Communication Flashcards
(68 cards)
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role of technology
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- Transmits info
- Manages info
- Assists with home activities
- Helps elderly, less mobile, disabled individuals (ie. Sympathy robot)
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issues with technology
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- Stranger contact
- Cyberbullying
- Loss of privacy
- Image you feel you must project on Facebook
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cyberbullying
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- Someone spreading rumours about you online
- Someone posting an embarrassing picture of you online without your permission
- Someone sending you a threatening or aggressive email/text
- Someone forwarding a private picture or conversation without permission
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benefits to families and couples
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- Families felt closer today than when parents were children thanks to modern technology
- Opportunity for parent-child shared time even when apart
- Romantic couples use it to express affection when not physically together
- Adolescents: a review found positive interactions with peers they knew and associated with in real life and online
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developing friendships in cyberspace (benefits and costs)
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- You can be more open with people online -> learn more about them -> connect with people like yourself
- You get to know someone inside without being judged on appearance
- Age, race, etc. Don’t matter -> allows kids and adults to interact
- Might lose sense of personal conversation
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developing relationships in cyberspace
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- Just another way of making friendships
- Invest as much effort in maintaining relationships here as in other social spaces
- Are formed here in similar ways to in wider society
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how does type of communication influence romantic relationships?
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- Facebook: increased jealousy
- Internet and phone: no difference
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why do youth prefer texting to face-to-face communication?
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- Can talk to multiple people at once
- Leave large gaps in conversation
- Conceal truth
- Can clarify any misunderstanding quickly
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what method of communication do young couples (in their 20’s-30’s) use most? What did they use it for?
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- used cell phone most, then text messaging, then email
- Used least frequently: social networking site, instant messaging, blogs, webcams
- Reasons for using media: mostly for expressing affection, some for discussing serious issues, and a few for apologizing
- Things they did not use social media for: confrontational topics, topics that would hurt partner
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who uses media most (age and relationship status)? Who uses media for what?
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- Younger used all media sources more than older
- Married used all sources more than dating couples
- Those more satisfied with their relationship reported using media to express affection
- Those who ere less satisfied used media to begin a confrontational subject
- Key finding: text messaging had the strongest association with individuals’ positive and negative communication within their relationships
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instant messaging: what do positive messages include that negative ones don’t?
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- Respond more quickly
- Use more punctuation
- Agree with partner
- Use more words
- Use fewer affective terms
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people who are away from their families include…
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- International students
- Commuter families
- Within a country
- Across country boundaries
- Travel for work
- Military
- Arctic & Space Stations
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university students’ communication with family (most to least used)
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- Phone (Frequent phone conversations = more satisfying, supportive parental relationships)
- Face-to-face
- Social networking sites (the students who used these the most reported loneliness and parent-child conflict)
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comparison of communication with family: military vs. astronaut
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- Military
- Wanted to hear their voices
- Email best for showing intimacy and love
- Liked care packages
- Astronaut
- Wanted to see face and hear voice
- Like care packages with earth products
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family communication (what does it do? what is normal communication like?)
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- Promotes cohesion, adaptability, and functionality
- Normal compared to highly conflicted family:
- More harmonious
- More task oriented
- More satisfying
- Take less time to decide common activities
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destructive conflict
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Verbal attacks on a person’s sense of self
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constructive conflict
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- Focus on issue, not the other person’s deficits
- Constructive conflict resolution:
- Approach issue by determining each party’s hopes, values, beliefs, assumptions
- Determine commonalities and build from there
- Compromise and negotiate
- Remove ego
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Tannen’s points about communication in small groups
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- Parents should listen more to their teenage children and criticize them less
- Couples should talk about assumptions and bring hidden messages out in open
- Learn art of apology
- Win-win situations = ideal
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husbands are more satisfied than wives based on…
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- Shared emotions/beliefs
- Perception of how partner gives/received information
- Perception of adequacy of communicating with each other
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ways to satisfy marital communication
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- Agree essential points
- Feel understood
- Pleasant meal conversation
- No silent treatment
- Avoid saying irritating things
- Discuss interests/work
- Communicate affection and regard
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who is likely to discuss money matters?
