Relationships and families Flashcards
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Key facts
Muslims ses the extended family as the basis of the ummah
Many Muslims believe Allah created marriage for the sharing of love and companionship
It is important for Muslim families that parents should be respected throughout their lives and into old age
What does Islam teach on same sex marriage?
Homosexuality is forbidden as it is seen as a threat to society as it undermines the family unit
In Islam, same sex marriage is forbidden as in the Quran it says sex should only take place between a man and a woman as procreation is possible. However, procreation is not possible in a homosexual relationship so its forbidden.
In the Quran it says: “You commit a shameful deed… You lust after men instead of women!”
Also seen as unnatural and in it is punishable by death in shariah law which is islamic law, suggesting that homosexual relationships are wrong.
“Kill the one that is doing it and also kill the one that it is being done to” Hadith
Islam teaches that marriage is between a man and a woman for companionship and protection. Same-sex marriage does not allign with the purpose of marriage in Islam, which is to create a family and uphold societal values.
In Islam, same-sex marriage is forbidden as Islam teaches that marriage should take place between a man and a woman for companionship and procreation. Same-sex marriage does not allign with the purpose of marriage in Islam which is to create a family as same-sex couples cannot procreate. Also, in the Quran it says “You commit a shameful deed… you lust after men instead of women” which prohibits same-sex marriage.
In Islam, same-sex marriage is forbidden because marriage should be between a man and a woman for companionship and procreation. Same-sex couples cannot have children naturally, so it goes against the purpose of marriage. The Qur’an says, “You commit a shameful deed… you lust after men instead of women,” showing it is not allowed.
What do Muslims believe on sex before marriage?
Many Muslims believe that sex is a gift from Allah, and that the best place for a sexual relationship is within marriage since your spouse should be a source of comfort.
The Quran also teaches that Muslims should be chaste and avoid zina.
Muslims believe that Allah will reward them for not having a sexual relationship until after marriage, as they believe this is how Allah intended couples to live
“When a husband and wife share intimacy it is rewarded and a blessing from Allah” - Hadith
What do muslims believe on sex outside of marriage (adultery)?
Many Muslims believe that sex outside of marriage is wrong. This is because Muslims believe that marriage is a sacred contract and adultery breaks the trust and commitment between spouses
“And do not come near to adultery, for it is an outrageous act”
What are Muslim views against Contraception?
Muslims are against Contraception as they believe that children are a gift from Allah. Therefore, some Muslims oppose contraception as it interferes with Allah’s plan and it shows you are rejecting his gift.
Also disliked by Prophet Muhammad
In a Hadith, When Prophet Muhummad was asked about coitus interruptus he said “Do you really do that? It is better for you not to do it”
“Marry the one who is fertile and loving, for I will boast of your great numbers.”
“He blesses whoever He wills with daughters, and blesses whoever He wills with sons,”
You should not avoid having children even if you are struggling financially as Allah will provide for you and your children. In the Quran it says “Do not kill your children for fear of poverty - we shall provide for them and for you” which explains that Contraception is wrong because a couple shouldn’t try to prevent pregnancy out of poverty. Muslims believe that Allah will provide for their family, for example through Zakah or the ummah.
What is the purpose of family?
To procreate
To raise children in a Christian/Muslim faith
To provide a secure environment for family through marriage
Many Christians believe that marriage is a commitment for couples to love and support each other and share in the care and upbringing of children.
Islamic teachings on relationships (2)
Sex is an act of worship - it is a gift from Allah so people can procreate
Sexual relationships fullfill physical, emotional and spiritual needs and should only be between a man and a woman
Non religious views on sex
Many atheists agree that adultery is wrong as it breaks trust and promises
Many atheists are accepting of sex before marriage as it does nothing wrong
Christian views on sex before marriage
Some Liberal Christians agree with it as it is a valid expression of love for each other, particularly if the couple are intending to marry
For many Christians sex expresses a deep lifelong union that requires the commitment of marriage
Paul warns against sexual immorality
Christianity teaches the purpose of marriage is to have children, and that sexual relationships before marriage do not provide a stable basis for the bringing children into the world.
“whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body” Bible
Christian views on sex outside of marriage
It is against one of the 10 commandments : “You shall not commit adultery”
Breaks promises and trust before God and make the relationship unstable
Nature of families in islam
Muslims believe that Allah created family life in order to keep society together so they see family as the foundation of the community. They also follow the example of Muhummad who was married with a family.
Muslims care for the elderly with kindness and respect to repay for how they cared for them. They consider it a privilege and a duty to care for elderly family members. This means Muslims often live in extended families.
“My Lord! Be merciful to them as they raised me when I was young”
Key purpose of marriage is procreation
Educating children, Muslims believe that within a family, children should be raised as good Muslims and parents must teach their children to make them devout Muslims
“Command your family to pray”
Nature of families in christianity
People lived in extended family
“be fruitful and multiply”
Christians must love each another
Parents have a responsibility to love, support and care for their children to keep them safe. They raise their children as Christians getting them baptised and introduced them to Christian teachings as this is their duty.
