it can predict stability/quality of relationship
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Shaver 2006 meta-analysis of attachment and Big 5
- 14 studies
- more securely attached more likely to have low N, high E (esp. social dominance), and high A
- anxious attachment ass. w high N
- avoidant attachment ass. w low E and low A
- moderate correlations (.2-.3) so significant
- adding attachment style to traits in statistical model significantly predicts more relationship outcomes
- attachment predicts over and above Big 5!
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John Bowlby's grand theory
- attachment is a complex, instinctually guided behavioral system that functions predominantly to protect humans (evolutionary purpose!)
- secondary function: emotion regulation
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9-12 month transition in attachment
- child suddenly becomes nervous and scared when strangers approach (this is adaptive)
- requires that attachment figure responds to calm child down
- in secure attachment, the child calms down when mother comes back
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Internal working models
- secure attachment: trust, exploration, base
- insecure: distrust, anxiety, pessimism
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Mary Ainsworth
- developed strange situation to look at attachment
- % of secure/insecure 12-18mo similar to what we find in adult romantic relationships
- disorganized pattern: rare, child responds unpredictably, associated w neglect or abuse
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Insecure attachment at 18mo predicts: (+stability)
- difficulty in preschool
- difficulty in early childhood
- difficulties in social competence and exploration
- can change (stability is .3-.4)
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Role of parenting in attachment
- consistent, sensitive, responsive parenting in first 3m associated w secure attachment at 9-12m
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Harry Harlow attachment experiments
- took monkeys away from moms and gave them the choice of spending time being fed by a bottle by a metal coil mom vs. a furry artificial mom where no milk was provided
- monkeys spent all their time w comfort mom and would go feed quickly and come back
- clear preference for warmer more secure option
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Srouffe study on infant attachment and social functioning at age 5
- kids securely attached at 15m more likely to show social competence in relationships at age 5
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Simpson et al. 2007 longitudinal study on attachment (+ key strength of the study)
- prospective longitudinal design; no self-report
- looked at attachment in infancy, early grade school, high school, and at age 23
- attachment at 18mo and 23y significant (0.2)
- can build a path model with this data
- strongest link with next challenge in social development
- ran twin studies, confirmed that secure attachment is more ab parenting than ab child's traits
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Minnesota Longitudinal Study of Risk & Adaptation
- studied children of first-time moms living below poverty line
- 48% teens, 65% single, 42% no HS education
- wanted to see if early attachment would be associated w Big 5 traits at age 32
- significant positive correlation between early secure attachment and level of A and C (social maturity), and lower N
- clear evidence that secure early attachment is associated w adaptive social, motivational, and affective regulation
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Over time, attachment is ______
significantly stable (r= .3)
- 75% chance of finding securely attached partner
- more likely to have secure attachment w own children if we were securely attached
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Love Actually
- can see different attachment styles
- almost all shown are secure
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2 types of autonomy
reactive and reflective
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Self-determination theory
- 3 basic psychological needs: autonomy, relatedness, competence (ARC!)
- most empirically supported motivational theory
- the ARC of our life is impacted by whether our need for autonomy, relatedness, and competence is satisfied or thwarted
- only theory that highlights autonomy
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Race Track story
- friend John Dugan in grad school
- took Koestner to horse race track
- could use data to bet on horses
- first race bet same as John, won 80$
- went monthly with John; John won a lot but Koestner didn't bc he refused to bet on same horse as John
- not autonomous, pretty stupid
- BUT had something to do with being self-reliant, independent, and willful (autonomy is not the same)
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Defining autonomy via self-determination theory
- reflective process
- Deci & Ryan: behave w a sense of volition, willingness, and congruence
- we orient towards autonomy (don't like being controlled/doing something bc we feel we should)
- ex if you reward someone to do something they love their interest fades
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The general causality orientation scale
- individual difference measure on autonomy vs. control
- give 12 vignettes/situations and ask how likely you'd be to do different thoughts/feelings/actions (rate each of 3 options on 1-7 scale)
- can see if you're generally autonomous, controlled, or impersonal
- scale has good reliability
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Autonomous orientation
- from general causality orientation scale
- initiate and regulate behavior volitionally
- mindful and aware of needs, emotions, and goals
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Controlled orientation
- from general causality orientation scale
- behavior initiated and regulated by controls in environment (reward, internally controlling imperatives)
- pressure to act, think, or feel in a specified manner
- go-to move at school!
