Steps and Stages

Question 1

How many stages are there in EFT?

Answer 1

3

Question 2

How many steps are there in EFT?

Answer 2

9

Question 3

How many steps are there in stage 1?

Answer 3

4

Question 4

How many steps are there in stage 2?

Answer 4

3

Question 5

How many steps are there in stage 3?

Answer 5

2

Question 6

What is stage one?

Answer 6

De-escalation of negative cycles of interaction

Question 7

What is stage two?

Answer 7

Re-structuring the bond

(formerly changing interactional positions

Question 8

What is stage three?

Answer 8

Consolidation

formerly consolidation and integration

Question 9

Which stage is de-escalation?

Answer 9

one

Question 10

Which stage is re-structuring the bond?

Answer 10

two

Question 11

Which stage is consolidation?

Answer 11

three

Question 12

What is step one?

Answer 12

Creating an alliance and delineating conflict issues in the core attachment struggle

Question 13

Which step is: Creating an alliance and delineating conflict issues in the core attachment struggle?

Answer 13

One

Question 14

What is step two?

Answer 14

Identifying the negative interactional cycle where these issues are expressed.

Question 15

Which step is: Identifying the negative interactional cycle where these issues are expressed?

Answer 15

Two

Question 16

What is step three?

Answer 16

Accessing the unacknowledged emotions underlying interactional positions.

Question 17

Which step is: Accessing the unacknowledged emotions underlying interactional positions?

Answer 17

three

Question 18

What is step four?

Answer 18

Reframing the problem in terms of the negative cycle, underlying emotions, and attachment needs.
The cycle is framed as the common enemy and the source of the partners’ emotional deprivation and distress.

Question 19

Which step is: Reframing the problem in terms of the negative cycle, underlying emotions, and attachment needs. The cycle is framed as the common enemy and the source of the partners’ emotional deprivation and distress?

Answer 19

Four

Question 20

What is step 5?

Answer 20

Promoting identification with disowned attachment emotions, needs, and aspects of self and integrating these into relationship interactions.

Question 21

Which step is: Promoting identification with disowned attachment emotions, needs, and aspects of self and integrating these into relationship interactions?

Answer 21

Five

Question 22

What is step 6?

Answer 22

Promoting acceptance of the partner’s experience and new interactional responses.

Question 23

Which step is: Promoting acceptance of the partner’s experience and new interactional responses?

Answer 23

Six

Question 24

What is step 7?

Answer 24

Facilitating the expression of needs and wants and creating emotional engagement and bonding events that redefine the attachment between partners.

Question 25

Which step is: Facilitating the expression of needs and wants and creating emotional engagement and bonding events that redefine the attachment between partners?

Answer 25

Seven

Question 26

What is step 8?

Answer 26

Facilitating the emergence of new solutions to old relationship problems.

Question 27

Which step is: Facilitating the emergence of new solutions to old relationship problems?

Answer 27

Eight

Question 28

What is step 9?

Answer 28

Consolidating new positions and new cycles of attachment behaviours.

Question 29

Which step is: Consolidating new positions and new cycles of attachment behaviours?

Answer 29

Nine

Question 30

What is the primary objective of steps 1 & 2?

Answer 30

To create a therapeutic alliance

Question 31

What 3 skills are most used in steps 1 & 2?

Answer 31

Reflection Validation Reframing & catching the bullet

Question 32

What does Sue Johnson call Stage 2 in her 2017 PCEP article?

Answer 32

restructuring attachment | SJ 2017 PCEP

Question 33

which step is the last stage of the process in which new emotional experience and expression are used to change interactional positions and so restructure interactions

Answer 33

Step 7 | Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 34

in which Step do Withdrawer Re-Engagement and Blamer Softening occur?

Answer 34

Step 7 | Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 35

which comes first - completed Blamer Softening or established Withdrawer Re-Engagement?

Answer 35

Withdrawer Re-Engagement | Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 36

In which step might someone say 'I feel small and inept with you, and live in fear of you really seeing this and leaving me, so I go numb and placate.'?

Answer 36

Step 5 | Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 37

In which Step might someone say 'I am tired of numbing out, I want to feel special to you. I want you to hold off on the criticism and quit threatening to leave. I'm not going to feel small in the relationship anymore.'?

Answer 37

Step 7 | Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 38

In Step 7 what kind of needs does a partner express?

Answer 38

what they need in order to feel safe and connected in the relationship Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 39

How is Step 7 based on Steps 5 & 6?

Answer 39

In Step 7 the new emotional experience of Step 5, which has been integrated into relationship interactions in Step 6, is used to restructure the relationship. Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 40

In which Step are the clients starting to take on more and more initiative - with the therapist becoming less active but encouraging and redirecting as necessary?

Answer 40

Step 7 | Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 41

In which Step is a Withdrawer most likely to say 'If I really showed her who I am she'd finally see how pathetic I am'?

Answer 41

Step 5 | Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 42

In which Step is a Withdrawer likely to say 'I want to feel desired, like I might be someone you like to be with. I want you to help me learn about how to be close'?

Answer 42

Step 7 | Creating Connection, SJ, 2004

Question 43

In which Step is the observing partner most likely to be saying 'You expect me to believe that? You never told me that before… It seems so sad…'?

Answer 43

Step 6 | Creating Connection, SJ, 2004