Breakdown Flashcards
(4 cards)
AO1
Lack of skills
Lack of stimulation
Maintenance difficulties
Lack of skills - if a partner lacks interpersonal skills, making them not mutually satisfying, eg poor conversationalist, uninteresting, then partner perceives them as uninterested in relating
Stimulation - expectation a relationship will be constantly changing - if it doesn’t this seems insufficient and justification to end it
MD - not seeing each other is hard but main ting rel shows strength - if 3 mantainance strategies (positivity, openness, social networks, assurances, sharing tasks) are not in place it will breakdown
AO2
Lack of skills, stimulation and MD
Broekhurst - extra marital affairs
Rofling
Boekhurst - extra marital affairs - directly linked to lack of skills stimulation - under grads rated reasons for men/women to cheat - women emotional reasons, men sexual
Rofling - LDRS and LDFS more common, 70% exp LDRS and 90% LDFS - in our society ppl move all the time so important to understand management strategies - so long as they maintained regular contact there was little decrease in satisfaction
AO1 Duck
Breakdown Intrapsychic Dyadic Social Grave dressing Resurrection
Breakdown - dissatisfaction expressed
Intra - social withdrawal, dwelling on faults
Dyadic - uncertainty, hostility
Social - public, alliance building, 3rd party support
Grave dressing - stories prepared, tidying memories
Resurrection - redefining goals for next rel
AO2
RWA
Ethics
Rel counselling - can see what stage has been reached and how to work on it - but does this progress it to social?
Ethics - hard to relive difficult time in life, confidentiality