Chapter Five: Neurotic Needs and Trends Flashcards

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How did Karen Horney agree with Freud?

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That the early years of childhood are important to shape the adult personality.

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How did Karen Horney disagree with Freud?

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That social forces not biological forces influence personality development.

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What happens if parents do not meet the safety need?

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It results in infant helplessness.

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How can a parent undermine a child’s security?

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Preference for one sibling, unfair punishment, humiliation, they keep children dependent, and do not show warmth or affection.

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What is the child’s response to the parents undermining behaviours and why?

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The child will feel the need to repress the hostility because of helplessness, fear of the parents, need for genuine love, or guilt.

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What is basic anxiety?

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Tied to feelings of hostility, helplessness, and fear. It is the foundation to neurosis.

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What are the self-protective mechanisms children might use to protect themselves from being hurt?

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Securing love and affection, submissiveness, attaining power, or withdrawing.

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What are examples of securing affection?

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Doing whatever the person wants, bribing others, or threatening others.

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What are examples of being submissive?

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Complying with the wishes of others. They do not criticize or give offence.

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What are examples of attaining power?

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The belief that if they have power, no one will harm them. Success and a sense of superiority.

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What are examples of withdrawing?

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Psychologically moving away from people. Not to rely on anyone else which involves minimizing emotional needs.

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What is the goal of these self-protective mechanisms?

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To defend against basic anxiety.

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What happens when self-protective mechanisms get used too much?

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They become neurotic needs.

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What are neurotic needs?

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They are ten irrational defenses against anxiety.

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What are neurotic trends?

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They are three distinct categories for the ten defenses against anxiety.

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What are the three neurotic trends?

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Compliant personality, aggressive personality, and detached personality.

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What is a compliant personality?

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A display of behaviours and attitudes that reflect the desire to move towards people.

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What are the characteristics of people with compliant personality?

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They are manipulative, seek affection and approval, fear rejection, seem sensitive, and ignore personal desires.

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Why do people develop basic anxiety?

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The repressed feelings of hostility.

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What neurotic needs are associated with compliant personality?

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Affection and approval and dominant partner.

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What is an aggressive personality?

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A display of behaviours and attitudes that move against people. The mindset is driven by insecurity, anxiety, and hostility.

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What are the characteristics of people with an aggressive personality?

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They do not have much regard for others, maintain superiority and power, appear confident, and are often highly successful.

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What neurotic needs are associated with aggressive personality?

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Power, exploitation, prestige, admiration, and achievement.

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What is a detached personality?

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A display of behaviours and attitudes that move away from people to maintain an emotional distance.

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What are the characteristics of people with a detached personality?

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They do not like obligations and commitment, have a sense of superiority, avoid intimacy, and think they are logical and intelligent.

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Who can express all three trends?

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Someone who is not neurotic can express all these trends in different circumstances. They are flexible in behaviours and attitudes.

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What is the self image of neurotics like?

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It is an idealized image constructed to unify their personality.

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What is the tyranny of the shoulds?

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When neurotics tell themselves they should behave a certain way.

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Why do neurotics use tyranny of the shoulds?

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They find their real self image undesirable and that they must live up to their idealized self image.

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What is externalization?

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Projecting conflicts on the outside world.