“Children are a Heritage from the Lord”
Children have a responsibility to obey parents
“Children, obey your parents”
Nucleur, Extended, Single family
The Church us seen as a family that Christians belong to and the Christian community can provide support for families when they face problems
Both religion view on same sex parents
Forbidden in islam as homosexuality is morally wrong and they wouldn’t set a good example for their children
Some Christians think it is important for children to be in a loving family regardless of parents gender
Christian views on same sex marriage
1) Love between all people including same sex couples should be celebrated And that homosexual relationships are acceptable as all humans were created in the image of God.
And the bible teaches to respect everyone “Love thy neighbour”
Homosexuality is natural
God intended marriage to be between a man and a woman and it is a part of God’s plan
“If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination”
Same sex couples cannot have children naturally which is the purpose of marriage
Islamic teachings on divorce
It is allowed as Allah values your opinion and Muslims believe that in some situations a divorce may be better, such as for the children.
and marriage is a contract in Islam so can be dissolved
“And if they decide on divorce - then indeed, Allah is Hearing and Knowing”
Divorce is allowed but is not recommended and it should he the last resort.
“Of all the things Allah has made lawful, he hates divorce the most” Hadith
Some Muslims do not do divorce as Muhummad SAW didn’t practice it. Muslims will follow the teachings of Muhummad, so if he didn’t practice it many Muslims won’t. Also, divorce can ruin family ties and cause tension, Muhummad SAW encouraged peace.
Christian teachings on divorce
Liberal Christians allow divorce as long as the couple take vows seriously. They believe that couples should be allowed a second chance of happiness particularly if the partner had committed adultery or sexual abuse as God is all-loving and forgiving
Traditional christians do not allow divorce as they believe that marriage is permanent and vows made in God’s presence must be kept.
“Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man she commits adultery
Explain two religious beliefs about the nature and purpose of family (islam)
Many Muslims live in extended families. Based on cultural traditions, many Muslims see the extended family as the foundation of Islamic society. Part of that duty is to look after older members of the family who have looked after them as children: “Lord have mercy on them, just as they cared for me when I was little,” (Qur’an 17:24).
The purpose of the Muslim family can also include raising children in the Islamic faith. Mothers will often pray with their children at home during Friday prayers. The mother’s role is seen as very important in Islam: “Heaven is under the feet of the mothers,” (Hadith of Prophet Muhammad).
Muslim views for Contraception
Some Muslims may accept the use of Contraception to preserve the life of the mother if her life would be under threat through having a pregnancy or to plan when to have children as this allows procreation in the future and doesn’t put strain on the family
“No one should be burdened with more than they can bear”
allowed for suffering
Christian views on Contraception
Some Christians are against Contraception as it interferes with God’s plan and christians believe they should only have sex to have children
“be fruitful and multiply”
Some Liberal Christians may accept Contraception as they believe that it would be unfair to bring a baby in a life of suffering and that you should have control over how many children you have and when you have them
Explain two reasons why most muslims are against homosexuality
One reason why Muslims are against homosexuality is because its directly prohibited in the Quran. This can be seen in the story of lut where homosexuals are killed
Another reason why Muslims don’t accept homosexuality is because it is prohibited in Sharia law which is the laws of Islam. This can be seen where the hadith says “Kill the one that is doing it and kill the one that its being done to” regarding homosexuality. This clearly states that homosexuality is forbidden in Islam.
Islamic teachings on marriage
The purpose of marriage is to:
-share love, companionship, and sex, which is Allah’s intention for humans
-have children and bring them up in the Muslim faith
“Marry those among you who are single” Quran
One reason why Muslims marry is because it allows Muslims to have children and avoid zina which is sex outside of marriage which is forbidden in the Quran
Another reason is that marriage brings stability and unites families. It also allows Muslims to follow the teachings of the Prophet as he said “Marriage is my sunnah” in a hadith showing its important in Islam.
Marriage is intended to be for life
Muslim men can have up to 4 wives
Explain two features of muslim wedding
Nikah- marriage contract in Islam
Simple ceremony, reading Quran, exchange of vows for both partners
Marriages have to be declared publicly and celebrations happen
Mahr - Muslim husband has to agree to a financial deal with the wife before marriage
During divorce, the bride is entitled to keeping the mahr
Stages of Muslim divorce
Initiation - parents and extended family of the couple attempt to help the couple resolve their differences
Iddah - Three month waiting period where the couple live in the same house but don’t sleep together
The husband announces “I divorce you” 3 times during iddah
(Reconciliation- Muslims hope it is possible to reconcile during Iddah and Allah will forgive them)
Completion - After 4 months if the wife isn’t pregnant and Reconciliation attempts have failed then the marriage has ended
Role of men and women in Islam
Traditionally, in a Muslim household men and women have different roles MEN are expected to protect and provide for the family whereas women should stay at home and look after the family. Furthermore, men are expected to attend the mosque for the Jummah service whereas women aren’t.
However, in a modern Muslim household both parents work and share responsibility in the household. This means that men and women share the same roles