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Impersonal orientation
- from general causality orientation scale
- unable to make things happen the way you want (external locus of control)
- respond in a helpless way (eg I'm probably not up for the task)
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Koestner story on motivation seminar
- in first year of teaching ran seminar (15 students)
- 10/15 control oriented (kept checking in on what he wanted and how it would be graded)
- 2 were autonomous: Sabrina (sesame street) and guy (Calvin and Hobbes cartoon)
- 3 were impersonal/helpless (started too late)
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Findings based on general causality orientation scale - benefits of high autonomy
- higher autonomy ass. w greater optimism and higher psych. adjustment in pursuing goals (and initiative/persistence)
- high autonomy are more integrated in behavior
- in high autonomy, implicit and self-reported motives significantly correlated
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Henry Murray and autonomy
- founder of modern personality psychology
- defined autonomy as resisting influence/coercion, defying authority, and striving for independence
- definition used by Adjective Checklist (self-report, wanted to assess motives, has autonomy scale)
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Reactive/independent form of autonomy (Murray)
- resistant to hypnotism
- don't like cooperation/collaboration
- lack persistence
- maladaptive outcomes!)
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Ryan definition of autonomy
- no one can live without external influences
- issue is whether following them reflects obedience/coercion or reflective valuing
- true autonomy means consulting your own interests AND listening to those around you
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Correlation between reactive autonomy and collaborative autonomy
- none!
- high reactive ppl also high on control
- men more likely to be reactive, women collaborative
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Autonomy and Big 5 traits
- reflective autonomy unrelated (so it's level 2!)
- reactive autonomy: high E (social dominance), high O (Koestner doesn't know why), very low A -- kinda like narcissism (me vs we autonomy)
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Koestner study of autonomy and quality of social interactions
- tracked any interaction over 10mins for a week
- high reflective autonomy have better peer interactions (more disclosure and honesty)
- high reactive autonomy bothered by interactions w authority figures
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Koestner Race Track Study
- gave undergrads 6$ to bet on 3 races (2$ each)
- gave data from last 3 races and taught them how to use info to place bets
- gave two groups handicapper's picks (expert predictions); some experts were credible, some not
- high reflective followed experts (and won more $)
- reactive followed non-credible experts only
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Koestner COVID vaccination survey
- did big survey in Southern US
- 3-wave prospective longitudinal study in QC
- measured 2 forms of autonomy (me vs we)
- high reflective use credible info sources
- high reactive use "own research" (social media)
- reflective want to follow guidelines, reactive don't
- suggests it's more adaptive to include others in our understanding of autonomy!
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According to McAdams, the most individuating aspect of our personality is ______
the life story!
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Narrative identity definition (McAdams)
- internalized and evolving story of the self that a person consciously and unconsciously constructs to bind together the many aspects of the self
- humans are by nature storytellers!
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The basics of a story
- set in a time and a place
- expected to have a beginning, middle, and end
- should evoke suspense and curiosity
- involve characters who act on their beliefs and desires over time
- should be some kind of barrier or challenge
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Amish woman example
- turned 12 and had to stop going to school
- left her community at 19-20
- mom eventually came to get her but she left again and got married in Burlington Vermont
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According to McAdams, constructing an identity through a life story is a ______________ phenomenon
modern, mostly western, and developmental
(100-200+ years ago life was scripted for us)
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Neurobiology and autobiographical memories
- most skillful and nimble in accessing and integrating autobiographical memories from 20-22
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Special contribution of the life narrative in personality
- allows us to integrate various aspects of personality and historical periods in our lives
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McAdams says facts aren't as important as ______
the meaning we attribute to them
(we color and shade our life story!)
