Maintenance and growth

Question 1

Forgiveness

Answer 1

transformation of motivation to think, fell, / behave negatively after suffering transgression

Question 2

invisible support

Answer 2

support that goes unnoticed by the recipient but nevertheless exerts positive effects on recipient

Question 3

effectiveness of both visible and invisible social support depends on the level of ____

Answer 3

resoinsiveness. support works best when it makes partner feel understood, validated and cared for.

Question 4

capitalization

Answer 4

deriving additional benefit from positive events by sharing them with others

sharing news of positive event with others leads to boost in positive affect

Question 5

4 responses to positive disclosures

Answer 5

-active-constructive
-passive-constructive
-active-destructive
-passive-destructive

the first is associated with relationship well-being. the 3 others negatively associated with relationship well-being.

Question 6

3 key components of the secure base in relatyionships

Answer 6

-being available in case base is needed
-not interfering with exploration
-being encouraging & accepting of exploration

Question 7

michelangelo phenomenon

Answer 7

by affirming and supporting our aspirations, our partners help us reach our idea selves