Studying the self Part 1 Flashcards
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What is the self?
SSP - SI perspective
social product /social force
can in turn guide social behavior
The development of the self
how the self is created and maintained within a specific social context
What is the self: Rohall
“a process in which we construct a sense of who we are through interaction with others”
self is a process, the self can change over time
“self-concept”
The sum total of thoughts and feelings people have about themselves as objects
step outside ourselves and view ourselves, everything we think about and feel is our self-concept
a “thing” we can reflect on, and this through the self-process we rake ourselves as objects
Snapshot
understandings people have about themselves
as we interact with people or new situations, this snapshot may change
The looking glass self (cooley)
the reaction of others serve as mirrors in which people see and evaluate themselves just as they see and evaluate other objects in their social environment
the reactions of others serve as mirrors in which we see and evaluate ourselves - informing our self-concepts
the self as a social product
the emergence of our self-concept requires other people to reflect an image
without others, we don’t have a mirror
our self-concept is based on how we think others see us, not how others see us
Appraisals
reflected, actual, self
Reflected appraisals
how we think other people see us
Actual appraisals
how other people see us
leads to self-appraisals
Self-appraisals
judgments we make about ourselves
-self is based on reflection
Actual and reflected appraisals are only
weakly associated
Why is there a distinction
people rarely honestly provide feedback
feedback is inconsistent and contradictory
feedback is often ambiguous and difficult to interpret (little context, ex: texting, shrug)
Role-taking
seeing yourself from another’s perspective
create reflected appraisals that influence the self-concept
the self-concept is generally relatively stable but can change over time
When are reflections influential
“Reflected appraisals are most important in the development of the self-concept when there are no clear criteria or objective feedback as a basis for self-views”
when we do not have an external indication of who we are, we use what we imagine are others’ judgments as a guide
If we cant really judge on external criteria, we may use self-reflected appraisals of judging ourselves
the origin of the self
initially formed
Multi-stage process
Mead also the founder of SI
Preparatory stage
infant stage - when behaviors are primarily biological reactions
do not have a sense of self-separate from others
children imitate the behavior of others w/o understanding the meaning of it
Play stage
When children are beginning to hone their language skills
children must act out a role to obtain the perspective of the other
limited to one person at a time
Multiple roles
Children know that multiple roles exist, but do not understand how multiple roles may be intertwined
ex: mother, sister, aunt
function of generalized other
We can envision what “they” (society as a whole) would think of us and how “they” would view us if we engaged in different behaviors
a social control function because we care about what others think, even if we don’t know them
We experience sympathy, shame, guilt, and pride through the generalized other
Me
socialized side of the self
takes into consideration the imagined view of others
I
a spontaneous, active, sometimes impulsive aspect of the self
the active part of the self, with society residing in the “me”
Importance of I and ME
Even though the Me may indicate the judgements of society, we do not always have to behave in accordance with these judgements
The I allows us to deviate from societal expectations
We can resist these views because they conflict with previous experiences of self-concepts
Ex: someone says your dumb, but other experiences of yours prove that you aren’t