Chapter 9 Flashcards
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Kinks
Colloquial term for unusual sexual interests and practices
- Do not cause distress or dysfunction
Paraphilias
Persistent, intense sexual desire or behavior that is uncommon or unusual
Paraphilic disorders
Paraphilias that cause distress or harm others
Fetish
Sexual arousal from an inanimate object, material, or part of the body
- More men than women
- One category of kink
Partialism
Fetishtic attraction to a specific part of the body or something worn on the body
- Many geared toward feet and shoes
Rubberist
Latex fetish
Object fetishism
Sexual arousal by objects that are not associated with bodies
- Many objectphiles are women
- Some are on the autism spectrum and/or have difficulty establishing social relationships with humans
When is a fetish a disorder?
One must not be able to have satisfactory sex without the fetish
Common fetishes
- Feet and/or toes: 47%
- Bodily fluids: 9%
- Hair: 7%
- Muscles: 5%
- Tattoos and piercings: 4%
- Oral area: 2%
- Fingernails or toenails: <1%
- Body odors: <1%
Potential stages of transvestic fetishism
- Wearing clothes of the other sex for purposes of sexual arousal
- Usually heterosexual men
- Approximately 2.8% of men and .4% of women have engaged in this practice
- Many men hide it from their wives
- Many wives worry their husbands are gay
- Terms sometimes applied to cross dressing for any purpose
Tri-Ess
Support organization for heterosexual cross-dressers
- Socialize in safe, accepting groups
Drag
Wearing of exaggeratedly feminine clothing by a man or male clothing by a woman, often for entertainment
Cross-dressing
Wearing the clothing of the other sex, for any of a variety of reasons, including greater comfort
Sadism
Sexual arousal by the infliction of pain, bondage, or humiliation on others, or by witnessing the recipient’s sufferingM
Masochism
Sexual arousal from being subjected to pain, bondage, or humiliation
Sadomasochism
Infliction and acceptance of pain or humiliations as means of sexual arousal
- Some prefer dominant role
- Some prefer submissive role
- Some participate in both roles
Bondage
Use of physical restraint for purposes of sexual arousal
Dominance
Use of humiliation or subservience for purposes of sexual arousal
Submission
Taking the subservient role
BDSM
Bondage, dominance/discipline, submission/sadism, masochism
- All-inclusive term for forms of sexual expression that involve inflicting and receiving physical pain, restraint, or humiliation
- BDSM is fairly common
- Fantasies involving BDSM more common than behavior
- Some individuals become so focused on receiving pain or humiliation, that sexual arousal plays little role
Personality traits related to BDSM
- Less neurotic, more extroverted, more open to new experiences, more conscientiousness, and less agreeable
- Greater narcissism
Prevalence of childhood sexual abuse for people who participate in BDSM
7.9% of men and 19.7% of women had suffered some form of sexual abuse in childhood (compared to 3% men and 8% women in population)
Dominatrix
Woman who acts the role of dominant partner in a BDSM setting
Edgeplay
Challenge the bottom’s tolerance and boundaries of safety/consent
- Typically, only used by those who have practiced together for a longer time