(Midterms) Interpersonal Relationships Flashcards

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interactions that occur between two people

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Interpersonal communication

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T or F: interpersonal communication only occurs personally (face-to-face)

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False; pwede rin through social media

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The act of dealing with someone else

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Interpersonal relationship

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T or F: Interpersonal relationship satisfy our innate human needs to feel connected with others

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True

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5
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People we know by name but not always interacting with

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Acquaintance

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People we voluntarily negotiate to have more personal feelings

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Friends

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People we have high degree of interdependence, commitment, disclosure, etc

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Intimates

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T or F: intimate relationships can be either platonic or romantic

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True

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9
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Partners are not sexually attracted to each other

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Platonic

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Partners are sexually attracted to each other

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Romantic

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Placing confidence in another person that might involve risk

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Trust

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Acquaintance guidelines in order

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  1. Initiate conversation
  2. Nake comments relevant
  3. Develop other-centered trust
  4. Engage in turn-taking
  5. Be polite
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Friendship guidelines in order

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  1. Initiation
  2. Responsiveness
  3. Self-disclosure
  4. Emotional support
  5. Conflict management
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Being proactive about spending time together

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Initiation

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Asking questions, listening and responding properly

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Responsiveness

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Are based on the exchange of more personal information, opinions and feelings

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Friendship

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Providing comfort and support when needed

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Emotional support

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Intimacy guidelines

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  • Dependability
  • responsiveness
  • collaborative
  • faithfulness
  • transparency
  • willingness
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T or F: intimacy development does not vary on every culture

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False; it varies

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20
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Doesn’t typically reach out to acquaintance until properly introduced

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Collectivist culture

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Countries that have collectivist culture on intimacy

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  • china
  • taiwan
  • japan
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May share private info and personal feelings

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Individualistic culture

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countries that have individualist culture on intimacy

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US

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24
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Describe the development of interpersonal relationship

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Social penetration theory

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When a relationship develop, the individuals undergo what
Self-disclosure
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Known for its onion analogy
Social penetration theory
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Like this, we open layer by layer
Onion
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Conceptualized a model of self-disclosure
Irwin altman and dalmas tatlor
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Range of diff subjects you discuss with your partner
Breadth
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Quality of info shared
Depth
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May vary from safe to very confidential and risky
Depth
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Named after its originators
Johari window
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Created the Johari window
- joe luft - harry ingham
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Consists if 4 panes that comprise all information about you
Johari window
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Information about you that both u and ur partner know
Open pane
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Everything you Know but your partner doesn't
Secret panel
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Info your partner knows about you but you don't realize
Blind pane
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Information you and your partner doesn't know
Unknown panel
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Focus in beginning and developing relationship
Coming together
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Reduces uncertainty as we understand how our partner sees the work
Communication
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We begin communicating very generally about what
Non-controversial topics
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Stages of relationship in order
1. Coming together 2. Staying together 3. Coming apart
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Include spending time together and communicating honestly
Staying together
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Sacrifice by putting their needs/desire on hold to attend their other half needs
Partners
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Consists communication strategies to keep the relationship running
Relationship maintenance
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When one or both partners fail to engage actively in the relationship
Coming apart
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4 stages in declining relationship in orde4
1. Circumscribing 2. Stagnating 3. Avoiding 4. Terminating
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First sign a relationship is declining
Circumscribing
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When communication decreases in both quantity and quality
Circumscribing
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T or F: Circumscribing occurs when both partners ignore the problem even if it troubles them internally
True
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Partners go through motions of interacting w/o emotion
Stagnating
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Creating physical distance between them and making excuses nit of doing things together
Avoiding
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When the couple attempt to explain why the relationship failed
Terminating
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T or f: in termination, relationship can transform
True
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When the couple decide to end the relationship
Terminating
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When the couple looks for things to blame each other than to find solution to have the relationship be back to what it was
Terminating
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Putting your best foot forward
Hyperpersonal communication
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Created the hyperpersonal communication
Joe walther
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When we assume that our online conversational partner is similar to us in the beginnings of the relationship
Hyperpersonal communication
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Uses different mediums in building/maintaining/destroying relationships
Media muntiplexity
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Tension between conflicting forces
Dialectic
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Competing physiological tension in a relationship
Relational dialectics
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The desire to do things independently from your partner
Autonomy
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Desire to link actions and decisions w/ ur partner
Connection
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Desire to share intimate ideas and feelings
Openness
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Desire to keep things to your self
Closedness
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Desire for originality, uniqueness in behavior, partner's behavior or relationship
Novelty
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Desire for consistency, reliability or the relationship itself
Predictability
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Choosing one desire while ignoring another one temporarily
Temporal selection
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Choosing certain topics to satisfy one desire and other topic/s to satisfy the opposing desire
Topical segmentation
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Compromising between the desire of one person and the desires of the other
Neutralization
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Partially meeting the desire of both but doesn't fully meet the need of either
Neutralization
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Strategy of changing perception about the opposing desire so they no longer seem uite the contradictory
Reframing