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McAdams preemie birth
- dad told him story at age 8
- doctor told his dad there was a 50/50 chance baby would survive
- has always been cautious and responsible and worried about things going wrong (thinks its bc of preemie birth)
- when he was 50 he learned he was actually born late
- shows that facts don't rly matter, meaning does
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Koestner Sister Julia example
- remembered her as rly hot (not true)
- also made up story that she left and married a priest
- example of distorting things for life story
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Mark Baldwin story
- would tell story ab losing 5th grade spelling bee
- at age 40 realized he had stolen story from brother
- the fact he chose a story where he lost probably says something about the kind of story he's writing with his life
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Creating a life story is a ____ process
recursive
(we relate to others by telling stories, if they go over well we incorporate them into life story)
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Developmental milestones in narrative identity
2-3y: start to form basic memories
3-4y: theory of mind (need to be able to understand story characters as agents)
5-6y: story grammar
10-14y: cultural scripts (menu of possibilities)
12-25y: autobiographical reasoning and advanced storytelling skills
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Although our young adult years are ___% of our lifespan, they're about ___% of our autobiographical narrative
15%, 60%
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Reminiscence bump
- remember more from late teens and young adult years than any other period
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Life story study w 50yo (2008)
- list 20 "I am" statements
- pick 3 and generate 10 memories for each
- mean age was 23
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North American vs. Asian life stories
- NAs have detailed childhood memories that are very "me" focused, show how we are unique
- asians start w parents and grandparents, more aware of previous generations; theme of learning to be better
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2 psychological functions of the life story
- gives life meaning and purpose
- provides unity to our experiences
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Big 5 traits and telling the life story
- high C: perseverance, achievement, successes
- high A: joy, social connections/gatherings
- high N: more negative affect
- high O: complex, multiple plots, more coherent
our traits make us more likely to have certain types of experiences AND more likely to remember them and incorporate them into the life story
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McAdams - types of life story plots
- redemptive (best)
- contamination: everything is going well and then something ruins it (more frequent in high N ppl)
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Big 3 motives and life stories
- nAch: trying to achieve excellence, succeeding
- nPow: impact you've had
- nAff/Int: closeness and relationships
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Attachment and life stories
more securely attached --> more optimistic story
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Autonomy and the life story
- how much you're engaging in your own story
- nAch, autonomy, and nPow all link to AGENCY
- agency associated w better well-being
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McAdams' life story method
- get ppl to spend 2h engaging in autobiographical reminiscences
- often ask ppl to break story into chapters
- can ask about key episodes, life challenges, main characters, future plot, ideology, life theme
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Key features of a life story
- genre
- ideological setting
- themes
- characters
- imagery
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Trailer for Brooklyn
- Irish girl who immigrates to Brooklyn in 1950
- thought his mom would love it but she said that girl had it too easy (bc she spoke English, had a boarding house and good job, had a priest looking out for her)
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Koestner's mom's life story
- escaped from Nazi youth camp at age 7 (Koestner doesn't think this is credible) -- highly agentic story
- met husband, "bewitched him" -- attributes power to herself
- quit bad job, husband left but then came to win her back
- themes of agency and survival; fighting against the odds; recurrent guardian angels
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Two basic themes of life stories
- Agency: individual accomplishments, ability to control one's life
- Communion: interpersonal connections
- mom's story is high agency and low communion
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Qualities of a good life story
- coherence (causal, thematic, characters)
- openness
- credibility (verisimilitude)
- differentiation (not same story over and over again)
- reconciliation (key conflicts)
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______ could be a common factor that accounts for finding that many different kinds of therapy are successful
the opportunity to narrate your life story
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3 common factors in helpful therapy
- therapeutic alliance
- autonomous motivation
- narrative disclosure
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Adler study on narrative and psychotherapy (and ego dev)
- 50 therapy patients followed over 12 sessions
- full life narrative interview at start
- every week wrote ab how life was changing
- assessed ego development (complete sentences like "change is _____" and gets coded)
- agency themes most related to reducing psychological problems
- coherence related to ego development
- N reduced over course of therapy
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Koestner concerns ab Life Narrative Method
- takes too long to elicit and transcribe life narratives
- many ppl aren't prepared to tell their life story
- sometimes hard to code for themes
- instead we can ask for a few self-defining memories and tap into network of associated memories
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Self-defining memories
- emotionally intense event that link to personal issue prompts a script
- defines you in some way
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Fred Philippe UQAM study 1 - memories and well-being (+ stats, nAch, nPow)
- asks about defining memories and then asks for connected memories
- codes memories for how needs satisfying vs needs frustrating they are
- hierarchical multiple regression
- valence (pos or neg) has effect on well-being
- achievement memories pos related to well-being, power memories neg related
- after controlling for things, need satisfaction still has highly significant effect on well-being
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Fred Philippe UQAM study 2
Redid study w coders so no self-report bias
- C pos ass. well-being, N neg ass.
