Peers Flashcards
(41 cards)
What is a peer?
one that is of equal standing with another; social equals; operating at similar levels of behavioral complexity
True or False:
A toddler and a 6 year-old are peers.
False
Age difference is a big deal at this age; they are not social equals and there is lots of deviation between the two
What kinds of equal status interactions can peers provide?
- feedback and practice in role taking skills
- growth promoting conflicts of viewpoint
- practice in compromise
- emotional security
- training for later romantic relationships
What is sociability?
one’s willingness to engage with others in social interaction and to seek their attention and approval
What is the timeline of sociability within infancy and toddlerhood?
- 6 months: bit of interactions with peers (babbling, toy offering)
- 1 year: taking turns
- 18 months: coordinated interactions (i.e. imitation)
- 2 years: complementary roles (i.e. tag)
What are the three non-social play types?
- unoccupied
- solitary
- onlooker
What does unoccupied play look like?
- random, unpurposeful movement
- may be standing in one spot or observing something in the environment
What does solitary play look like?
non-random movements with directed course of action
What does onlooker play look like?
observes other kids playing
finding out what it’s like to socialize
What are the three forms of social play within early childhood?
- parallel play
- associative play
- cooperative play
What does parallel play look like?
child plays independently at the same activity as other children
What does associative play look like?
child still focused on a separate activity but acknowledging the others’ actions (i.e. imitation, sharing/lending, helping, taking turns)
What does cooperative play look like?
children organize their play and/or activity cooperatively with a common goal; differentiate and assign roles
What is peer acceptance?
measure of person’s likability in the eyes of peers
How is peer acceptance measured?
ask children who they like/dislike in their class and with whom they want to be friends
What are the five sociometric categories?
- popular
- rejected
- neglected
- average
- controversial
What is the popular peer status?
children who are viewed positively by many peers and viewed negatively by few peers
What kind of characteristics do children with popular peer status have?
- skilled at initiating interactions with peers and maintaining positive relationships
- cooperative, friendly, sociable, sensitive to others
- well regulated, unihibited
- tend to be less aggressive
What is the difference between children who are popular sociometrically and children who are popular as perceived by peers?
sociometric: kind
peer-labeled: use relational aggression to hurt others
What is the rejected peer status?
children who are liked by few peers and disliked by many peers
What two kinds of characteristics do children with rejected peer status have?
- aggressive-rejected
- withdrawn-rejected
What characterizes aggressive-rejected children?
- prone to hostile and threatening behavior, physical aggression, disruptive behavior, and delinquency
- hostile attribution: likely to attribute hostile motives to others in negative social situations
- aggressive behavior often underlies rejection by peers
- develop a network of aggressive friends
What characterizes withdrawn-rejected children?
- socially withdrawn, wary, timid
- withdrawn behavior combined with negative actions or emotions
Where does internalized low self-esteem and low sociability come from?
attachment
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