Relational Influences Flashcards
(42 cards)
Conflict
Is a perception that 2 parties, whether individuals or groups believe that they have incompatible goals, ideas or behaviours.
Two Impacts of Conflict
- Socially destructive
- Mirror image perception
Mirror Image Perception
refer to the reciprocal views of one another often held by parties in conflict; for example, each may view itself as moral and peace-loving and the other as evil and aggressive —>
- incompetence/untrustworthy/immoral
- competent/integrity/high moral value
Solutions to Resolve Conflict
- Imposed
- Distributive
- Integrative
Imposed Solution
are dictated solutions by third party e.g a parent settles a dispute
Distributive Solution
Compromise: A lose lose solution where neither party gets exactly what they want but they come to a compromise e.g industrial disputes where wages are set/
Integrative Solutions
win/win both sides benefits (difficult) as to be some communication
Techniques to resolve conflict?
- counselling
- negotiation
- mediation
Counselling
usually when conflict arises in the family (counsellors will try to help client solve their own problem). Act as 3rd party
Negotiation
parties have some shared interests but also some opposed interests (talk to each other to reach an agreement) e.g countries trying to reach a trade agreement)
Mediation
Bringing in a 3rd pretty to enable the conflict to be settled, helps parties to reach voluntary solution. Can be distributive or integrative.
- identify each needs/goals
- facilitate discussion
- help each other understand
Socialisation
the process by which we learn to become members of society, both by internalising (learn/accept) the norms and values of society and also by learning to perform our social roles
Agents of Socialisation
- Family
- School
- Peer group
- Media
- Religion
Socialisation within Families
parents are an important part of our socialisation process as when we are born they become our primary caregivers; more contact with them then any other adult in early years.
Socialisation within Families Study
Melvin Kohn (1965, 1977) reasoned that working-class parents tend to hold factory/ little autonomy jobs and thus emphasise obedience and respect for authority even favouring spanking. Middle-class parents tend to hold white-collar jobs where autonomy and independent judgment and creativity is valued hence these parents emphasise independence and less likely to spank.
Attachment
Is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another across time and space. Does not have to be reciprocated.
3 Theories of Attachment
Harlow (Monkeys) John Bowlby (Evolutionary model) Mary Ainsworth (Strange situation)
Harlows Study Aim + Outcome
To determine the importance of a caregiver’s love for healthy childhood development. Theorised: contact comfort
Contact Comfort
he reinforcement that drives attachment
Harlows Method + Variables
Observational (time spent with Mother)
8 rhesus monkeys were removed from their mothers after birth The monkeys were raised by ‘surrogate’ mothers, one made of terrycloth (provided warmth/comfort) but did not provide food while the other mother was made of wire (provided food) but no comfort.
IV=whether or not the terrycloth surrogate had the bottle or the wire surrogate
DV=amount of time monkey spent with surrogate
Harlows Findings
Monkeys spent most of their time on the terrycloth mother who provided warmth and comfort. Attachment is not just based on having physical needs met but is based on having emotional needs met (contact comfort).
Bowlby’s Theory of Attachment
Children come into the world biologically pre-programmed to form attachments with others, because this will help them to survive
Attachment behaviours are instinctive and will be activated by any conditions that seem to threaten the achievement of proximity, such as separation, insecurity, and fear.
4 Points of Attachment Theory
- A child has an innate need to attach to one main attachment figure (ie maternal attachment to Mother)
- A child should receive the continuous care of this single most important attachment figure for approx the first 12 months of life (critical period)
- There are long term consequences of maternal deprivation
- Short term separation leads to Protest (cries/screams when parent leaves), Despair (withdrawn) and Detachment (engagement with others lost, reject caregiver) (PDD)
- The child’s relationship with their primary caregiver leads to the development of an internal working model
Internal Working Model
Cognitive framework comprising mental representations for understanding the world, self, and others
- model of others as being trustworthy
- model of self as being valuable
- model of self as being effective in interactions with others