Mindsets

Question 1

What’s the mindset about embracing your imperfections?

Answer 1

embrace your imperfections, they make you relatable

• Too perfect theory
• world class actors/musicans ad mistakes on purpose
• when you’re too perfect, comes across as fake
• being imperfect and keeping your mistakes, it makes you more relatable to the audience
• mistakes are what make you human
• if it’s massive mistake, remove it, but if mispronounce a word, etc. that’s fine

Question 2

What’s looking fly mean?

Answer 2

• if you wake up after 2 hours of sleep, hung over, haircut looks horrible, clothes falling apart, you’ll feel bad not deliver well
• if you take a shower, make sure haircut is on point, beard is clean, wear accessories, nice shirt, put perfume
• he puts on perfume, he looks nice, looks in mirror and feels amazing, can infuse confidence in videos
• if you feel good internally, like yourself, goes into real world, goes into camera
• looking fly, feels amazing, highly recommend it

Question 3

What’s the mindset of thinking “I look weird” on camera?

Answer 3

only time you’ve seen how you look, is when you look in mirror

• mirrors, mirror the image
• camera flips it around to how people see you in real life
• most of your life, you see a mirrored image in a mirror
• our brains are best in world at reading facial expressions, small subtle cues
• our face isn’t 100% simmetrical, when you see it first time, it hits you in the face
• it’s perfectly fine, this is how rest of world has seen you forever
• same with your voice
• overweight, bad skin, balding, etc. objectively that maybe true but realize no matter how attractive you are, not important for video
• not here on dating contest, beauty pagant, physically attractive not important, need confident on camera, deliver a good video, talk about something you know
• the more attractive you are, the less relatable you are
• it’s hard to relate for normal persons
• normal people with imperfections, imperfect skin, etc. that’s something people can relate to
• you don’t need to be a model on camera
• make yourself presentable, dress nice, show up with proper sleep
• present a clean version of yourself, will help you feel better as well