Ch 4 Part 1 - Equalizing and Exchanging Self and Others Flashcards
(500 cards)
What two types of bodhicitta should we contemplate daily?
The conventional bodhicitta (the altruistic intention) and the ultimate bodhicitta (the wisdom realizing emptiness)
Where is the method of equalizing and exchanging self and others traced to?
Nāgārjuna’s Commentary on Bodhicitta and his Precious Garland of Advice for the King
Who explained this method in detail?
Śāntideva explained this method in detail in Engaging in the Bodhisattvas’ Deeds
Why was this method practiced secretly?
Because thinking according to this approach shakes us up and hits right at the heart of our self-centered attitude
What does this method transform?
The mind that anxiously clings to I and mine into a relaxed joyful mind that cherishes others more than self
What are the six steps of equalizing and exchanging self and others?
Equalizing self and others becoming convinced of disadvantages of self-centeredness understanding benefits of cherishing others exchanging self and others taking and giving and bodhicitta
What is the first step in equalizing self and others?
Recognizing that all sentient beings are equally important and worthy of being happy and peaceful and free from pain and misery
How does equalizing self and others differ from equanimity meditation?
Equanimity overcomes attachment and animosity toward friends and enemies while equalizing self and others overcomes considering ourselves more valuable than other sentient beings
What false assumption does equalizing self and others question?
Our innate assumption of self-importance
Why are we and others equal in wanting happiness?
Because all of us equally have buddha nature
What meditation helps us see the equality of self and others?
Imagine your usual self on your left and all other sentient beings on your right then be the judge and determine whose well-being is more important
Why should the side of all sentient beings win the vote?
Because it is more important to bring about happiness and remove suffering of all sentient beings than of just ourselves
What should we do if self-centeredness refuses to admit defeat?
We must protest against it because it is a tyrannical despot that refuses to turn over power to the rightful victor
How many points are in Trijang Rinpoche’s meditation on equalizing self and others?
Nine points with three major points each having three subpoints
How many major points are based on conventional truths?
Two major points are based on conventional truths and one on ultimate truth
What is the first reason everyone is equal from viewpoint of others?
Everyone equally wants happiness and freedom from suffering
What analogy is used about favoring some beggars over others?
Favoring some beggars over others is not suitable because each has needs although their specific needs may differ
What analogy is used about curing patients?
Curing suffering of some patients and not others is not proper because they all equally want to be free from pain
What is the first reason from viewpoint of self?
All sentient beings have been kind to us in the past are kind in the present and will be kind in the future
What did we receive from others to sustain our lives?
Everything including food clothing shelter medicine and all our enjoyments were produced and given to us by others
How do we respond to the claim that beings have also harmed us?
If we weigh help and harm received the help greatly outweighs the harm which is miniscule
What should we recall about impermanence when clinging to old hurts?
We and others are impermanent beings subject to death so there is no sense discriminating against anyone or holding grudges
What do the reasons from ultimate truth examine?
Whether there is an inherently existent self and others
How does the Buddha view friends enemies and strangers?
The Buddha makes no distinction between a person massaging him and someone cutting him - they are equally objects of his love and compassion