Liking and Loving

Question 1

matching hypothesis

Answer 1

people pari w/other that are of equal attractiveness

Question 2

attractive traits

Answer 2

• youthfulness
• symmetry
• clear skin
• averageness
• men more adult like

Question 3

proximity effect

Answer 3

end up w/people who live close to us

Question 4

attachement theory

Answer 4

how me attach as child will effect our romantic life later

Question 5

secure attachment

Answer 5

see parents as safe/available

Question 6

anxious/ambivalent attachment

Answer 6

overly dependent on parent and wants more affection than can be given

Question 7

avoidant attachment

Answer 7

unable to relate to parent, becomes distant/cold

Question 8

disorganized attachment

Answer 8

blend of other 2 insecure styles

Question 9

secure attachment results

Answer 9

heath feeling about self and others

Question 10

avoidant attachment results

Answer 10

healthy feelings about self, but fear of connection w/others

Question 11

anxious/ambivalent attachment results

Answer 11

desire to reach out to others, but insecure about self

-afraid they won’t get love back/other person will leave

Question 12

fearful attachment results

Answer 12

relationships w/other poor along with self concept

Question 13

stein burg theory of love

Answer 13

three components of love: passion intimacy and commitment

-consummate love best love has all 3