relationships Flashcards
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evolutionary explanations darwin 1871
adaptiveness and reproduction success.
behavioural feature = genetically inherited with value.
1) natural selection - humans adapt better to environment
2) sexual selection - attract a male and have healthy offspring
male sex cells
sperm cells.
millions
more successful
tail to swim
male sexual selection strategy
intra sexual - quantity of females. competition between males to reproduce with females, winner passes off their characteristics.
dimorphism
physical differences between genders.
big and string males.
males may be aggressive towards females to protect them from other males.
anisogamy
males require little energy to produce sperm so mate with as many females as possible.
preference for younger females.
female sex cell
egg cells
one egg
more selective
9 months
female sexual selection strategy
intersexual - quality of males. want commitment, time and resources before n after birth.
females have more to lose so males compete.
female selection of which features are attractive is passed onto to offspring.
support for evolutionary explanations - Buss
survey on 10,000 adults in 33 countries.
females placed value on resource related attributes.
males valued reproduction capacity
evaluation of evolutionary explanations
ignore social and cultural influences. independence now shows they don’t look for resources as much.
more complicated - females preferences change across menstrual cycle. strong masculine while fertile, feminised as long term.
clark n hatfield - uni students asked “i find u attractive, would u go to bed with me”. no female agreed but 75% men said yes.
linking evolutionary factors to issues n debates
biological reductionism - broken down to genetics
biological determinism - they will compete, produce.
factors affecting attraction: self disclosure
jourard: argued building a relationship based on trust - gradual info.
altman and taylor: social penetration theory - by gradually revealing emotions and experiences and listening to sharing, greater understanding of eachother and display trust.
two dimensions of self disclosure
bredth n depth.
at first, share a lot of info on certain aspects of themselves (breadth) but consider some topics off limits (depth).
too much too soon may worsen a relationship.
stage of SD appropriateness
is certain info on 1st date too much.
social norms exist as to what is okay in certain situations
stage of SD - attributions
reasons we believe someone’s self disclosing can be important.
less attraction occurs if disclose a lot to everyone or seen to benefit them.
stages of SD - gender differences
females tend to be better at SD & communication.
when a male done, seen at trust n rewarding to females.
males can feel uncomfortable with females SD info
stages of SD - content
highly intimate SD may be inappropriate, especially early. decreases attraction
Reis and shaver
argue in order for a relationship to develop there needs to be reciprocal disclosure. balanced
evaluation of SD as an explanation
correlations aren’t valid. don’t tell us why. more satisfied = more SD may not be direct cause.
real world application helps ppl who want to improve communication.
cultural differences - NuTang reviewed research into sexual self disclosure n concluded individualist SD more sexual but doesn’t affect level of satisfaction
factors affecting attraction - physical
symmetrical faces are viewed more attractively as sign of health & genetic fitness.
large eyes, small nose
the matching hypothesis
persons choice of partner is a balance between the desire to have the most physically attractive one but also their wish to avoid being rejected by someone out their league. settle for same level.
walster and walster - procedure
students invited to dance. rated on attractiveness by objective observers at start and also completed questionnaire about themselves.
used to determine partner for evening (acc j random)
walster and walster - findings
hypothesis wasn’t supported. most liked partners were also most attractive and didn’t take own level into account.
the halo effect
idea that attractive ppl are perceived in a positive light. supported by palmer and peterson - rate pics on knowledge etc. attractive ppl rated highest.
evaluation of physical attractiveness
research to support halo effect - dion et al found attractive ppl rated as successful etc. expected to have more desirable characteristics and behave positively towards them.
research contradicting matching hypothesis - taylor. dating app found more likely to arrange to meet with more attractive.
cunningham found women who had small nose, large eyes rated attractive by white, hispanic and asian men. all cultures.