The Five Toos - Problematic Behaviour

Question 1

What is the first ‘Too’ in the Five Too’s rule?

Answer 1

Too Long: How long has the client’s distress or problematic behaviour been going on?

This refers to the duration of the client’s issues.

Question 2

What does ‘Too Extreme’ refer to in the Five Too’s?

Answer 2

Are the behaviours or responses of the client extreme or unusually problematic, odd or disturbing?

This evaluates the severity of the client’s behavior.

Question 3

What does ‘Too Pervasive’ indicate in the context of client behavior?

Answer 3

Does the pattern of problematic behaviour pervade multiple areas of the person’s life?

It assesses the breadth of the client’s issues across different life domains.

Question 4

What question is asked under ‘Too Defended’?

Answer 4

Is the person defensive about the behaviours? Is the person open to changing these patterns?

This explores the client’s willingness to acknowledge and address their issues.

Question 5

What does ‘Too Resistant’ assess regarding the client’s behavior?

Answer 5

Do the problematic behavioural, cognitive and emotional patterns respond to intervention or are you getting nowhere?

This determines the effectiveness of interventions on the client’s issues.

Question 6

What should a coach do when in doubt about the appropriateness of coaching for a client?

Answer 6

The coach needs to either resolve the doubt or refer!

This emphasizes the importance of making informed decisions regarding client coaching.