Words of Wisdom Flashcards

Question

[GUMA] Tiu pei is frm true heart not a form of act to produce actively; we will easily be tiu pei as long as we are young at heart ie really fully relax when not working and keep the curiosity on exploring the world and life details

Answer 1

Likewise, keep a relaxed and positive mind & attitude on life, and from that we can easily make fun out of life ie having humor (but never a forced attempt to make humor in daily life, it shd be out of happiness from our soul; and thus we dont ask for being humorous all the time, but we hope for most of the time, and even during setbacks, thats the manifestation of our attitude on life: positive, relaxed, confident

Answer 2

1. 描述性的自我對話 (I saw...I hear...I feel.....) 2. 用純在的狀態體驗當下的情緒代替解決問題的空洞 3. 重新啟動（深度睡眠／meditation --> 認真，沒有前設地，思考問題和解決方法）

Answer 3

- Stand straight, 收腹, eyes look up - and 做嘢gong yeh mm ho 閃閃縮縮, zhor dok yau dok mm gou da fong jau mm gou gor 勢 - When she duc 洗錢, jau yau fuk hei eg shen shen ho willing spend money on trips on life eg wine and tea etc and now he get promoted - Buy yeh gor mind yiu zhing ming, but gor darm yiu fong mm ho 顧忌this and that or mentally struggle pay or not (ie yiu she duc 洗)

Answer 4

食物唔使食得多，但要食得精

Answer 5

When write, think in the audience perspective and what message they will receive if you write as such

Answer 6

[郭釗] | 意見再多，要付諸實行，才會成事

Answer 7

- Gong yeh zhui gen yiu tarn bak, mm ho lie jau hor yee hold our heads high - gong yeh yut ding yiu tarn bak, but just need to put it in nicer way eg if mm leng dont say its leng, but focus on other features - Gong yeh tarn bak is also a brilliant way to 化解awkwardness, esp if can + skills like exaggeration to make it more humorous - When getting praised, can use 自眨, but dont give sth that makes ppl feel 假or unreal: eg edmond law looks at my clothes and guma say he eye gumgum, can reply ohh he is just thinking wt a wierdo i am to wear such thick coat; eg ppl praise the coat very pretty, then can say ohh yup min穿籠nei tai mm dou zhe - Zho yun yiu tarn bak, if make mistake jau yiu admit; if get scolded at ur wrongs jau yiu admit and thank dui fong for pointing out, no matter how fierce and impolite they are

Answer 8

Action speaks louder than word: eg fifth uncle offers waiter a cup of his own tea; eg edmond law buy ding coffee for fifth aunt; eg fifth uncle saw tourmates, whom he has some communication with, dont have red wine, so share some with them Walk greater than talk; likewise see thru ppl action rather than based on just wt they say: eg if they speak or do sth out of good intention, we shd thank them no matter how disturbing the speech or action is - Doc yut ding yiu yau oi sum, and sjould starting frm love and care nearby ppl, 熱愛生命，its frm true heart not for ppl to apprciate so its giving us energy not taking away; and also hence we no need be very cautious on what to do, just act from your heart already suffice when you truely love others

Answer 9

○ 笨拙的人講道理，聰明的人說故事 ○ Likewise, emotional persuation is almost always more effective than rational: e.g. a blind man asking for money, "I'm blind please help me" (Rational) is surely way less successful than "It is a beautiful day but I can't see it" (provoke emotion response) - To sell an item / products, can also make use of: ○ Increase the perceived value (despite the same actual value), by: Link with some high value items e.g. the story of no citizens willing to grow potato and try this new food; so the king decided to make it royal food and only royal members can grow it and eat it ––> increase the perceived value - Positioning theory: readjust the position such that the item become the number 1 in that aspect (as people tend to only rmb and able to recall the No.1) –– you can be number 1 easily by just simply adding more criteria to narrow the position specifically to your criteria (e.g. can't be "No.1 youtube channel" but can be "No.1 Chinese youtube channel on self-education)

