Chapter #11: Relationship Flashcards
(67 cards)
Friendship
a mutual relationship in which those who are involved, influence one anothers behaviors and beliefs, and define friendshop quality as the satisfaction derived from the relationship
* based on feelings and grounded in recpirocity & choice
ABCDE Model
descirbes the 5 stages of friendships
1. Advancement
2. Buildup
3. Continutation
4. Deteroriation
5. Ending
3 Broad Themes of Adult Friendships
- Affective/Emotional Basis
- Shared/Communal Nature
- Sociability/Compatability Dimension
Affective/Emotional Basis
self-disclosure, expression of intimacy, appreciation, affection, and support
* based on trust, loyalty, and committment
Shared/Communal Nature
how friends participate in or support activites of mutual interest
Sociability/Compatability Dimension
how friends keep us entertained and are sources of amusement, fun, and recreation
Trust Develops in 4 Sources
- Reputation
- Performance, or what users do online
- Precommittment, through personal self-disculosure
- Situational Factors; premium placed on intimacy and the relationship
Do online social network friendships develop similar to in person ones?
True
Siblings bonds are generally:
closer and the longest lasting
* Centrality depends on proximity, health, prior relationships, and relatedness
* close in youth, drift as adults, come back together in old age
Do older adults tend to have fewer relationships?
Yes
Socioemotional Selectivity
argues that social contract is motivtated by a variety of goals, informational seeking, self-concept, and emotional regulation
* each goal is emotionally salient at different points of the adult life span
* Information seeking = young adult goal
* Emotional regulation = older adult goal
Men’s, Women’s, and Cross-Sex Friendships
4 characterstics of same-sex friendships do not appear to differ in men/women
1. Georgraphic proximity
2. Similarity of interests/values
3. Inclsion
4. Symmetrical Reciporcity
3 Characeristics that distinguish female/male same-sex relationships
1. Communion & Self-Disclosure
2. Greater effort and expectations from friends
3. Greater risk of corumination
Sternberg’s 3 Components of Love
a true love relationship consists of all 3
1. Passion - an intense psychological desire for someone
2. Intimacy - the feeling that you can share all your thoughts/actions with someone
3. Committment - the willingness to stay with a person through good and bad times
Infatuation
an intense physiclly based relationships
* high risk of misunderstanding and jealousy
As the length of a relationship increases
- intimacy + passion decrease
- intimacy + committment increase
Assortative Mating
a theory of people find partners based on their similarity to each other
* occurs more in Western Society that allows choice over their mates
Homogamy
the degree to which people are similar
* shows a likelihood to they “click” in many dimensions
1 in 5 couples in the U.S. meet online
physical attractiveness strongly influence initial selections online
Hookup Culture & Casual Sex
3/4 express regret hooking up
Culture is a powerful force in shaping mate selection occurs
countries that llow mate choosing tend to develop more secure romantic attachments
Abusive Relationship
a relationship that one partner displays aggressive behavior towards the other partner
Battered Women Syndrome
a situation in which a woman believes she canno leave an abusive relationship and where she may even go as far as to kill her abuser
* Risk Factors:
* 1. Female, African American
* 2. Living in atypical family structure
* 3. more romantic partners
What range of aggressive behaviors occurs in abusive relationships?
- Verbal Aggression
- Physical Aggresion
- Severe Aggression
- Murder
What are the characteristics of Verbal Aggression
insults, yelling, name calling, need to control, jealousy, misuse of power