Love Flashcards
3 parts of the triangular theory of love
1-Passion (motivational component)
2- Intimacy (emotional component)
3- Commitment (cognitive component)
Example of how the three components differ
-Stability
-Conscious control
-Awareness
-Importance across time (passion important in short-term, intimacy and commitment for important on long-term)
-Commonality across relationships
Nonlove
All absent or very low
Liking
- Intimacy is high; passion & commitment are low
- Many friendships
Infatuated love
- Passion is high; intimacy & commitment are low
- E.g., “love at first sight”
Empty love
- Commitment is high; intimacy & passion are low
- Burned out relationships; beginning of arranged marriages
Romantic love
- High intimacy & passion, but not high commitment
- Can lead to commitment, but not necessarily (e.g., summer fling)
Companionate love
- High intimacy & commitment, low passion
- Common in long, happy marriages
Fatuous love
- High passion & commitment, low intimacy
- E.g., whirlwind courtships
Consummate love
- High intimacy, passion, & commitment
- Highly sought & much idealized, but may be hard to maintain over time
Two factor-theory of passionate love, Passionate love arises from:
- Physiological arousal (racing heart, sweatyt palms)
- Attribution of arousal to another person
Love is a combination of what three behavioural systems
attachment, sex, &
caregiving
Behavioural system
a neural program that organizes an individual’s
behaviour in ways that increase the likelihood of survival & reproductive
success
Sexual system
Function is to pass genes on to next generation
Attachment system
Function is to keep us safe