- controlled for need satisfaction in everyday life
- need satisfaction in self defining memory had incremental predictive usefulness for well-being
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Fred Philippe UQAM study 3
- study of uni students over a semester
- need satisfaction in self defining memory significantly positively related to change in well-being
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Fred Philippe UQAM research on burnout
- when more work-related memories are need satisfying there is more resistance to burnout over time
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Fred Philippe UQAM research on holiday memories
- best memory from winter holidays predicts well being a month or two later
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Fred Philippe UQAM research on relationships
- if people have need satisfying memory in relationship, more likely to increase in RQ and not break up
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Fred Philippe UQAM research on emotion regulation (2 types)
- integrative emotion regulation: learning from negative emotions (more accepting of negative events and better at maintaining well-being over time)
- dysregulation of emotion: negative emotions impact thoughts and behavior
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Hedonic & Eudaimonic well-being
- Hedonic: maximize positive experiences, subjective well-being
- Eudaimonic: Aristotle thought this was more important, living in accord w your true self, psychological well-being
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Neil Pasricha - The Happiness Equation (and his traits/motives)
- hedonic well-being
- high A, high E, high nPow
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Stability of hedonic well-being
very high! (we have a set point)
- others can see it accurately too
- highly heritable
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Diener subject life satisfaction scale
- 5 items on 1-7 Likert scale
- most ppl are pretty high, there's a normal distribution
- measures hedonic well-being
- high scores ass. w high E and low N
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3 important suggestions from the happiness equation
- 10mins writing ab good things from day
- 10mins meditation each day
- random act of kindness each day
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Sources of hedonic well-being
- high E low N
- married ppl are higher (esp men)
- unemployed are lower
- for most SLEs we are back to set point within 6m
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Emmons studies on well-being and luck
- 40 wheelchair bound and 40 matched controls
- no differences in hedonic well-being
- also found winning lottery has slightly neg effect
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U-bend of hedonic well-being
- downward trend from 20-46, then goes up
- stress highest in 20s
- worry highest in 30s
- sadness highest in 40s
- anger goes down after 20s
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Measurement of eudaimonic well-being
- purpose, meaning, & self-actualization
- maturity or ego development
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Self-Actualization scale (+ corr. w hedonic wb)
- measures eudaimonic well-being
- self-report; 1-7 agree/disagree
- whether your life is purposeful and has meaning
- acceptance, authenticity, purpose, efficient perception of reality
- correlates .7 or .8 w hedonic well-being
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Sentence completion task for ego development
- Jane Loevinger, 1960s but still used
- 36 item projective test
- code responses to determine level ( /7)
- 40% of us are at level 4 (conscientious)
- ppl who score high fucntion better in the world
- only small correlation w hedonic
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Laura King divorce study
- women divorced after 20y+
- focused on lost possible self (high or low elaboration responses)
- low elaborative decreased less in short term for hedonic (but odes decrease after 2y)
- high elaborative score much higher eudaimonically
- so happiness might require avoiding thinking ab loss but maturity requires awareness
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Distinguishing hedonic and eudaimonic well-being
- high pos correlations if measured in self-report
- deal with difficult life events differently
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Ken study on both types of well-being
- can't change hedonic w-b even if we want to
- can improve eudaimonic w-b
- better to focus on eudaimonic
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Foreclosed status and well-being
- have high hedonic but low eudaimonic
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Achieved identity status and well-being
- high on both hedonic and eudaimonic
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Attachment style and well-being
- secure attachment associated w both types
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Life narrative and well-being
- full complex narrative will include negative stuff so might limit hedonic but is great for eudaimonic
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According to Koestner, what is the one thing that for many of us changin it would make the biggest difference in our lives?
assertiveness/social dominance
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Pam's advice in The Office finale
- uses lots of agentic terms (opposite of inhibition)
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Benefits of social assertiveness (7)
- hedonic well-being
- self-esteem and social inclusion
- free trait theory (need assertiveness to push ourselves outside comfort zone)
- uninhibited expression of motives
- exploration efforts for identity
- finding secure attachment relationships
- making things happen for life story
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Amy Cuddy and power poses
- power pose associated w giving better job talk
- power poses raised testosterone and lowered cortisol
- more likely to gamble after power pose
- lesson is fake it until you become it
- not replicable
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Assertiveness training
- ass w lower levels of depression, anxiety, higher self-esteem, better relationships
- assertiveness training could be a transdiagnostic intervention
- part of first wave of CBT (essentially just BT)
- goal is to help clients verbalize what they want
- done in a group over 6-8 sessions
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4 main goals of assertiveness training
- ability to openly communicate ab desires/needs
- ability to say no
- ability to communicate openly ab feelings
- establishing contacts; conversations
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Key advice for the shy or socially anxious
- just be warm and friendly!
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3 waves of CBT
- 1: behavioral therapy (rehearsing)
- 2: focus on cognitions behind inhibition
- 3: mindfulness and self-awareness
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Motivation and assertiveness
- if you believe intelligence can be developed, you'll set more challenging goals and you can grow and change
- if you believe it's fixed you avoid challenge
- also true for personality traits (implicit theories)
- easiest thing to change is belief that you can change!
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Beer study on beliefs ab shyness (2002)
- coded how shy students acted in 3 interactions
- if they have malleable theory thy can feel like someone who's less shy (BUT come across as just as shy to observers)
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Lynn Alden research on social anxiety interventions
- socially anxious don't necessarily avoid situations, just find safety behaviours
- developed intervention to limit safety behaviours and encourage mastery behaviours
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Fundamental values: Conservation
- conformity
- tradition
- security
