Ch 4 Part 3 - Equalizing and Exchanging Self and Others Flashcards
(334 cards)
What meditation does Śāntideva describe to demolish self-centeredness?
Exchange ourselves with others, then cultivate jealousy, rivalry, and arrogance toward our old self
What emotions does this meditation mimic and invert?
The emotions our self-centered attitude usually holds toward people we consider better, equal, or inferior
In the exchange verses, what does ‘I’ refer to?
Other sentient beings, those who are to be cherished
In the exchange verses, what does ‘he’ refer to?
Our self-centered attitude that is the source of our misery
What perspective do we adopt in this meditation?
Others’ perspective looking at our self-centered attitude
What does the verse about indifference show?
Contemptuous jealousy toward self-centered attitude that doesn’t care about others on the brink of unfortunate rebirths
How does our self-centered attitude make an outward show?
It pretends to be virtuous and sets itself among the perfect while not caring about others
What determination does this jealousy generate?
Not to bow to the antics of our self-preoccupation
How should we compete with our self-centered self?
Advertise others’ gifts to the world while ensuring our self-centeredness remains unknown
What should we conceal versus reveal?
Conceal our (self-centered) faults; reveal others’ qualities
Who should be the object of devotion?
Others, not our self-centered attitude
Who should gain possessions and renown?
Others, not our self-centered attitude
Who should be the center of attention?
Others, not our self-centered attitude
What arrogance should we show toward self-centeredness?
That even if it has something, it’s working for us and should keep only enough to survive
How should we ‘steal’ from our self-centered attitude?
With our strength, take away the rest of what it has for others’ benefit
What useful attitude does this teach about possessions?
Since we’ve mentally given everything to beings, use items only for their benefit
How should we use our good reputation after exchanging?
Offer it to others and use solely for their benefit, never for arrogant self-promotion
What will gradually free us from self-centeredness?
Training ourselves to think in this way
What obstacles might we encounter with this meditation?
Difficulty understanding ‘I’ and ‘he’ usage; wondering about cultivating negative emotions
How do we overcome the first obstacle?
With repeated practice
Why might we wonder about cultivating negative emotions?
They seem despicable and unbecoming for Dharma practitioners
What’s the actual purpose of these seemingly negative emotions?
They’re used as tools to show how contemptible our self-centeredness is
How are these emotions used differently than usual?
Their object is our self-centered attitude, not other sentient beings
What do they show us about self-centeredness?
Just how contemptible it is so we’ll stop following its dictates