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- If both members of a couple are knowledgeable about finances, creates even discussion
- Younger people more open to discussing
- Educated
- Larger households
- High monthly debts
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couples who communicate about money are more likely to…
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- use recommended financial practices
- Have greater quality of life (indirect effect through money management practices)
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gender differences in communication
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- Men talk more than women in public, but women say more words in a day than men
- Women think marriage is working if they talk about it, men are the opposite
- Women result men offering solutions, men think women don’t take action
- Women seek advice, men solve problems and move on
- Girls say “we, let’s” (cooperation); boys order (Leader)
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listening problems
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- View topic as uninteresting and turn off speaker
- Look at speaker’s features more than the message
- Not agreeing with or liking the sender’s message
- Pretending to listen when really thinking of other things
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dialogue vs. monologue
- dialogue: 2-way communication, genuine interaction, express concern for other people and their views to be supportive or empathetic
- monologue: opposite of a dialogue -> 1 person speaks and the other listens
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communication
- the process of transmitting a message from sender to receiver
- Communication is only effective when the receiver interprets the sender's message in the same way the speaker intended it (no interference)
- made up of channel + setting + noise
- step 6 (feedback) in Goldsmith's management model
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interference
anything that distorts or disrupts messages
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effective communication is
- Clear
- Concise
- Consistent
- Creative
- Sensitive to audience
- Persuasive (explains rather than demands)
- Open to differing opinions
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pace
speed with which you speak or communicate (quick pace = happiness, excitement; slow pace = boredom, talking down to someone)
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channel vs. setting vs. noise
- Channel: the method by which communication travels from sender to receiver (direct or indirect, social or expert)
- Setting: the physical surroundings where messages are communicated, can influence communication (ex. Quiet settings allow people to concentrate on each other, communication must be appropriate for the setting - ie. office vs. home)
- Noise: unwanted sound that interferes or distracts; barrier to communication; prevents message from being heard correctly (internal and external)
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direct vs. indirect channel
- direct channel: face to face (less miscommunication)
| - indirect channel: radio, tv, magazines, signs
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internal vs. external noise
- Internal noise: occurs in the sender and receiver’s minds - thinking about something else during the conversation (Ex. daydreaming, thinking about your weekend instead of focusing on lecture)
- External noise: comes from the environment, and can include more than just sounds (Ex. airplane overhead, hot blinding sun, wind, etc.)
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sending vs. receiving
- Sending: saying what one means to say, with agreement between verbal and nonverbal messages
- Receiving: listening to the verbal messages and observing the nonverbal messages
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source vs. destination
- Source: the sender/communicator
| - Destination: receiver/audience
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4 communication functions used by senders and receivers
- Encoding: putting thoughts, ideas, or information into symbolic form
- Decoding: receiver assigning meaning to the symbols
- Responses: individual reactions that follow a message
- Feedback: total response pattern between sender and receiver
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ways parents can communicate better with their kids
- Talking about problems and how they were overcome (not just talking about successes)
- Finding good guys and bad guys in stories
- Picking situations that kids and parents care about
- Including details about human nature
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ways listeners can communicate interest
- Learn forward (not back)
- Nod occasionally to show comprehension
- Smile
- Look at speaker and maintain eye contact
- Make comments like "I see", "go on", oh, "mmm"
- Taking notes/recording responses (if appropriate)
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types of listening
- Critical listening
- Reflective/empathetic listening
- Informational listening
- Pleasurable listening
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critical listening
listener evaluates and challenges what is heard (ie. Listening to a political debate – is the message accurate and reliable?)
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reflective/empathetic listening
listening for speaker's feelings; listening for details of the story, paraphrasing speaker’s comments etc.
