Week 8 Flashcards
According to choice therapy: The only person whose behavior we can control is
our own.
According to choice therapy: All we can give another person is
information.
According to choice therapy: All long-lasting psychological problems are
relationship problems.
According to choice therapy The _______ is always part of our present life.
problem relationship
According to choice therapy: What happened in the past has everything to do with ____________, but we can only ______________ and plan to continue satisfying them in the future.
what we are today
satisfy our basic needs right now
According to choice therapy: We can only satisfy our needs by satisfying the
pictures in our Quality World.
According to choice therapy: All we do is .
behave
According to choice therapy: All behavior is _________ and is made up of four components:
Total Behavior
acting, thinking, feeling and physiology.
According to choice therapy: All Total Behavior is _________ but we only have direct control over the _____________ components. We can only control our ____________ indirectly through how we choose to act and think.
chosen
acting and thinking
feeling and physiology
According to choice therapy: All Total Behavior is designated by _____ and named by the part that is the most recognizable
verbs
Reality therapy is developed by
William Glasser and added to by William Wubbolding
Reality therapy is based on the concepts of
choice theory (also created by Glasser).
RT believed the underlying problem for most client is
involvement in present unsatisfying relationship and lack of relationships
To Glasser, unhappiness is as a result of
the way people choose to behave.
“The solution to a happier existence is fairly simple: ______________________ will lead to better relationships and overall happiness. The choice theory dictates that people, at their core, are trying to ______________ .”
people making better choice
satisfy five basic needs
Reality Therapy’s View of Human Nature
We are all born with 5 genetically encoded needs that drive us that vary in strength
According to RT, how do we satisfy our needs?
We do not satisfy needs directly, but from others around us (not necessarily something we can do for ourselves)
According to RT From birth we build/store information inside our mind of anything we want – referred to as
quality world
What is the most important component of our quality world
People we are closest to and most enjoy being with
5 Basic Needs According to RT
- Survival (food, shelter, safety, the urge to reproduce)
- Love and belonging (connectedness and relationships)
- Power (competence, achievement, and internal control)
- Freedom (autonomy, ability to make choices)
- Fun (pleasure, enjoyment, knowledge)
Total behaviour is composed of
acting, thinking, feeling, and physiology
RT focuses on_______ / avoids discussing the _______
avoids discussing _________ and ____________
ocus on what we can do __________
present - past
symptoms and complaines
directly (act and think)
Therapist Role in RT
Seven Caring Habits
- Supporting
- Encouraging
- Listening
- Accepting
- Trusting
- Respecting
- Negotiating differences
Seven Deadly Habits
- Criticizing
- Blaming
- Complaining
- Nagging
- Threatening
- Punishing
- Bribing or rewarding to control