Answer 10

when offered privilege, the best response is HEARTFELT ones (if tried and cannot reject then accept it and show how truly u like it or appreciate it rather than false thanks; if and really not gonna accept the gifts, be true as well to mention the rationale behind: eg not taking fifth uncle shoes, another eg of being tarn bak helping the situation: being 請食飯if ming g dui fong shd be the one to pay, then can honestly say this time mm tung nei zharn cuz g dou this time sut zarn mm yan nei, but next time has to be on me

Answer 11

不要盲目相信成功者，不論什麼情況下都要運用理性分析事物，批判性式思考，更要從失敗的人學習，分析為什麼失敗，以避免幸存者偏差，高估了成功的容易性而忽略了許多沉默的資訊，潛在的重要因素 [但一旦分析而有了結論後，就要果斷實行。自己小心仔細分析 ≠ 要受周遭的小雞呼叫而影響，只要已考慮過小雞的意見，自己認為是對的就要去做］

Answer 12

* Fame is just like beauty which is temporary and can fade, and is something that is never controlled on our hands * When life comes to a conclusion, what truly matters is whether we has lived happily and make this world better * Before accepting an offer that can brings you fame, consider: 1) Are you confident in doing it? Taking the offer and doing it badly will cost you the fame or even worse 2) What do you truly wants from this offer, mission or fame? If it is purely because of fame, you will suffer when you have to start working 3) Does taking this offer in line with your 初心or does it cost you time and energy away from it? 毋忘初心。Only when we are following your 初心 will you be truly happy.

Answer 13

如果你到了65歲或是70歲了，那些你想愛的人也真正地愛著你，那麼你就成功了

Answer 14

如果我給你一輛車，並且是你一生中唯一的一輛車，你就會竭盡所能地照料它。一但有任何刮痕、損壞，你都會立刻去解決它，且你會詳細閱讀用戶手冊，你也會為它去騰出一個車庫，你會為了這台車去做一切的事情。你在這世界上只有一個心靈與一個身體，當你50歲時便開始無法好好地照顧它。到那個時候，如果你還未替它做任何事情，你便會開始生鏽，所以這是非常重要的。如果你投資你自己，沒有人可以把它從你身上帶走。

Answer 15

When under stress, build up closer relationship (talk to others / help others) to stimulate release of oxytocin which not only helps relief the stress quicker but also neutralize the harmful effects on body from the stress hormones

Answer 16

the biu meen situation might be so but i dont have to sucumb to it; being strong doesnt have to be alone, I could increase my 福氣by creating it, by building the enviornment ard me full of 福氣, and thats by open myself and making myself: being loved (to truly love and be loved by closed ones eg guma, fifth uncle, sister, deborah), being supported (to truly support and be supported and relate to friends) and self-loved (to truly love myself even from tiny life details, esp i have the adv over others by possessing wealth and great freedom); and these will fills myself with love, care and energy and 福氣to deal with all difficulties from life, fam or studies

Answer 17

sleeping late is actually becuz of deeming the work / enjoyment at hands more important that sleep; but truth is sleep is very important for health for fuk hei for healing for gd & smart mind and every day is a separate entity meaning that i sleep less in one day i will not get it back; whereas no matter its entertainment or work i can still do it at another time without the need to consume precious sleeping time for it, so its a stupid bargain if sleep late for that; unless it is reli sth that i cannot do it at another time just like sleeping then they are on level ground and in such case can consider delay sleeping; otherwise just make sure have at least 7-8hrs sleep each day

Answer 18

think out of the box, no need 人芸亦芸; if cant achieve one end by a means then change to another means, all roads go to Rome, as long as the ends is achieved; esp when eg innate disadvantage makes the usual pathway unattainable/impossible, be flexible mm ho garp arng lei; most important thing at this situation is to identify wt is the actual aim/ goal, and ask yourself if the ideal/usual means is really the only way to achieve that goal

Answer 19

忙碌的人常常是最懶惰的人，不要藉由忙碌工作來逃避問題，這只是一種藉着忙碌來表現的懶惰。要治療這種惰性就要多一點點貪婪，積極追求心裏渴望的新奇的生活，勇於追求得到自己想要的生活。問問自己：如果我擁有自己需要的所有的錢，如果不再工作，那我將做什麼？來激發對美好生活的嚮往和追求。而我的答案就是發掘和學習這世界更多不同的事物, 追求積極充實的生活，健康的身心-那麼日常生活中我就要在忙碌中也去追尋