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empathy
ability to recognize and identify another's feelings by putting yourself in someone else's place
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informational listening
listening to acquire knowledge or instruction (ie. Listening to a college lecture... this also involves critical listening too)
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pleasurable listening
provides enjoyment, relaxation, or amusement (ie. Listening to music, watching TV, listening to child say first word)
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message
total communication that is sent, listened to, and received
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ostrich effect
burying one's head in the sand; not wanting to know the content of an unwanted message or communication
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I-messages vs. you-messages
- I-message: statements or facts about how an individual feels or thinks (ex. "I feel stupid when you shout at me")
- You-message: statements that often ascribe blame or judge others (ex. "You need to stop yelling at me") -> Often lead to arguments because of their accusatory tone
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message construction vs. message content
- Message construction: appropriate placement of info in a message to have maximum impact
- Message content: strategies or information that may be used to communicate an idea or policy to receivers; best way to get message across
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symbols
- things that suggest something else through association
| - Visible symbols, abstract symbol, verbal symbols, words, nonverbal symbols
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visible symbols
can be seen (ie. Engagement ring)
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abstract symbols
ideas (ie. My apartment is "awesome" -> awesome symbolizes something different for everyone)
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verbal symbols
words
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non-verbal symbols
- anything other than words
- ex. Train whistles, sirens, tone and volume of voice, eye contact, demeanor, personal appearance, gestures, facial expressions, posture, and yawns, time, silence, and smell (make up around 90% of communication)
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social vs. advocate/expert channels
- Social channels: include friends, neighbours, and family members
- - Most likely to involve face-to-face contact due to proximity
- Advocate/expert channels: include experts in a field, salespeople, etc.
- - More likely to contact people through letters, speeches, or less direct forms of communication
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conflict
- state of disagreement or disharmony
- Poor communication can create conflict between sender and receiver, and this conflict tends to be amplified in families
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conflict resolution (and what affects it)
- negotiations to remedy the conflict
- Affected by:
- - Goals (long and short-term)
- - Emotional state (ex. Angry, sorry)
- - Cognitive assessment of situation (ex. Who is the cause of the conflict?)
- - Personality and communication (ex. Shy, extroverted, aggressive)
- - Family history (repeating patterns your family modeled)
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common forms of ineffective communication
- Ordering someone to do something
- Threatening
- Moralizing (making someone feel guilty)
- Providing solutions in a condescending way
- Lecturing
- Criticizing
- Ridiculing
- Analyzing
- Interrogating
- Withdrawing
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interpersonal conflict
- actions by one person that interfere in some way with the actions of another
- destructive vs. constructive
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social exchange theory
individuals seek to develop relationships that will maximize their benefits or profits and minimize the cost of defecits
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culture and communication
- Culture affects communication
- Both verbal and non-verbal forms of communication may be different cross-culturally
- ex. Correct social space
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3 purposes of communication in small groups
- Cement relationships
- Complete tasks and problem-solve
- Aid personal growth
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3 steps in group discussion
- Step 1: brainstorming (group members suggest and examine ideas)
- Step 2: move towards solutions and develop a plan
- Step 3: evaluate plan
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factors affecting group cohesion
- Size of group (smaller group = better cohesion)
- Goal-achievement orientation
- Status and resources of group
- Degree members depend on group for need satisfaction
- Demands or pressures group faces
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social networks vs. social networking sites
- social networks: communication connections among individuals and groups
- social network sites: LinkedIn, Facebook, etc -> web-based services that allow people to construct a profile, create lists of users they share a connection with, view their list and the list of others
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passively vs. actively acquired info
- Passively acquired: consumer doesn't seek out information (ie. Billboards, loudspeakers at stores)
- Actively acquired: consumer looks for it or engages in it (ie. Social networking, reading advertisements in magazines or signs at stores)
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low involvement
not thinking much about it; this is the typical way consumers react to info like store displays and advertisements
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habitual decision-making
choices are made out of habit without any additional information search
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information overload vs. information anxiety
- Information overload: individuals are exposed to so much information in a short time that they can't process it
- Information anxiety: gap between what individuals think they understand and what they actually understand; offshoot of info overload – people feel like they have to know everything about everything
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cocooning
desire to remain at home as a place of coziness, control, peace, insulation, and protection; facilitated by technology
