Relationships Flashcards
(47 cards)
Inter-sexual selection
between sexes
preferred by females
quality over quantity
Intra-sexual selection
within sexes
preferred by males
quantity over quality
Buss (eval)
surveys 33 countries, 10000 adults on partner preference
female prefer resources
male prefer reproductive capacity
Clark and Hatfield (eval)
volunteers approach opposite sex students at uni ‘I find you attractive, will you go to bed with me?’
0% females, 75% males said yes
Bereczkei et al
social change changes female preference may no loner be resource oriented
eg women greater role at work so less dependent
Penton-Voak et al
females prefer masculine features (strong immunity for offspring) when fertile and feminine features (kindness and parental cooperation) long term
Altman and Taylor
Social Penetration Theory
gradual process of revealing inner self
reciprocal exchange
display trust
‘penetrate into each others lives
‘depenetration’ - gradual disclose less
Reis and Shaver
Reciprocity
one partner discloses, other responds rewardingly
balance of self-disclosure
deepens relationships
Sprecher and Hendrick (eval)
heterosexual couples, correlation between satisfaction and self-disclosure
Laurenceau (eval)
asked ppts to write diaries, self-disclosure and perception of self-disclosure led to high intimacy in long-term married couples, reverse also true
Tang et al
Men and women USA disclose more sexual thoughts than romantic partners in China
satisfaction high in both
Shakelford and Larson
Facial symmetry makes more attractive, honest symbol of genetic fitness
Neotenous baby face, suggests kindness and social releasers
Dion et al
Research into Halo Effect physically attractive people consistently rated as kinder and intelligent
Walster and Walster
Matching hypothesis
people will choose partners that match them in attractiveness
avoids rejection, making a compromise
Palmer and Peterson
physically attractive people rated as more politically knowledgeable and competent even without any expertise
Feingold
meta-analysis 17 studies, correlation rating attractiveness between romantic partners
Taylor et al
no evidence online daters and driven by attractiveness
Sprecher and Hatfield
fails to find evidence as this is only one characteristic, may compensate for attractiveness with other features
Kerckoff and Davis
Filter theory
1 Social demography
2 Similarity in attitudes
3 Complimentarity
Winch
similarity in attitudes is important in early stages and complimentarity important later on, face validity
Levenger
social changes since and difficulty to define depth
filter theory suggests cut off at 18 months for short term relationships, if longer should be greater commitment, some take longer to establish commitment
Thibault and Kelley
Social Exchange Theory
economic theory
Comparison level
past experience determines what you deserve
Comparison level for alternatives
more rewards elsewhere?
Stages of relationship development
sample, bargaining, commitment, institutionalisation
Sprecher
study 101 couples CLalt predicted commitment
longitudinal study US uni
high CLalt= low commitment and satisfaction
Argyle
people rarely assess costs and rewards before being dissatisfied, being unhappy may lead to questioning