Chapter 6 Flashcards
(55 cards)
this view is always good when young
a global view of self
understanding what they are good and bad at
good-me-bad-me
describing surface characteristics
external characteristics
including internal characteristics. thoughts/emotions
internal and external chracteristics
measuring themselves to others
social comparison
evaluation of your good/bad traits in different domains
self-concept
emotional evaluation of traits
self-esteem
giving an honest opinion on their ability
grounded in reality
an expression of care/protection
clear and fair rules
teaching kids boundaries
independence within limits
letting kids know you have affection for them. Moderate rules with love. let them know you value them
affection
kids understand their purpose, goals, desires to learn. putting their own foot forward.
initiative
realizing they crossed a boundary and hurt someone
guilt
learning things that society thinks is worthwhile. developing a work ethic. becoming capable of performing increasingly complex tasks.
industry vs. inferiority
things that enhance your relationship. ex. helping/caring, concerned about welfare
prosocial behavior
unselfish concern about someone’s welfare
altruism
kids imitating adults
modeling
practicing what you want them to do
role play
teaching kids understanding
induce empathy
expecting kids to act properly
high standards
giving kids something they can contribute with
give responsibility
any harmful act
aggression
using aggression to obtain a goal
instrumental
responding to being hurt or frustrated
reactive