Answer 20

想要一份工作時(販賣奴隸)，首先是自身有沒有工作相對應的能力(小張有農場的工作經驗)，沒有的話就要利用態度來說服雇主(小明) // 在獲得工作後，賣力工作反而不是重點，而是解決雇主的問題，工作要盡可能學習為人解決問題的能力(製作麵包) // 如果你想要別人幫你，最好的方法是---讓對方知道幫自己，對他也有好處(小明說服老闆讓他做更多麵包去賣) // 保持積極正面的態度看待日常生活的人和事, 用心善待身邊的每一個人，有時候的舉手之勞，會有意外的收穫，今天無心播下的種他日讓你擁有異想不到的結果 (小明一句話幫了阿布，阿布後來幫小明贖身)。

Answer 21

1) Talent: different things has different weight for talent 2) Productivity ○ Productivity = time x effort x concentration □ Time can be increased by: ® Directly allocating more time - Transfer time on other aspects to it - Create more time on it e.g. make use of transportation time) ® Shortening the time needed for the same "products" - Better filing system - Increasing the speed of lecture videos □ Concentration can be improved by: ® Sufficient sleep ® Caffeine ® Reduce distraction (e.g. put aside phone) □ Effort can be improved by: ® Quantitative: just simply put more effort ® Qualitative: learn thoroughly and get deep understanding and big picture through researching (even on multiple sources if needed) ○ But more important, All the above 3 components are majorly lead by INTEREST!! □ If have INTEREST on that field, very naturally we will spend more time on it, find ways to shorten the time needed for each components, be very focused & concentrated when studying it and put lots of effort on it and do lots of research, read many materials on it, ask questions & find answers (much greater memory of info in this way) □ Interest can be further cultivated by: ® Do NOT undermine the interst: do not pressurize yourself, do not think of the "dog chasing you" as motivation - Even if really shortage of time, pressurizing yourself will just decrease the effectivness as it undermines the aforementioned factors (e.g. become avoidance, poor concentration etc.) ® Potentiate the interest: think of the "carrots" as motivation

Answer 22

And the ability to stand back and lay back is also equally important –– in daily life, this gives us a clear and calm mind to make good judgement; especially in investment, too many promotions, analysis and luring temptations to make us loss our mind, crucial to be able to step back and think of the bigger picture, the longer-term issues –– to have a clearer vision!

Answer 23

你需要社會, 社會需要你, 這樣人才會快樂

Answer 24

- Get yourself into places with more interactions and human flow (廣結善緣) - When you have fortune, acknolwedge & admit it

Answer 25

你需要社會, 社會需要你, 這樣人才會快樂

Answer 26

- Get yourself into places with more interactions and human flow (廣結善緣) - When you have fortune, acknolwedge & admit it

Answer 27

Rather, we should: 1) satisfy with our current status, appreciate and be grateful 2) Realize wt u want is not him/her but the thing that they possess, and hence think how did they get it and appreciate it, learn frm it and work hard for it (that's the positive attitude)

Answer 28

轉換思考角度, 用老闆思維打工：如何幫公司賺錢？如何幫公司慳錢？如果我是老細我會想要怎麼樣的員工？

Answer 29

[GUMA] 連繫以前嘅網絡（約以前相識嘅人親切對待真心關心），提升自己嘅網絡（去做未試過嘅嘢）

Answer 30

Attraction theory: first dev a positive inner core then will attract positive things (thoughts is important but feelings is even more important—— it has the most attraction force!) - Speak out to urself a concise specific yet powerful positive sentence eg I Love Myself for many times while really feel for it - Also eg really think and feel i have it already even if i desperately in need of sth; cuz that attracts it more; rather than has the feeling of i desparately need such thing, which implies u dont have it and hence attracts fate that u really not gonna get it

Answer 31

If 站得住腳，no typhoon can move you

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