Peers Flashcards
Final Exam (84 cards)
peers
those you interact with who around the same age as you, but not related
friendship
a close mutual, reciprocal, voluntary relationship
- Mutual and reciprocal: you need to choose each other to count as friends (needs to be both ways)
- 75-80% kids have a friend
○ But: 10-20% don’t seem to have a mutual friendship
perceptions of friendship with age
How we define/think of friendships changes as we get older
- increases of ‘time spent with peers’ & ‘perspective taking abilities’ change friendships
perceptions of friendship: 1-2 years
kids have preferences on who they play with
perceptions of friendship: early childhood
3-4 years: able to identify their friends
- live nearby, have nice toys, like to play
○ Based on proximity
- Rewards vs. costs: “this person is my friend because they have good toys”; “this person is my friend because they are nice to me”
§ When they have something to offer to you
perceptions of friendship: middle childhood
start thinking about this mutual dynamic
- shared interests
- take care of/support each other
perceptions of friendship: adolescence
shared interests + shared values
○ Starts to become more abstract
○ Less about what you like to do, more towards what you believe/value
○ Who you engage in self disclosure with
causes of friendship definitions w/ age
- Time spent with peers increases, particularly in childhood and adolescence
○ Deepness of relationship may come from more time together- Perspective taking: underlied by cognitive development
○ Early on: very egocentric (ie what you can give)
○ Later: taking on other people’s perspectives and beliefs
§ You want to be connected to people who’s ideas and interests are similar to yours
- Perspective taking: underlied by cognitive development
function of friendships
- buffer in stressful times
- emotional support
- physical support
- development of social skills
- model and reinforce behavior
- conflict resolution
- social comparison, norms
- stimulation
buffer in stressful times (friendship)
§ If there’s stress, we tend to adjust better if we have friend
§ Moving to a new school
friendship: buffering stressful times EXPERIMENT
When your best friend is not present (in context of negative events): more of a cortisol release
□ Friends can be a buffer against negative events
§ When the friend is present: less cortisol
Model and reinforce behavior (friendship)
Deviancy training: if your friends are doing unhealthy behaviors (drinking, drugs, etc.), children are more likely to model
social comparison, norms (friendship)
- How you stand relative to other people; how your behavior is seen relative to other people
- Can happen through conversations (gossip, talk, etc.)
stimulation (friendship)
enjoyment, entertainment, etc.
○ You hang out with friends because it’s fun, you get entertainment, etc.
general research on friendship and wellbeing
research indicates that having friends appears to be highly beneficial in development
- Predicts better wellbeing
Less time/less friends= less positive wellbeing and outcomes
clique
- smaller, voluntary, friendship-based groups (3-10 people, avg. ~4-5 people)
- shared interests and attitudes; hang out together + make a social group
- tend to have a shared background
- ~50-75% of teems are members of a clique
cliques: trends w/ shared background & demographics
Early childhood: same gender, mixed race
Later adolescence: move to more mix gender groups, tend to be more of the same ethnic/racial group
- initially same gender, move to more mixed genders
- initially mixed race, move to more same race
crowds
reputation-based groups
- More based on what someone’s reputation is
○ Ex: jocks, stoners, drama/theatre kids, band geeks, etc.
less voluntary, more based on external assessments and what the community thinks of you
Ex: not everyone seen as a geek gets good grades, not everyone seen as a jock is good at sports
function of cliques
- context of friendship-
- social group
- sense of belongingness
- for straight teens: can support/guide interests in romantic relationships
cliques to romantic couples: pathway
same gender cliques –> mixed gender cliques –> romantic couples
cliques: influence on dating
- Help to support the development of romantic relationships
○ Very common for early dating in straight teens come out of those friendships
○ Queer folks: date outside of the friendship + outside of a school all together
function of crowds
- locate individuals w/i social environment (you know who your people are)
- establish social norms: gives expectations of how other people behavie OR expectations of how other people expect you to behave
- identity development: how identities are placed onto us shape how we see ourselves
- self-esteem: when teens belong to crows that are seen as higher status crowd, this predicts higher self esteem
peer status
how you’re thought of by peers
sociometric status:
In order to understand relationships, you need to look at multiple components
- look at the component of how people are liked AND disliked
- “name 3 kids you like and 3 kids you dislike”